The Evolved Man
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Sunday 05 January 2025 16:46:23 GMT
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NeshaNeesh :
Can we just give a shout out to dude for asking the question and not being offended? 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
2025-01-06 01:01:06
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erinmccrearyagee :
“I don’t want to talk about it” are the most frustrating words a woman can hear. I sit there absorbing all his angry energy and have no idea who it’s directed at.
2025-01-06 15:03:53
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Elizabeth Reynolds :
My man isn't man enough to listen to you😥
2025-01-05 18:32:08
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Peachfuzz :
Me realizing I’ve never been emotionally safe 😭
2025-01-05 19:55:25
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mechanicman :
I think you should be telling the ladies the same thing
2025-01-06 22:07:15
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appleuser73358685 :
A man asking another man about what women want🥸
2025-01-05 23:28:32
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Caroline Kacena :
This! Men tend to want to “fix” things. Women sometimes just want to vent to someone who will listen.
2025-01-05 22:04:21
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Boredmomof2 :
You aren’t lying. I’ve been married 21 yrs and my husband has been emotionally unavailable for 20 yrs and the last yr he’s been working on it and we are so much better for it
2025-01-05 18:49:20
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CatLady1979 :
As a woman I love this. ❤️
2025-01-06 23:16:15
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☆UnBaLaNcEd LiBrA☆ :
True! I gave up talking to my husband, everytime I shared a thought or a feeling he would either disregard WHT I said or totally take over the conversation and make it about himself.
2025-01-06 01:05:28
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kptrivedy :
so basically maintain frame ?
2025-01-06 09:46:36
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Tiffany H :
not thinking anger is the only allowed emotion he is ok to display, dont laugh when we cry, active listening and not one upping our situation, providing comfort &understanding
2025-01-05 17:20:21
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Amelvin18 :
Emotional regulation is the greatest gift I've ever given myself and the people in my life
2025-01-05 22:19:01
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KC :
careful you say "sit still" they'll assume "don't talk"
2025-01-05 23:40:27
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Quirkyalonester :
To add to the sitting and listening, it’s okay to say I don’t know. I don’t always know how to deal with stuff that comes fun for myself that I’ve never had to deal with before.
2025-01-18 13:49:50
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Annie 🖤🦨🍑 :
Put this on his FYP, not mine 😅
2025-01-06 17:44:43
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Laura Arguello :
emotionally safe: u hug, u LISTEN w/o interruptions, u don't judge, u ask how 2 make us feel better, u don't give unsolicited advice u don't try zx
2025-01-06 14:05:30
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S I N :
Seriously, bad day and im the punching bag, over something that should have been little 😞 also asking not to be yelled at only to hear “Im just loud! Im allowed to be angry!” Why am i the bad guy
2025-01-05 20:02:57
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mshenryinthemiddle :
You nailed it. I never felt emotionally safe in my marriage because he didn't do any of those things. The divorce was final in Nov.
2025-01-06 04:56:52
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HaleyOT :
Validation and active listening ✨✨✨
2025-01-05 17:43:59
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emeryrealle :
my ex husband would ask me whats wrong and then id tell him (often wasnt even aboit him) and hed almost ALWAYS go "ugh! im sorry! what do you want me to do?! itll be fine." and then be so offended
2025-01-06 14:46:36
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Heather Skaggs :
If you’re woman is saying “I’m fine” when she’s clearly not, that means you’re not providing an emotionally safe place.
2025-01-10 17:44:34
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Hello :
“I got you”- these three words are so healing. it can be used in many contexts and is so powerful!
2025-01-06 14:11:49
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M | First-Time Human :
I love when he asks me, “Do you want me to fix/advice or just listen?”
2025-01-06 14:25:54
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Spiritual Nicole :
He didn’t protect me physically either.
2025-01-06 19:48:03
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