I’m a disorganized attachment, so I understand both sides. It’s our responsibility to heal tho, so that we don’t continue hurting people.
2024-12-23 18:42:22
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Caitlinᖭི༏ᖫྀ🦋༝꩜ :
people villainize avoidant attachments sm when in reality they should villainize both
2024-12-23 17:49:46
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CeramicsByAna :
Heal yourself and then find a secure partner so they don’t trigger you. Sending you positive vibes
2024-12-25 04:11:18
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ellie :
can’t relate bc i’m anxious attachment
2024-12-23 05:58:45
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L :
avoidant attachment ruined me
2024-12-23 08:20:55
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ʜᴇᴀᴠᴇɴʟʏ ᴅᴇᴍᴏɴ :
1. Don’t talk to no else until you fix yourself
2024-12-23 14:22:27
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noah :
went from severe anxious attachment to severe avoidant attachment after dating avoidants idc what y'all say avoidants are sm worse i'd rather come off as clingy than actively hurting someone 😭
2024-12-23 10:17:01
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lara :
please try to change , therapy can help , because it really hurts the people around and don't get me wrong we all have certain traits to work on💗 but i've known someone with an avoidant attachment fo
2024-12-23 12:29:42
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ruru :
and the thought that i did them wrong is killing me
2024-12-23 02:00:23
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ang :
Y’all mad at avoidant but don’t want to consider the trauma they went through to become this way
2024-12-23 19:05:29
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morgananan :
people commenting to “fix yourself”, it’s not that simple. i do not understand my own feelings. i can completely want someone and feel ready to be with them, then suddenly it’s just gone.
2024-12-24 07:05:19
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𝐤𝐚𝐲𝐝𝐞𝐧 :
No cuz I want them so bad but the second I get any kind of attention back I feel so sick to my stomach and anxious and get panic attacks like I HAVE to pull away
2024-12-23 07:08:25
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kookamunga :
i kindly beg of avoidants to heal first before even talking to anyone to spare them the hurt of being led on
2024-12-23 14:51:18
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lexaproliv :
the comments tearing avoidants to shreds as if we don’t already feel guilty enough lmfao 😻 awesome
2024-12-24 00:52:18
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Kelsie ✨🤍 :
As a person who transitioned from anxious to avoidant attachment, avoidant somehow hurts worse, because I know it’s “my fault”
2024-12-23 08:16:48
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𝐞𝐦𝐦𝐚🎀💌 :
n then when they're gone all u want is to get them back
2024-12-23 09:42:19
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Kim444 :
If you think that’s draining, put yourself on the opposite end as the person having to deal with someone giving their all & then turning around and acting like it’s nothing out of nowhere 😭
2024-12-24 02:32:37
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elyo :
why people so mean, it's not like we asked for having avoidant attachment issues ☹️
2024-12-23 18:01:56
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lifewithanou :
Avoidants make more Avoidants. The cycle needs to break.
2024-12-23 13:54:36
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Syd 🧚🏼♀️✨ :
Exactly why I refuse to get in a relationship again until I’ve healed. I broke that boy and I refuse to do it to anyone else.
2024-12-23 20:39:20
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samara.718 :
i’m an avoidant for the right people and and an anxious for the wrong people
2024-12-23 10:25:27
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jocelyn 🤍✨🪩 :
As a former avoidant, I kept myself out of the dating pool until I made steps to change my way of thinking bc I’m not hurting someone bc I’m hurt
2024-12-23 21:56:49
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Katie :
Can we just acknowledge that hurting other people does in fact hurt us? We’re sorry, and wounded.
2024-12-26 00:04:22
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R :
exact situation i’m in and idk what to do
2024-12-22 11:04:04
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