OP Said Podcast
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Tuesday 31 December 2024 11:07:11 GMT
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Bubbalina :
Girl break that generational trauma bond and let the golden children step up !!
2024-12-31 22:02:32
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201stars3 :
I’d take out a life insurance policy on her, then I’d leave her be. Collect money for all she put you through.
2024-12-31 21:11:12
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Baphy :
I love her voice it’s like a red velvet cake
2024-12-31 17:31:00
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Lady Jenny ᥫ᭡ :
They clearly want a “Christinaaaaa? Christina’s gone” situation she needs to stand on business for her own peace of mind
2025-01-06 18:08:14
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jt55074 :
NTA. My mother was toxic and abusive. I totally understand how OP feels.
2025-01-01 08:51:08
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Nisa Mukeem :
dont take care of your mom. let your brothers do the work. enjoy your life
2025-01-31 22:24:39
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user8130308250343 :
I did it for my mother and I regret every minute of it
2025-01-09 17:09:31
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Marie-Soleil Dumouchel :
Only daughter says it all ..
2024-12-31 15:12:24
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tonimillersmith :
She can go stay with the siblings. Grandma having fun with her grandkids😁
2024-12-31 13:02:28
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nikitatewary3 :
They will never understand. This girl doesn't owe anyone anything. Be the difficult child again. She will have her peace at least
2024-12-31 13:59:48
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Fairytale Foods Catering Serv. :
Think about the time when you limited contact & no one noticed or even reached out… then live your life.
2024-12-31 12:45:28
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zana_natlharini❤️🌸 :
Chomi myeke loyo mama, choose yourself and your peace
2024-12-31 11:13:40
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Living my next life :
Ntah, let her move in with her prized children. The more around the better anyway.
2024-12-31 14:24:19
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Meowzer :
Everyone’s “NO”
2024-12-31 13:51:12
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beepbeepboopboopbe🍉 :
She sacrificed her daughter’s mental wellbeing👍
2025-01-01 02:10:50
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WHERE IS NAPTIME? :
The immediate “No” 😂😂😂 bc seriously No! NTA
2024-12-31 19:37:03
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🇬🇧 Luisa 🇬🇧 :
I'm also that daughter, but thankfully, i live abroad and my sister and her are the same character anyhow so they now live together!
2024-12-31 13:37:13
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imassssssnake :
So she was a boy mom. Raised boys as her children and the girl as her servant. Let her rot
2025-01-01 19:40:05
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Latrice :
NTA. Stand up for yourself & Protect your peace!!
2024-12-31 21:28:48
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Tash :
I feel like OP needs to withdraw from the whole family, they don't respect her at all.
2024-12-31 16:17:10
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456321 :
This story reminds me of my own, let’s not forget that this individual has been through pain and the only way he/she can continue to move forward is to keep to himself/herself.
2024-12-31 11:17:33
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leslie____x :
Parents need to remember you reap what you sow. As the eldest & only girl myself I understand how everything is deemed as your responsibility on the basis women are more ‘nurturing’. OP is NTA.
2024-12-31 11:40:48
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Unicorn 🦄 🇧🇪 :
When I heard the « only daughter » part it clicked. Mom was a classic toxic boy mom neglecting her daughter to then expect her to be the caregiver because she’s the only woman. Oh no no no no
2024-12-31 12:12:27
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D2RCreations :
Not the Twins in unison😂! It’s a No for me too!🥰
2024-12-31 20:08:55
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Lovelyv85 :
Let me send to my sister because we going through it 😅
2024-12-31 16:56:46
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Frenchie_Mad :
The fact that OP is the only girl says it all. Even if she had kids the siblings would look to her. Were they not also “raised” by the mother? I hope OP stays strong and stays LC or goes NC.
2024-12-31 11:35:31
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Hamu :
You are not dear . Childhood trauma destroys a person , dont relive it now that you are an adult
2024-12-31 11:38:48
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Karen Brown282 :
your not wrong don't go back
2024-12-31 17:35:23
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DebDeb :
Send her to a senior living facility, visit her weekly or as often as possible. Respect and honor her, but minimize day to day living to maintain the little relationship left
2024-12-31 15:41:20
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Pinky Rk :
Don't do it. I have a toxic relationship with my mother. I'm the 2bd out of 4 children as she treats me the worst basically disowning me.I will never take my mother in and sacrifice my happiness
2025-01-01 18:44:58
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Zinhle Pru Shabalala 🇿🇦🧁 :
Nope! NTA! She abused & neglected you all your life. Set those boundaries and stick to them. Don't allow her or your siblings to derail your life & peace that you've found in spite of them!
2024-12-31 11:59:29
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chidiibe :
The offer to pay for a care giver is the right response.
2024-12-31 19:27:55
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tracyavatar :
I take it that the fav kids were all boys ....
2024-12-31 13:16:45
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METEFF KAZ :
I don't think you should care for her but please don't leave it to just one to care for her.
2024-12-31 12:00:23
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magdalorian :
block them all. they're not your family anyway you owe them nothing. those males you grew up with never cared for you and neither did she
2025-01-02 08:59:15
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B :
Her siblings might be as bad
2024-12-31 11:31:48
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Lisa :
My adoptive mum was the best looked after her till the last day 🥰……you’re not the asshole babe
2024-12-31 13:40:37
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Marie :
NTA at all.. stand your ground don't let them guilt you.. good luck ❤️
2024-12-31 16:47:32
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Beverley Nelson476 :
No get her carers and share all other responsibilities between all the siblings or place her in a facility with her peers.
2024-12-31 12:14:17
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Jodzie :
Put her in a home, she will get all the care she needs
2025-01-01 16:20:54
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cyndyknapp1 🇨🇦 :
NTA
2024-12-31 13:59:20
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Vida :
There are consequences for actions, the better children should take care of her.😒
2024-12-31 11:30:45
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user9147070095870 :
You are not the AH, you are right to set boundaries. Senior living.
2025-01-01 02:33:38
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Shamsa :
Extremely painful..I can relate. Do you..that's all I can tell OP
2024-12-31 18:11:33
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Leanne :
OP is NTA and I wouldn't take her in neither. And her family is being emotionally manipulative by trying to guilt trip her. Shoot let them take her in they will be fine. That's messed up frfr.
2024-12-31 11:31:24
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NBS films :
Didn’t the mother raise the siblings? Listen, put her in a home, split the bill and live your life, as for the mums sacrifice that’s standard it’s called being a parent,
2024-12-31 13:54:17
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Earle66 :
Protecting your peace from toxic, self-involved, thoughtless, lazy, greedy and narcissistic people is never wrong even if those people are your family
2025-01-01 16:58:43
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Shannon :
I care for my elderly mother. I resent her so much. I have told my adult children. Please do not give up your life for me. It could be years and it’s not fair to them.
2024-12-31 12:17:05
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LadyT :
NTA, go on living your life
2024-12-31 14:05:12
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Gweny Muumba :
Just saying half of the things that she said! I can't even say that to my own kids!
2024-12-31 21:27:14
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Apocalyptic Grief :
get her to the worst retirement home
2024-12-31 17:07:42
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silverfox :
tell them yep I'm selfish,NTA
2024-12-31 21:24:28
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lfem1291 :
aaaah boy moms.... that's your future 😂😂😂 rarely do you see men caring for their mom
2024-12-31 22:43:15
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