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Wallahi let’s not romantisize this in the comments. The way some men treat women in muslim countries ain’t sum you should want. You wouldn’t want if you genuinely knew how they treated them. Learning time with Dante pt. 2. - Subject: Why we shall not romantisize obsession (obsession to an unhealthy point) + mental illnesses. - I understand reading books with that trope, but keep it in the book, don’t look for it IRL. I understand being obsessed with your partner in a loving way where it is not unhealthy nor dangerous. When it gets to the point of $talk!ng, not letting you have male friends, being controlling, not letting you wear what you want/leave the house/talk to who you want, getting in arguments that can turn bad really quick if you even looked at another man etc, that should not be romantisized. If you want that, you’ve never been through it and I genuinely am concerned for you. Put the TV remote down, touch some grass, book a therapist appointment. - Obsessive relationships are most of the time/can turn into an emotionally ab^$!v3 relationship. Even physically. - Obsession is not love. Obsession is a way of maintaining control. Said behaviour is present not only in ab^$!v3 relationships, but also in those with people who have narc!$$!$t!c tendencies, or people who only think about themselves. They aren't considering other’s needs, only their own. - Obsession can turn into ”If I can’t have you, no one can” type of thing, really quick. You try to leave? They will find a way to ruin you/your appearance so no one else will find you ”attractive”. ”If I can’t have you, no one can.” - There’s nothing romantic about being obsessed with someone to an unhealthy/dangerous point. You’re not quirky. You’re not different. Most people with common sense won’t think ”Oh wow that person is so cool for being like that. So attractive that they’re that way.” - We live in a society where obsessive and $talk3r-like behavior is normalized. You’re teaching young girls that when a boy h!t$ them, it's really because ”they like them.” They’re taught to give in to men's relentless pursuits. I'm here to yell it loud and clear for everyone in the back, that it's WRONG. - If you get into an argument with your significant other, and they relentlessly hara$$ you until you feel obligated to respond, it's not romantic, it's obsessive. If your significant other is overly concerned with your whereabouts to the point that it makes you uncomfortable, it's a red flag. If your partner !ns^lt$ you, d3grad3$ you, questions your every move and/or has v!0l3nt outbursts, it's not romantic, it's ab^$3. Parents, educate your children on love. Teach them to never settle for less than what they deserve. Teach them about d0m3$t!c v!0l3nc3. Teach them the warning signs, and remind them that you're always there for them in d!$tr3$$!ng situations. Teenagers, learn the warning signs. Learn the difference between a healthy relationship and an unhealthy relationship. If you recognize warning signs in your relationship, GET OUT. Don't feel bad about it, and don't stick around hoping that it'll get better. It won’t. I've watched too many people I care about, s^ff3r through bad relationships, and I've heard the, "But what if he really loves me?" answer far too many times. End the cycle. Know the facts. Don't date the guy that shows up at your doorstep after you block him, date the person that loves you for who you are and respects your boundaries. If you or someone you know is in an ab^$!v3 relationship, don't stay silent. Call the National D0m3$t!c V!0l3nc3 Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) for compassionate and confidential support. You are NOT alone. #codcosplay #MaskedDante #masktok #foryou #maskedmen #maskedman #keeganrusscosplay #keeganruss #cod #tf141 #taskforce141 #codcosplayer #cosplayer #callofdutycosplay #callofduty #cod || TikTok fake situation. Fake blood. Fake everything. TikTok this is for awarness purposes only.

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