Avoidants are emotional abusers of people who care about them the most.
2024-12-24 20:15:29
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Gillian Murphy :
avoidants cause more hurt I think. after 4 months & lots of plans I was just ghosted. I'm definitely anxious but would never do that to someone knowing they had feelings for me
2024-12-23 12:09:37
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TRON🎣🇺🇸💯 :
Doesn’t matter how they feel they still continue to hurt their partner , mine ghosted last Christmas and just did again this Christmas , I literally did nothing
2024-12-23 02:58:52
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PARKER :
why discard instead of sit down face it explain instead of just Ghost or vanish without clarity?
2024-12-24 07:00:11
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Melissa :
My avoidant reach out 3 weeks after the discard (I went no contact) and he said how awful he felt, though he still stood firm in his choice
2024-12-23 03:50:11
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Nic :
Rather be anxious and most of the time the avoidant makes the anxious person 100 times worse
2024-12-24 16:48:39
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Melo :
No explanation and non verbal communication is what destroys the partner who was discarded
2024-12-23 15:09:17
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Nellie.xox :
As someone who has been discarded just this week, it's knowing it was premeditated despite loving words and gestures and no indication. Rug pull 😔
2025-01-19 14:47:07
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Anissa B :
I have anxious attachment and would love to become avoidant cause life seems easier for them 😭
2024-12-26 19:42:21
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champagne problems :
I’m a DA and do feel guilt but I also convince myself that my partner is fine and doing okay after the breakup.
2024-12-23 03:34:52
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Deborah Davis :
Using it as a weapon is not protection
2024-12-23 13:02:04
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pixie.andrea :
He said he was secure but now I’m realizing he’s avoidant in the way he discarded me
2024-12-23 16:33:28
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Snapwalk | Selfcare :
Avoidants can never heal fully
2024-12-23 06:48:17
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Court :
The discard is absolutely brutal. It’s not about them doing the leaving it’s the heartless way in which they do so.
2025-06-04 13:38:43
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Deconstruction Sight... 🦋 :
Avoidants are one step away from narcs
2025-01-25 16:13:35
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NR38 :
anxious get more anxious with avoidant, but with person without avoidant style, suprise anxious person get less anxious, because have person wich understand need to ashure care and show it.
2024-12-23 18:42:51
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Pablo’s.17 :
Why I should wait one apologise after “few years”. for that time I don’t mind anymore. Avoidants are ppl that when you move on you don’t want them back never again .
2024-12-26 01:56:44
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Foreign :
I feel nothing. Just miss my supply from time to time
2024-12-22 22:46:48
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camillaayla :
I love your courage for spreading the truth, thank you 💕
2024-12-22 23:17:23
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DrawingGamer :
As someone who was secure and made anxious cause of my avoidant ex I will never allow that person in again or deal with avoidants, he’ll her apology a year later she ended by saying no Bf and still
2025-01-12 14:39:27
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Elise Güven :
How do you explain when they jump into a rebound straight away?
2025-01-01 17:45:13
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user123994679938 :
She did literally what you described with the silent treatment and it’s was extremely abusive we are 4 months no contact she likes my photos and watches all my stories super fast and has me on her cf
2024-12-23 03:38:33
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