@baradidardi: There’s nothing cute about weaponised incompetence – a grown adult pretending they don’t know how to do a simple task or chore just to frustrate you into doing it, that’s actually manipulation. A person who loves you understands that teamwork is a cornerstone of a healthy relationship. #Relationship #relationshiptok #couples #weaponizedincompentence #responsibilities #tiktoksouthafrica #tiktokbahrain
another word for it is definitely “manipulation”🤦🏽♀️
2025-01-08 12:57:47
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nameless :
Yoh Im grateful I was raised by an amazing father who cooks,clean,do washing etc..he even did me and my sisters hair,it wasn't perfect🤣 but it's because of him I knew how to choose a good man..
2025-01-08 08:27:21
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bloodygummybear :
My little sister…..definitely talking about her 😂
2025-01-08 07:03:16
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Nash :
I see it everyday at work
2025-01-08 10:19:35
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Ndivho_m :
The one reason why I hate living in the same house as my elder brother, he gets to my nerve so much that I wanna start the culture of not coming back home on December holidays until he moves out.
2025-01-08 20:44:24
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Ree :
My little sister does this she's 14 turning 15. When I complain to my mother she doesn't reply or she would say " akere ke last born"
2025-01-08 16:23:04
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Hope☁️💕💌 :
Especially when your love language is acts of service… o tla lla jwale ka katsi 😭🤚🏽
2025-01-08 11:01:08
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nosi.khambule :
Facts!👏🏽
2025-01-07 19:22:51
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Ndlavini :
Fully agree nawe sisi bandla 🥺
2025-01-08 17:00:23
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Momma to Hoomanz🇿🇦🇬🇧 :
That Twitter/X convo bathi we are complaining and we don't even have husbands ngalomzuzu😂😂😂😂
2025-01-08 08:39:54
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EscapadesWithAngeline :
I've seen this in my workplace and I literally had to stand my ground‼️
2025-01-09 12:18:46
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Vuchasel :
I have a grown friend who does this. I have to redo everything she does.🙄
2025-01-09 06:20:30
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maysummer :
True talk
2025-01-08 13:03:06
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Wiz :
Happens in professional setting also
2025-01-09 06:55:19
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MohRingo :
Happens in the work place also.
2025-01-09 12:50:20
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Megan :
my cousin does it
2025-01-08 19:33:34
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gillian_mahlo :
I’ve seen this a lot with men in families including on social media, ohh I hate it so much😩
2025-01-09 08:14:54
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Sewa_ :
💯
2025-01-08 12:37:52
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Dr Sikazwe💅💆 :
@sashinchito❤️
2025-01-08 18:02:15
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RighteousJez :
What baffles me the most is that this is a form of abuse.. yet most women take it as a joke… there is nothing funny about being with someone who can’t do basic skills
2025-01-08 09:46:01
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muhles04 :
My ex tried that and I said: “awwh my love I didn’t know you were a little slow this is a bit concerning I don’t know if we will work my 🐈 is really drying up😔💔” , never happened again🤣.
2025-01-08 10:18:27
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forbezofficial :
My first time hearing about this concept so have grace for me. I'm failing to understand why someone pretending not be competent would be accused of weaponising incompetence. Chances are that's just a psychopath weaponizing your competence and empathy against you. Also some men are completely oblivious or are just not privy to what women want.
2025-01-08 13:28:14
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Tumi Gabanakgosi :
Oh I love this convo, but let me ask you this, would it be the same thing as a woman pretending you can’t either open, cut, sometimes think or do we regard it as cute if we as women do it?
2025-01-08 00:52:09
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antonia valaire :
@antonia valaire:sending the picture is emotional labour. do you not live in the house and know the brands used. it shows you are not an active participant.
2025-01-08 09:56:49
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