My oldest sister in law said exactly this to me when she met me, that I must always have a life besides his brother otherwise I will be miserable if I center him in everything, and I never forget her words. God bless her.
2025-01-04 14:25:38
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Wandy :
Absolutely! and a life outside doesn't necessarily mean clubbing, you can attend galleries,join a book club, try a new hobby, go hiking etc. I'm implementing this for myself this year.
2025-01-05 15:20:06
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Thandeka | Content Creator :
I don't hate your content anymore because I left that toxic relationship 😂💀 Okile wa nstressa
2025-01-04 15:53:40
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That Geek :
Mmm I disagree with this advice. I think it’s best for partners to both build a life that both revolves around the two of you.
2025-01-04 14:18:56
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nceshbenge :
That's why he was upset with me when I decided to go on vacation this past week.
2025-01-04 14:16:26
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Raz🦋 :
Having a life outside my marriage has tremendously improved it. I have made it a habit to go on solo trips , solo dates and engaging in my hobbies.
2025-01-04 15:53:12
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Tjcutie :
I struggle with this, esp when u have little children
2025-01-05 17:08:32
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PREACHER'S SON NYN KA MFUNDISI :
can u assist Gogo Skhotheni and Gogo mawane they really Need help
2025-01-04 14:07:35
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Obakeng_Mmolotsane :
lol I struggle having a life outside of my marriage ,everything outside my marriage feels a bit foreign 😅.
2025-01-04 18:30:33
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Mother& Daughter😊❤️ :
Mina my ancestors wll never allow me xem dey only allow me wth kids nd him once i meat ppl dey remove dem or make dem hate me for no reason nd dey tell me dat i need to be alone
2025-01-05 19:06:19
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Kirsten shannen :
I didnt like the idea of friends even before my partner, but now that he is in it he has become my best friend we both okay with each other doing things individually we just dont want to😂, he will text me or i will text him to say i want to be home😂😂
The advice might work for othes we are happy with how things are.
2025-02-13 08:44:58
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Blue Chechile :
But what happens if I was a homebody even before the relationship?
2025-01-04 14:07:15
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Mumo :
am planning to take myself out for a coffee/dinner date on Sunday it's my birthday and mine will cause chaos and start thinking am seeing someone because I checked out emotionally long time.
2025-01-27 08:20:28
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Agenda Florence :
I don't know places outside of him😭😭😭
2025-01-04 14:36:31
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Lachi :
Thank you sis ubuya emsebenzi bebusy zinto zendlu awusayi nakwi friends zakho after work drinks you always available for him whooo
2025-01-04 15:12:45
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@seipati :
Been telling my friend dt...ahe only comes to me whn thy had a fight nt in talking terms thn I told her dis...and she expects me to go out wth her whn she's lonely
2025-01-04 14:35:12
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Mr Q :
Marriage was not meant to have outside lives however these days this is relevant due to hi rate of divorces or maybe outside lives are the cause 😏😏😳
2025-01-04 22:37:54
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florence :
he doesn't like it wen when m minding my own business living my life...he thinks m cheating he gets so angry...i get scared ...i dnt know wat to do🥺
2025-01-05 23:36:45
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le2thu8 :
Now next thing he is away you can’t go out by yourself never. Ndiyakuva mna.
2025-01-04 16:04:21
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Kortes :
What do you do when he won’t let you have a life outside of him?
2025-01-04 20:43:21
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mawheels :
Marriage is something else 😂😂😂 relationship is better 😂😂
2025-01-04 15:23:22
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Kutwane :
mistake I made
2025-02-25 16:08:47
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Myeza Thanduxolo :
i wish ds was easy
2025-01-29 07:35:29
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CS1969 :
What about us as men?
2025-01-04 14:23:07
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@Hlathi.VVC❤️ :
wen we don't listen to hear and understand 🥺I hear what u saying 🙏
2025-01-05 09:40:50
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