@drshannoncurry: How do you know that you’re in a relationship that’s doomed to fail? 💔Turns out there’s been a lot of science devoted to that question and we have some pretty specific answers. 🔬Watch to find out what they are and how we can right the ship— even if these patterns are currently present in your relationship!❤️🩹 #dating #divorce #breakup #coupletherapy #gottman #gottmaninstitute #relationshipgoals #lovestory@BrittanyFurlan @brittany schmitt @This Is The Worst Podcast @TheGottmanInstitute
I love how we have to learn how to speak to men like gentle parenting children
2025-01-02 22:10:01
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noreltobb :
So walking on eggshells?
2024-12-28 13:02:24
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Tessa Erickson :
Noo not the gentle parenting😆
2024-12-28 09:52:17
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Michelle :
My husband doesn’t understand how his stonewalling is emotional abuse.
2025-01-03 09:21:49
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Yasodhara Kariyawasam :
This is basically walking on egg shells. I literally just ask my brother to turn down the volume when he’s gaming (because I’m reading) and he just does it. That’s what mature behaviour looks like.
2025-01-03 21:21:53
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. :
"Hey honey, could you turn down the TV, I'm trying to work."
"Oh yeah, sure thing, babe."
It's really not that complicated.
2025-01-03 12:45:30
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r230724 :
There’s also, “one of them gets sober.”
2024-12-22 01:35:31
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Dominique🇳🇱 :
"Could you turn the volume down while I work" isn't a criticism though?😅
2025-01-03 13:20:30
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everenchantednat :
So treat them like toddlers?! Cba
2025-01-06 16:23:58
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trojanusc23 :
My parents have been married 40yrs and they engage in all 4 red flags.
2024-12-22 23:45:44
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Grace :
Why are the comments talking about gentle parenting? This is literally just kind and direct communication? Which you should do in a relationship?
2025-01-05 01:37:20
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puffyismydog :
ahhhh too much work I’d rather not be with that person
2025-01-02 23:06:00
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quazyj123 :
If you don’t get married life is very peaceful
2025-01-03 15:32:41
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bailey schieck :
so many of the comments are missing the point entirely omg
2025-01-05 16:49:42
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Brian :
inner work & growth…accountability..
2024-12-22 17:47:26
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ricospam2ngjl :
Having 4 lacostes on your shirt
2025-01-03 23:54:55
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yahmom :
I ain't got time to ask and then teach someone how to do the chores. #overstimulatedftm
2025-01-02 19:17:19
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Kendall :
I went to therapy to be better at communicating with my ex. he never worked in himself and was always defensive. I divorced him. life's too short to not be met half way.
2025-01-03 21:56:19
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Em :
so you want me to gentle parent my husband 🤣🤣
2025-01-06 16:05:28
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CEOofNeckTies :
That ‘formula one’ was personal
2025-01-04 18:33:55
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Artifcial Insanity :
there is one word to describe this and the word is RESPECT, people lose it in relationships
2025-01-01 23:41:52
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TheGottmanInstitute :
Great insights! 💙Thanks for tagging us in this post about the Four Horsemen—a concept we developed to help couples identify and overcome harmful communication patterns.
2025-01-10 22:46:00
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Beau :
So if you make it past the first five years you’re ok?
2024-12-22 00:50:58
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Intern Adam :
Everyone on TikTok now thinking about their relationships through this lens! 😳😏
2024-12-21 23:57:36
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