@tofology: Since it’s my job to research social media, I spent several years feeling completely out of control with my usage. I used scrolling to escape my emotions constantly which left me feeling depleted, distracted, and foggy. I’ve spent the last year working really hard to repair my relationship with social media without going full luddite. Social media is designed to be as addicting as possible (cuz we gotta get those ad dollars baby!) and without a strategy to counter it, it’s almost impossible to avoid getting swept in. Developing a strategy to counter the addiction that companies place within us is imperative to creating meaningful sustained action in the real world. I don’t have all the answers here but these are some strategies that really helped me. #scrolling #SelfCare #selfhelp

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dustypelvis
dusty :
so many people just say “delete all social media.” sorry i cannot do that, so thank you for this
2024-12-30 03:05:32
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buttercup66xoxo
Buttercup :
My goal was to be more deliberate with what I consume. No longer just letting an algorithm to tell me what I want to see, but try to curate more and seek out more instead of looking just at a feed.
2024-12-29 19:37:07
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jacqikill
Jacq☭🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 :
rule 1 broken as info received 😭
2024-12-29 16:40:12
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hippolyta.vi
v :
I use tiktok to help me wake up in the morning, it's terrible 😭
2024-12-30 03:27:40
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possiblypoet
comment creator :
This is such a beautifully compassionate way of talking about this
2024-12-29 19:23:37
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thehautevegan
Jessie Cakes :
Mine is that I have to complete all the NYtimes puzzles before I pick up my phone
2024-12-29 17:26:37
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gardengirliemac
Garden Girlie Mac 🇨🇦🌷 :
also. getting a non tech related hobby helps! gardening, coloring, dancing, working out. something that doesn't involve screens
2025-01-02 02:06:03
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brandon_powers
Brandon Powers :
These are very realistic, tangible, and actionable!
2024-12-30 01:11:27
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ctrllfreakk
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Being bored sometimes is important fr
2024-12-30 20:28:37
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mwah_ry
rym🎧 :
me doing my 20k steps while watching tiktok 😭
2024-12-30 16:44:54
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elizabig8
elizabig :
I picked up fiber arts this year so that I would stop aimlessly scrolling during work calls. If I’m not presenting I can just knit or crochet while I listen. My screen time went way down.
2024-12-30 18:13:24
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mossy.1421
𓋼 mossy 𓋼 :
something that helps me is removing the app from my home screen. not deleting it, just removing it from the spot on my phone that I instinctually tap whenever I'm bored. it really helps me
2024-12-30 20:36:04
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shawty_looo
Shawty Lo :
Lately I’ve been reading a chapter of a book before I start scrolling
2024-12-30 03:47:55
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chocpop7
Chris. :
This feels really actionable and helpful. Thank you!
2024-12-29 19:33:11
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brianalynn71
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I’m here in the comments to avoid scrolling 😭
2024-12-31 02:09:20
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exonlyk
💕Alexan💕 :
I’m recovering from super major surgery rn and this is making me realize now is the time to actively scroll and quit being in a shame spiral about it
2024-12-30 21:07:17
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tani_sings
Tani 🎤✨ :
ironically not being forced to go to church anymore really cut down my space out time and i can feel how it’s affected my imagination and thinking
2024-12-29 17:51:05
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5hahem
5hahem :
this is such amazing advice, thanks abbie ❤️
2024-12-30 15:59:53
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jaeleni_
Jaeleni :
This was great ! But i struggle with loneliness and tik tok especially feels like a comfort 😭
2024-12-30 12:36:14
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the.devils_advocate
The.devils_advocate :
A good one that helped me (maybe bc I’m that lazy) on specific apps was to move the apps to the 4/5th pages on my Home Screen. That act of swiping across to get them was enough to stop me some times
2024-12-29 16:33:06
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a_kexchoklad
a_kexchoklad :
the app ScreenZen helped me so much, I have to wait before I open the app which works really well
2024-12-30 20:17:09
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narwal546
narwal :
or find good alternatives! mb more long form content thats less brainrotty, listening music so your eyes arent glued to a screen or even sth offline like a nice book! switching is easier than quitting
2024-12-30 16:16:11
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kamandmirio
Kamrin Baker :
I know nyt games are still screen time but they were one of my favorite yet not totally awful ways to unwind and still get the dopamine hit this year
2024-12-31 06:43:46
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_riley282_
Riley (Taylor’s Version) 🫶 :
not listening to music while walking/bussing/waiting sounds like my WORST nightmare
2024-12-31 01:33:48
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yunathestarcatcher
Star Catcher :
Mindless scrolling led me to your video 😅
2025-01-01 10:09:52
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