@redditrave: I just found out my BF is planning to propose after telling me for over a year that it would happen "soon" but now I don't know if I even want to say yes because l've been slowly falling out of love with him while waiting. (u/Feisty8799) #reddit #redditstories #redditreadings #askreddit #redditrave
I honestly don't think either of them were in the wrong. I genuinely think they were just incompatible. it happens, and it doesn't make anyone the bad guy
2025-01-07 23:44:30
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alex :
tbh he is kinda right on the living together part, so many people find out they're not right for each other after starting to live together and unfortunately are already married so they stay for the sake of the marriage, not bc they want it
2025-01-07 23:26:34
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Savannie :
I only agree with OP because he kept bringing it up for 1.5 years. Like soon is less than 3 months. ESPECIALLY since he had the damn ring.
2025-01-08 02:00:47
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MissCelanea✨ :
I think no one remembers what she said about him not respecting her opinion of living together
2025-01-08 00:59:36
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crf :
Not living together before being engaged is crazy tho. Really sounds like she just cares about getting married above everything.
2025-01-08 00:42:48
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Lucy :
People who don’t want to live with their partner before engagement/marriage are WEIRD. What if you find out they’re horrible to live with 😭😭😭
2025-01-08 02:11:41
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kandice1805 :
honestly, i think op needs to spend sometime on herself. get stronger boundaries but also realize rushing things is not what’s in her best interest. its best that they went their separate ways
2025-01-08 00:27:30
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Nat5343 :
I moved in with someone AFTER getting engaged to them. It was the worst idea I ever had. Sounds like she was romanticising engagement and marriage and low-key only wanted that 😬
2025-01-08 06:32:12
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elizabethgingersings :
No, he strung her along for quite a while and didn't compromise on anything or respect boundaries in the interem.
2025-01-08 02:32:26
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Camila Ferreira :
I kinda get her point because 18months is a lot time for "soon". But if that's correct, she was already pushing marriage only in 1 year of relationship?! That's weirdly obsessive
2025-01-08 04:36:16
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🫧K9 Chipper & Addie🫧🇦🇺🦮 :
3 YEARS AND SHES UPSET!?😭😭
2025-01-08 03:07:10
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Katrina 🇪🇪 :
But three years is such a normal time to wait to get officially engaged. Plus they clearly spoke about getting engaged so it’s not like he was keeping her completely in the dark
2025-01-08 02:54:43
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pintar_rr :
I don't think her break up was solely on a late proposal. she mentioned he didn't respect her opinion on living together. maybe it happened with other matters too. so she resents him having his way
2025-01-08 06:50:30
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Desirée :
happy she chose herself
2025-01-07 23:42:28
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Princess 👸🏻✨ :
Many people don’t realize a lot of cultures do not prefer to live together until marriage.
2025-01-08 06:31:46
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Taxidermy Pigeon :
3yrs and living together first are extremely reasonable??
Sounds like she wanted a whirlwind romance more than she wanted him 😕.
He deserves better tbh
2025-01-08 11:43:05
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Sarumii :
In what world 3 years of dating is "being held hostage"? That's not even enough time to know your partner well.
2025-01-08 00:53:35
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malikha_beck :
The problem was he’s kept promising but nothing 🤣🤣🤣
2025-01-08 06:51:14
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🪼🍃 :
most of the people here didn't finish until the end, it wasn't just about the engagement it's a lot of other things
2025-02-15 21:57:28
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Maggiess2145 :
Too early, gotta form my own opinion 😭
2025-01-07 23:05:04
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May :
I was with her until she said 3 years! I think that's a completely normal timeline???
2025-01-08 03:33:47
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mads :
3 years is soon imo.. 😭
2025-01-08 02:22:22
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Lalas’ Stuff :
I fear she just likes the idea of marriage and someone wanting to marry her.
2025-01-08 03:30:51
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unknownmeforever :
im not on ops side... she wanted to be engaged BEFORE living together??? 💀💀 and 3 yrs is super reasonable cause like some ppl wait 5+ yrs or even 10+ yrs 😭
2025-01-08 17:37:33
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