Dr. Nicole LePera
Region: US
Sunday 29 December 2024 18:44:46 GMT
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Stella ✨ Lightworker :
“Love isn’t about performing to be chosen.” ❤️
2024-12-29 19:17:38
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shecallsmeemily🌈 :
Oh to be secure 😩
2024-12-29 19:54:36
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Joe :
I have a pretty secure attachment style , however once I become insecure I become anxiously attached
2024-12-30 01:39:42
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rissawall :
I don't want to be anxiously attached anymore 😭
2024-12-29 19:01:16
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Kendall Leingang :
watching the avoidant switch to anxious when you're secured with them is WILD as a former AP. 🙈
2024-12-29 19:09:55
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aripita :
Omg. Is my attachment becoming… secure??? 😭😭
2024-12-29 21:42:03
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Beth 🐆💋🌙 :
The disorganised attached In me LAUGHED
2024-12-29 23:41:47
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Faye 💛😋 :
Wow maybe I’m more secure than I thought 🥹
2024-12-29 21:27:55
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Sara Manzoni435 :
I'm becoming secure attachment and it's a dream, now they're all shocked when they throw these baits
2024-12-29 20:38:24
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mdepane :
I’m secure attach now but my heart till gets broke
2024-12-29 19:14:57
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Scottie :
oh this was a painful watch.. brilliant though
2024-12-29 18:50:44
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user862163830 :
Wish you were my mom growing up
2024-12-29 18:52:03
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ThatOneNurse :
I was secure but I bounce to anxious sometimes
2024-12-29 20:14:35
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erika :
This is, literally, the most beautiful post ever….as a former “anxiously attached” partner. Dang!😬🤩🙏🏼
2024-12-29 18:58:43
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Ladybug :
I did broke up like this with my avoidant ex. He still texts me 2 years later and I ignore him. He was used with people chasing and fight for their love. I ain’t doing that.
2024-12-29 19:42:11
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Ny. :
try disorganised attachment it's hell 🥰
2024-12-30 04:28:59
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jill-sutherland.com :
Some are avoidant because they have been repeatedly hurt and can’t face being hurt anymore. Sometimes it’s more painful than anxious
2025-02-23 05:47:58
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Sandra :
As someone who is able to state her needs now and exit when there is inconsistency as an anxious attachment. I use to try to earn my avoidance attention. Now I'm not attracted to that behavior.
2024-12-29 23:53:31
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jaawn :
I don't think total ambivalence when someone wants to break things off is what "security" looks like lol. It makes sense to at least talk it out, esp if you know it could be avoidance etc
2024-12-31 08:21:43
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Chelsea :
My ex was super avoidant and I tried to break up with him, he convinced me to stay and broke up with me a month later.
2025-01-23 05:46:36
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Kapist :
Doc, can you please post more of the secure attachment videos. We love them
2024-12-29 20:48:05
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Devil in a blue dress :
It just ended with an avoidant, I am anxiously attached and I realized how useless and harmful that is to me, so I am making the effort to change and learn to be secure, it's not impossible
2024-12-30 01:31:09
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Lee Firefly :
As someone who had anxious attachment who was with an avoidant and now secured with the healthiest rs I've been in, this is so accurate. Avoidants can be manipulative and selfish like that
2024-12-30 02:01:56
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Eva-Ana :
How do I, an anxious attacher, get to be turtleneck girl 😭
2024-12-29 19:54:48
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Novatar3 :
when I'm exhausted and don't care anymore... that's actually how securely attached people handle things? 😳😳😳
2024-12-29 19:12:53
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