It probably forces you to manage a connection with the giver - show gratitude or appreciation for something you don't want or didn't ask for. Could trigger obligation to reciprocate which is pressure.
2024-12-24 03:45:23
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tynesha1984 :
Social Worker here it creates a feeling of owing because they gave you something
2024-12-27 04:54:11
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GirlLalouch :
For me it’s because people NEVER get me anything I actually want or need. I rather have people choose from a wishlist so they get me what I want.
2024-12-23 20:42:09
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🧟♂️ :
U get a gift u gotta give a gift
2024-12-23 21:41:36
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Nicole Contreras :
For real
2024-12-28 19:30:36
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juelle :
Definitely childhood 🤣
2024-12-23 20:55:58
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Adriana YourFavoriteTaxAdvisor :
BECAUSE YOU FEEL BAD AND WANT TO GIVE THE GIFT GIVER SOMETHIGN BACK 😅😅
2025-01-02 23:53:01
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dread :
I have a degree in gifts and also suffer from the same thing . This is what happens when you’re so use to being the giver that you actually forget how to recieve .
2024-12-26 01:33:45
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keegsup :
absolutely child hood 🤣
2024-12-24 14:22:23
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astrogirly3328 :
you are so beautiful
2024-12-24 02:12:00
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ana7171 :
yes childhood 🤔
2024-12-23 21:23:04
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Bebe 🩷 :
I think it’s the follow up. Well for me it is… I get anxiety thinking about what to get them and was it good enough i just rather not get anything. Idk such a weird feeling
2024-12-24 14:18:01
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76gingersnap :
Definitely childhood trauma.. the same reason I cry on Christmas, even tho they are all great Christmas’s.
2024-12-24 14:26:38
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Dee :
Bruh same
2024-12-23 20:28:54
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MsM.Ezell :
Different reasons. Some don’t feel deserving, some may now feel like they have to return the favor or maybe it is getting something you don’t want and it doesn’t get used.
2024-12-24 14:01:39
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ailayshia :
Degree in Social Work; I personally hate it because of the expectations to get them something too. Especially when I have no idea what they want/need.
2024-12-24 02:40:47
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Taylor | Lifestyle :
Probably the fact that you have to show appreciation for the gift despite how you feel to be considered a good person plus in return give a gift that fits their idea of your financial status
2024-12-24 02:43:03
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Cassie :
I don't hate gifts but I hate opening them in front of the people.who bought them.
2024-12-26 04:39:39
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StarleighMarie :
It’s because you’re humble and you’d rather give than receive 👏👏
2024-12-26 13:31:00
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G. Allen :
Thought I was the only one 🤦🏽♂️
2024-12-23 20:04:05
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Erica :
I’m the same way! I hate it too. It’s just awkward
2025-01-03 16:50:10
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Lil Bit 💖❤️🔥 :
“But yeah I’m not paying for therapy” that’s so real 😂🤣
2025-01-07 12:34:10
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Natalee Birthzang :
Same every birthday im so disappointed, id rather just be taken out to dinner 😂😂😂
2024-12-24 07:03:51
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Dottie Burke265 :
Would love to hear more about your birthdays and Christmas as a child🎄🥰
2024-12-24 14:29:33
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ShaKia :
I’m the same way!! 9/10, I get myself what I want so I don’t need people getting me something I don’t want or like.
2024-12-24 01:54:43
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