@halielouxx: Sharing to raise awareness because I didn’t know this would be the outcome for my daughter, or our family. FMH (Fetal-Maternal Hemmorage) is rare & occurs in 1 in 3,000 pregnancies, where your baby can lose blood from themselves into the placenta, causing anemia, loss of oxygen to their organs, and depending on the amount of blood loss, potential organ failure. Not many things cause this, from our experience we learned it could be trauma (car accidents, severe falls, etc) or nothing at all. In my case, nothing at all & it was impossible to catch as it’s predicted she started losing a significant amount of blood very rapidly a few hours before delivery. If you do experience any kind of trauma during your pregnancy, please go to your OB or L&D to follow up. Oaklynn was born with 1/3 the amount of blood needed, extremely anemic, & eventually diagnosed with multi-organ failure. Through multiple, multiple blood transfusions, multiple additional blood products, MRI’s, ultrasounds, dialysis, Parataniel surgery, our little fighter fought as long as she could & impacted so many lives around her. FMH doesn’t guarantee the same outcome as Oaklynn, as her passing is a result in 1 in 10,000 babies due to the amount of blood she lost, but it unfortunately is real & is rare. Before going through this with my daughter, I had no idea FMH existed. I looked into many things while being pregnant, but never heard of FMH. I will share my babies story in hopes to bring light to something that seems almost unheard of. #MomsofTikTok #fyp #nicubaby #pregnancy #firsttimemom

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alexisrayemikaelson
alexisrayemikaelson :
Hugs and I feel this honestly. I just got diagnosed with anemia. And my unborn son has a hole in his heart I have been so scared the whole time 😥 prayers for you. You got this mama
2025-01-06 22:35:57
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theeeenessa
nesssa :
i heard something once, & I’ll never forget it. “she lived a perfect life, because all she knew of this planet was you & that you loved her.” i hope in some way, that will one day bring comfort to you
2025-01-07 05:39:05
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kristenm17
kristenmcg :
I am so sorry for your incredibly unfair loss
2025-01-27 01:57:57
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hannah_roemer
han :
Lord please guide this family through losing their sweet girl and give them reassurance that you have her and are loving her so greatly. Please provide them strength to keep going. Amen.❤️
2025-01-06 22:55:10
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alliemckinley567
alliemckinley92 :
No, this is sooooo unfair!! I’m praying for you 😭🫶🏼
2025-01-06 21:47:18
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itschalupa
Kat :
4am right now, 27 weeks pregnant, I’m bawling my eyes out that moms go thru this… so not fair and I hope you get your miracle baby 🤍
2025-01-08 11:11:22
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adrieshaw88
Adriana Erevia Shaw :
The worst club to be apart of. Sending you all my love mama 💛
2025-01-07 06:05:39
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lifewith.gio
lifewith.gio :
My baby passed away from FMH last November at 35 weeks. It’s a terrible pain. I’m so sorry 💔
2025-01-07 04:12:30
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cyerraruiz
Cyerra Ruiz :
She's in Jesus lap as we speak feeling immensely safe, waiting for you, her mama ❤️all she knew was you and all she knew was love
2025-01-07 04:31:59
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lexiestrada1010
lexiestrada1010 :
I’m so sorry mama, she was supposed to be there with you in your arms 💔😢 but now she will forever live in your heart and soul, never will there be a day she doesn’t live within you. You are who you.
2025-01-07 23:46:02
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ahhtay27
Ahhtay♡ :
delivered twins stillborn in April. the silence is overwhelming. you may find yourself completely checked out for a while. I don't remember much at all those first 3m. the life you imagined for the...
2025-01-07 00:35:44
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leti_alvarado91
Leti :
Sending you love and prayers mama. My sweet boy was stillbirth 8.08.2024. Went in thinking I was going to bring my baby home 💔
2025-01-06 23:18:43
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taucha88
Taucha Voss :
the absolute worst so sorry ❤️. my girl has been gone almost 2 years
2025-01-06 21:37:11
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stacibormann
Staci Bormann :
We experienced FMH with no cause at all. We caught it due to going in for low fetal movement. I almost didn’t go in and my husband MADE me bc I felt I was just overreacting. Emergency c section and she was SO anemic, she had two blood transfusions and responded well to them. She was diagnosed with PVL but is thankfully developing on track. I want to raise awareness for FMH. Extra testing. Take the mother’s blood sample and see if there is fetal blood in it. They took mine and found SO much blood from my daughter. I also had massive nose bleeds. That was my body trying to rid the extra blood it could not contain. But we had no clue bc there’s not enough awareness for this.
2025-01-09 03:55:02
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casperlady
Ashling Kelly-Wilds :
So sorry for your loss. This condition is a risk if you are RH negative blood so it’s very important to know what blood group you are and get any reduced movements checked. Sadly I have seen this 3
2025-01-08 10:26:37
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shethatgirl_
Omg TikTok forever :
I’m so sorry for your loss 💔
2025-01-06 21:05:55
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