monikamazanek
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the worst part of answering texts is that then i get another one back
2025-01-09 01:39:15
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itsjessicalatimer :
Bc once you do it they reply again and the cycle starts over.
2025-01-08 14:42:39
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anawheatley :
a form of Pathological Demand Avoidance, there is an expectation to respond in a reasonable time frame, aka, a Demand.
2025-01-08 05:43:01
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squarbie ໒꒰ྀིᵔ ᵕ ᵔ ꒱ྀི১ :
i was hoping there’d be a bunch of comments abt how to get over this
2025-01-07 20:49:40
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nihlisticexistentialist :
Tbh I fully admit that I’m so overwhelmed with life sometimes that maintaining a conversation with someone as if I’m fine feels inauthentic and performative
2025-01-09 00:25:36
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Harpiiefox0 :
For me I get trapped in the “I’ll answer later” cycle where ‘later’ feels like it’s been too long and I’m embarrassed to reply
2025-01-09 15:39:57
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Aly :
Omg I just saw that iPhone has send later for texts! The Gmail feature has been life changing for me too!
2025-02-28 02:49:40
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Hailey :
I have messages from almost 2 years ago that I simply cannot open or respond to
2025-01-08 20:34:40
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S T E F F I 🦋 :
Part of me feels like we just weren’t meant to be readily available for communication at a moments notice right there in a our pocket. But sometimes that feels like a cop out for being a bad texter 😅
2025-01-08 04:33:12
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user3250567518467 :
I once spent three months in freeze not responding despite missing and thinking fondly of these people everyday and then as soon as I responded they distanced themselves and I feel so terrible 🤩
2025-01-09 02:08:23
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Cyn 🎀 :
I stopped caring about the science. I answer when I want to. No more anxiety or panic attacks on feeling as if I’m a villain for not responding. Plus if that’s their conclusion then no response was
2025-03-08 06:23:14
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Emily Elizabeth :
I feel so validated in these comments. I’m just simply exhausted and overwhelmed by the constant communication that phones and texting introduced to our lives
2025-01-09 06:45:32
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Frnz :
Thid happened to me, for 3 months, i avoided paying my small bills. I accumulated late fees, and its just so depressing :( just cliking that button, dont know why its so hard.
2025-02-14 20:34:29
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HeartEyes :
I have this problem and I have been doing a combo of things. 1. answering via voice note if my energy is too low to type a response. 2. setting aside phone response times 2x a day for about 30 mins-
2025-01-09 08:23:33
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🕰️ :
it's funny, some of my close friends are like this. 1000s of unread texts and notifications. I'm the opposite, not responding immediately gives me anxiety
2025-01-10 16:09:52
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Bear_Scraps :
Knowing what to say doesn't come naturally to me at all so I have to overthink what I'm typing so much that I get overwhelmed & can't type anything so I say I'll get back to it then forget 😬
2025-01-08 23:31:00
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Gabriel :
for me it’s that I perceive it as a task, and forget that it’s a person. Especially when i’m overwhelmed with lots of other communication based tasks (emails, phone calls, etc.)
2025-01-09 20:32:14
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chilllll issa joke :
can u guys just respond
2025-02-13 05:14:06
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Lexi :
Same- i THINK i narrowed it down to being an anxious person so i want to send the perfect response back therefore delaying it bc i put too much pressure on myself lol
2025-01-08 20:05:16
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Chris Strider ` ༽ :
It’s bc we don’t want it to lead to a whole conversation and if they respond immediately then what 🤷🏻♂️
2025-01-09 01:54:16
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Anne Hochstetler :
we were never meant to have access to everyone at all times. People used to wait days - weeks before getting a response if you didn't live in the same town. Give yourself a break! It's okay😊
2025-01-08 10:10:51
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www.urm0m.g0v :
I wish I could schedule my replies - just treat it like email give it a business day or two we shouldn't be this accessible as people
2025-01-09 10:55:41
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Jes :
because texting feels like people are demanding immediate access to me 24/7 and I do not like that.
2025-01-09 04:48:38
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Candi :
Do you mind if I ask do you send texts and expect a response? Because I wanna have grace for this but I feel like many people say they are bad at texting but still expect others to respond when they
2025-02-01 03:22:05
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𝕷𝖞𝖓𝖓𝖘𝖎𝖊 𝕶𝖆𝖙𝖊 :
Because we know they’re gonna reply and we’ll have to reply and then they’ll have to reply.
2025-01-09 06:23:01
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