FOR REAL. WHY AM I LIKE THIS?!
I would be MISERABLE if we actually dated.
2025-01-02 22:56:03
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♱ 𝓂𝒶𝒹𝒾𝓈𝓎𝓃 :
right like i thought i had an anxious attachment style but it turns out im actually very secure and sane when im not with someone that is emotionally abusive 😭
2025-01-03 11:14:57
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mygfmeanstheworld2mi :
I don’t care if she’s avoidant I love her, I want her, I don’t want her to leave. she may say she doesn’t care anymore, and tell me it’s too much. I’m sticking with her, don’t care if my heat aches.
2025-04-17 00:23:57
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marie ! :
crashing out over an avoidant as someone with an anxiou attachment made me feel insane and I’m glad my attachment to them dissipated completely
2025-01-03 06:15:10
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🌻 :
No literally and after I calmed down I was like wait I’m begging a grown adult to communicate🙃 humbled me quick asf
2025-01-03 10:31:18
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jetmw :
Avoidant just did the avoidant thing to me. So I went and bought a motorcycle. I deserve better
2025-01-02 21:22:54
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oj (i love my gf) ᖭི༏ᖫྀ :
real but ngl i think dating avoidants has made me avoidant
2025-01-03 04:45:17
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syd :
As an avoidant I’m sorry and I’m working on it!
2025-01-02 06:36:43
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Robert :
I liked her so much
thooo 🙄 but spot on.
2025-01-23 21:35:22
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hazel 🌰 :
literally like i’m crying over a man who is scared of commitment 😬
2025-01-03 16:00:03
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Osmium Anime :
Avoidants be wild. I got blocked on everything the day after she said “I love you” for the first time 😅😅
2025-01-02 20:41:13
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raeanncarrs :
But aren’t avoidant just not that really I to you?
2025-01-03 17:00:02
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bix :
Y’all I think I’m an avoidant what do I do 😭
2025-01-03 14:22:23
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plantain toes :
No bc I really sat there and was like,,, why am I begging this person for the bare minimum?? It should not feel like this
2025-01-03 18:56:03
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HeIaena :
As an avoidant, we feel the same about anxious attachment 😭😭😭
2025-01-03 14:13:58
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;-; :
As someone who dated an avoidant for five years…. Yeah it’s not worth it 😂
2025-01-03 10:10:07
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riss :
realized i am lowkey avoidant and have only been obsessed w/ more avoidant men, WHICH LEADS ME TO BELIEVE i’m subconsciously doing it to avoid my own emotional unavailability 🧍♂️now how to fix this
2025-01-03 11:53:58
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char :
actually you know what yeah i needed this
2025-01-03 01:43:18
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Keepin Up With Bree 📸🦋 :
I literally told my friend “i see why his exes cheated I would do the same” because OMG having to truly live and love that type of person is torture.
2025-01-03 19:14:15
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tazzy :
Can confirm- it was hell 😐😻
2025-01-03 06:57:45
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coastaldregs :
And the whole time I’m the biggest avoidant of all despite my deep yearning for love
2025-01-26 23:40:21
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Joshua :
Oh you met my ex too? 😂
2025-01-02 18:35:23
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Cassie :
No bc my therapist said im actually pretty secure but like ??? When he pulled away for space it was hell and I’ll never do it again
2025-01-03 15:22:51
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Vaden :
My Avoidant is working on herself. doesn't help that I'm an Anxious. Baby steps.
2025-01-03 02:28:06
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Cynthia 🌹 :
As the avoidant, we need to stop dating ngl
2025-01-03 22:01:51
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