@confidentcollective: Everyone is entitled to their own feelings about their body, but words can have an impact—especially in shared spaces…. When someone’s thoughtless comment minimizes your experience, it’s a reminder to safeguard your peace. Choose to be around people who value empathy and kindness. 🤍
i've started saying "i'm having a bad body image day" instead because anyone can say that without shaming someone else's body in the process
2025-01-03 21:32:14
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Kameko :
100% when ppl around me complain about feeling fat or they look fat and im just there like 👀. It’s not that it’s about me but it’s just like let’s have a little awareness of our surroundings y’all
2025-01-03 20:29:14
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lindsaypickles_ :
the red hair example is such a great way to frame this👏🏼
2025-01-03 20:06:34
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Jansdee :
Paint the roses red is from Alice in Wonderland
2025-01-03 19:36:06
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Jamie :
Body dysmorphia is a real thing though. They may feel they are in a safe space to openly express their feelings about their body because they are around someone they know.
2025-01-04 09:09:09
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sarah :
as a redhead, ppl have said they feel like a "red-headed step-child" right in front of me.
2025-01-03 21:45:20
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Coco :
I feel bloated, I feel self conscious, I feel uncomfortable. All communicate the same thing without insulting the people around you!!
2025-01-04 02:14:47
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Amber :
LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK!!!!
2025-01-03 19:43:17
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Funky and Bold :
I've felt loved in my day but the number of people who made me feel like a mistake who were actually close to me was way too high. I love this video because it reinforces that it was never me.
2025-01-07 09:29:20
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greetingsfromsf 💌 :
Gosh thank you. I had some friends do this recently and I haven’t heard it in YEARS. It triggered me so badly and brought up so many uncomfy feelings. Normalize having a “bad body” day.
2025-01-03 21:55:18
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YC1 :
You can feel how you want but your words around other people matter how do people not get that
2025-01-04 11:46:39
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Funky and Bold :
I am so glad you made this video. I felt so unhappy about myself for so many years. and it was because I thought something was terribly wrong with me. I thought I was so flawed.
2025-01-07 09:27:34
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Funky and Bold :
I almost missed your point but I got it.
2025-01-07 09:26:30
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Funky and Bold :
thanks to creators like yourself and authors and people in the personal development and coaching space, I learned I was surrounded by so much negativity!! like so so so much!
2025-01-07 09:28:27
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LadyBigCat :
Pretending skinny women aren’t skinny is something I don’t do. Not when non skinny women actually aren’t skinny but are also vilified for it.
2025-01-04 01:29:46
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🤠 :
& fat isn’t a feeling!! maybe they feel self conscious, disgusted, insecure, unlovable whatever. they’re adding additional meanings to the word fat bc they lack the ability to dig deeper.
2025-01-03 20:59:20
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bookedandlizzy :
I unfortunately didn’t realize how messed up it was to say this until I got fat
2025-01-03 21:23:06
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OverGrated :
Why do they feel it’s ok for ppl in smaller bodies to openly express their discomfort in a way that’s hurtful to others in larger bodies but once we say it’s upsetting we’re self-centered and mean lol
2025-01-04 00:34:59
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