@drjulie: 🔥Important to remember this. Who else gets that rush of guilt when you have to say no or hold a boundary? Join the club! But that guilt might be more to do with learning earlier in life that the needs and feelings of others always trump your own. That is was your job to keep others happy. Sometimes guilt can tell us that we are not doing the right thing. But guilt is not a fact. Listen to it. Then make your decision taking into account your needs too. 👉 If you would like more on boundaries it’s all in my new book ‘Open When...’ (link in bio) Also check out my million copy bestselling 1st book ‘Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before?’ Both are available across the world in over 40 languages. ❤️Feel free to share
Boundaries help in avoiding trash talks too!
Hsppy new year ❤️
2024-12-30 21:46:21
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Alice :
Is your finger okay!?! 😭😭
2024-12-31 06:57:43
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Olha :
Sure, they will not like my boundaries...
2025-01-19 18:44:51
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Krito :
how about when you set a boundary to your boss??? he is such a narcissist and Im feeling o humiliated and frustrated.
2025-01-18 00:19:26
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syakirah :
"I'd do anything for you. just anything as long as u stay with me"
2025-01-18 17:30:29
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D For Doctor :
I don't quite understand why people with common sense would have to set boundaries in their relationships. I mean ,it's a relationship and if we both can't be all in then what're we doing?
2024-12-30 18:08:30
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tahra7866 :
I set a boundary and he didn't like it. Ghosted me for the past 3 months.
2025-01-15 22:19:35
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cool Jay :
Stay single best way
2025-01-02 19:49:09
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Waceke Njuguna. :
why is it that I can't download your videos, ?
they are healing. Beautiful.
Be blessed dear one
2024-12-30 16:14:20
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Caroline_ :
I’m recovering from an abusive relationship, I am a people pleaser and I have started to set boundaries, it’s not going down well with my close family.
2024-12-30 20:13:47
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Haris Raza :
how we get satisfaction in our life
2024-12-31 09:47:25
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juliedawn72 :
I put boundaries in place with a sibling. Best thing I ever did for myself
2025-01-01 21:06:33
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marleni16 :
Alot of these tips really have help
2025-01-03 16:09:27
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Yaakov Sandler :
I was a people pleaser to my partner for 27 years, I literally lost any sense of self trying to have a good relationship with her. When I started setting boundaries things fell apart. I moved on.
2024-12-30 20:05:19
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LKW :
no means no. yup
2025-01-01 22:22:18
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user4722526217565 :
That does not go for work
2024-12-30 17:32:07
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Benny :
Mine is not taking to ex’s and my wife keeps breaking that rule I took her back agian after she told me she not speaking to him and yet she was she left me for him agian 🙄
2025-01-02 20:10:41
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Wyndale :
Maam ur helping me right now. I have friends but i noticed they start to distance their self from me coz, im not giving with what they want.🥺
2025-01-04 08:04:51
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MaathyMaathy :
👍👍This is so helpful
2024-12-30 16:14:37
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lekica_8 🦢 :
On point! 👌🏻
2025-01-05 10:44:26
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✨ 𝕄 𝕒 𝕣 𝕚 𝕤 𝕜 𝕒 ✨ :
It took me a long time to realize this what you're saying
2024-12-31 08:33:52
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Ioana B :
Thank you for sharing this!
2024-12-30 20:18:16
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Ice_manipulator2 :
I needed to hear this..
if you have to betray yourself to be liked,it's not healthy🥺💔.
2024-12-30 20:06:20
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Order :
Do have a husband
2025-01-01 18:27:53
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