@redditrave: I ruined my relationship because I couldn’t handle her silence during a month she warned me she’d be 'unavailable,' and now she says I crossed a line by showing up at her door. #reddit #redditstories #redditreadings #askreddit #redditrave
I work 14 hour days and I’ve time to say “sorry I’ve been busy, speak soon”
2025-01-07 20:09:02
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fried_chicken🍉 :
they're just not right for each other
2025-01-07 18:44:10
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Cool Ranch Doritos :
if there's no communication for several days, that's not a relationship. no communication = no relationship
2025-01-07 20:15:34
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Taliah :
A lot of people in these comments should not be in relationships if they don’t understand that communication is literally one of the key aspects. It takes no time at all to say “hey I’m okay” 🙃
2025-01-07 21:24:40
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Sam 💎 :
The amount of people that think it’s okay for a couple to go 4-5 days without talking is crazy. She should of communicated that hey unavailable means no response at all
2025-01-07 21:19:29
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Arto 🍉 :
There are jobs that require that kind of seclusion and focus, heck there are jobs that require you to be in the backcountry w/o cell service for months at a time. That said-
2025-01-07 18:52:27
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natqcscatlady⚜️🇨🇦 :
No seconds for hi, have a good day; have a good night, thinking of you??? No, respect yourself. You did the good thing.
2025-01-07 19:12:52
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Ozzie :
As Someone that’s busy with 3 jobs, there is no such thing as I am too busy for my partner. I can and more than likely reply when I’m eating or on a bathroom break.
2025-01-07 21:34:27
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Mad🍀Irish05 :
I think she could have clarified that she was legit absolute no contact during that time. If that's a deal breaker (which i totally get) then you both are better off separate.
2025-01-07 21:09:08
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Ah0789 :
that is so unacceptable, what a caring guy, she obviously was just uninterested and or married or something.
2025-01-07 20:44:49
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PettyWize :
They have crazy different communication styles and not talking for 12 days straight? That would put most people on edge. Better to know you can’t deal with that and move on .
2025-01-07 21:09:37
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Mandy Martinez :
My company does inventory in September. the month leading up to it, I will work 15 hour days 6 days a week. I am unavailable. I can barely focus on work and sleep. Unavailable means unavailable.
2025-01-07 21:05:43
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🪽 :
she didnt specify how unavailable shes going to be. its not hard to send a short good morning text and i say this as someone who works full time and not from home.
2025-01-07 21:17:02
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ILoveDragons :
ok maybe she could have gone in more depth what she expected when she said unavailable. but also she said unavailable until Dec 15... you couldn't reign in your expectations until the 15th?
2025-01-07 21:39:09
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leah ♡ :
She should have explained better and made it absolutely clear what she meant by that. While going for a few days without talking isn’t outside of normal one text every 4 days for weeks is unacceptable
2025-01-07 21:11:38
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Lilpotato_14 :
Did y’all in the comments not hear when she told her bf she was gonna be UNAVAILABLE. Unavailable is unavailable.
2025-01-07 22:27:13
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iheartbewbs :
why didn't he offer to maker her dinner and stuff??
2025-01-07 21:04:26
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googleclicks :
I don't feel either are in the wrong. As someone with very bad depression, working 2 jobs, on top of other things, I get into spaces like that where I cannot bring myself to message literally any one.
2025-01-07 21:35:03
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Sophie🥰🎗️ :
i wanna hear her pov.. this feels twisted. like read the room obviously there’s a reason she’s distancing herself.
2025-01-07 21:28:54
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lovinghearts :
She definitely didn’t communicate the exact of what that time would look like. My partner has to be away for long times with no cell service but I KNOW THAT and that’s a huge difference
2025-01-07 21:17:23
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Dörth :
I am on his side. If she is struggeling with mental health its good that he still checked in on her ....and yes If you are in a relationship a text in 4 days AND a text about breaking up is the least
2025-01-07 19:50:32
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www.clownfart.gov :
Unavailable is unavailable
2025-01-07 20:10:36
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🧜🏽♀️ :
she was absolutely clear about HER needs, if YOUR needs trump hers-she deserves better
2025-01-07 19:28:37
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kay 😰 :
brother SHEEEE deserves better
2025-01-07 18:47:55
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Honeydiip :
I needed to hear this
2025-01-07 18:48:30
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