@redditrave: I just found out my BF is planning to propose after telling me for over a year that it would happen "soon" but now I don't know if I even want to say yes because l've been slowly falling out of love with him while waiting. (u/Feisty8799) #reddit #redditstories #redditreadings #askreddit #redditrave

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olivia_.rosee
Olivia rose :
I feel like 3 years is reasonable tho?
2025-01-07 23:25:53
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jester_of_dragons
King Kazul🍉 :
I honestly don't think either of them were in the wrong. I genuinely think they were just incompatible. it happens, and it doesn't make anyone the bad guy
2025-01-07 23:44:30
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asteriluno
alex :
tbh he is kinda right on the living together part, so many people find out they're not right for each other after starting to live together and unfortunately are already married so they stay for the sake of the marriage, not bc they want it
2025-01-07 23:26:34
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savvicious
Savannie :
I only agree with OP because he kept bringing it up for 1.5 years. Like soon is less than 3 months. ESPECIALLY since he had the damn ring.
2025-01-08 02:00:47
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misscelanea2021
MissCelanea✨ :
I think no one remembers what she said about him not respecting her opinion of living together
2025-01-08 00:59:36
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crf123ddy
crf :
Not living together before being engaged is crazy tho. Really sounds like she just cares about getting married above everything.
2025-01-08 00:42:48
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http.cherub
Lucy :
People who don’t want to live with their partner before engagement/marriage are WEIRD. What if you find out they’re horrible to live with 😭😭😭
2025-01-08 02:11:41
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kandice1805
kandice1805 :
honestly, i think op needs to spend sometime on herself. get stronger boundaries but also realize rushing things is not what’s in her best interest. its best that they went their separate ways
2025-01-08 00:27:30
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ravien715
Nat5343 :
I moved in with someone AFTER getting engaged to them. It was the worst idea I ever had. Sounds like she was romanticising engagement and marriage and low-key only wanted that 😬
2025-01-08 06:32:12
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elizabethgingersings
elizabethgingersings :
No, he strung her along for quite a while and didn't compromise on anything or respect boundaries in the interem.
2025-01-08 02:32:26
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camibruli
Camila Ferreira :
I kinda get her point because 18months is a lot time for "soon". But if that's correct, she was already pushing marriage only in 1 year of relationship?! That's weirdly obsessive
2025-01-08 04:36:16
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hardcoremutt
🫧K9 Chipper & Addie🫧🇦🇺🦮 :
3 YEARS AND SHES UPSET!?😭😭
2025-01-08 03:07:10
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ktr.na
Katrina 🇪🇪 :
But three years is such a normal time to wait to get officially engaged. Plus they clearly spoke about getting engaged so it’s not like he was keeping her completely in the dark
2025-01-08 02:54:43
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pintar_rr
pintar_rr :
I don't think her break up was solely on a late proposal. she mentioned he didn't respect her opinion on living together. maybe it happened with other matters too. so she resents him having his way
2025-01-08 06:50:30
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desiree.mp4
Desirée :
happy she chose herself
2025-01-07 23:42:28
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pni_shira
Princess 👸🏻✨ :
Many people don’t realize a lot of cultures do not prefer to live together until marriage.
2025-01-08 06:31:46
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mimicsayswhat
Taxidermy Pigeon :
3yrs and living together first are extremely reasonable?? Sounds like she wanted a whirlwind romance more than she wanted him 😕. He deserves better tbh
2025-01-08 11:43:05
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sarumii0
Sarumii :
In what world 3 years of dating is "being held hostage"? That's not even enough time to know your partner well.
2025-01-08 00:53:35
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malikha_beck
malikha_beck :
The problem was he’s kept promising but nothing 🤣🤣🤣
2025-01-08 06:51:14
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n_m_i_s_c
🪼🍃 :
most of the people here didn't finish until the end, it wasn't just about the engagement it's a lot of other things
2025-02-15 21:57:28
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maggiess2145
Maggiess2145 :
Too early, gotta form my own opinion 😭
2025-01-07 23:05:04
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may.kozlowska
May :
I was with her until she said 3 years! I think that's a completely normal timeline???
2025-01-08 03:33:47
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wmadsi
mads :
3 years is soon imo.. 😭
2025-01-08 02:22:22
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sissylala24
Lalas’ Stuff :
I fear she just likes the idea of marriage and someone wanting to marry her.
2025-01-08 03:30:51
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1hahaudontknowme1
unknownmeforever :
im not on ops side... she wanted to be engaged BEFORE living together??? 💀💀 and 3 yrs is super reasonable cause like some ppl wait 5+ yrs or even 10+ yrs 😭
2025-01-08 17:37:33
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