Niki Christine 💜
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Kayla :
I totally understand this. I get attached to people so fast and then when they leave it literally feels like a sword in my heart
2025-01-09 22:48:09
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BlerStar95 :
I dont even know why I have attachment issues
2025-01-11 03:35:16
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pnwvalkyrja :
For me, it’s that if they make that part of me feel loved, I will intentionally ignore all of their flaws (and some decent red flags). it’s something I’m currently unpacking.
2025-01-10 07:32:45
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kay :
Yes like it’s not about my self worth it’s about my lizard brain being activated and my logic conscious mind shutting down my brain is like no we NEED this person 😭
2025-01-10 06:12:05
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Blake Dixon :
You should read "attached" by Amir Levine (there's an audio book on yt) but they talk about how anxious attachment people confuse avoidance for romantic feelings
2025-01-11 06:55:26
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Em :
And then how hard it is to be with someone secure (who is perfect for you) bc you don’t feel that insane feeling for them
2025-01-10 02:56:28
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Azrael :
Someone tell me what anxious attachment looks like. I hear about it all the time but ion get what it is exactly
2025-01-12 07:45:37
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Idk :
Have you heard of All About Love or The Courage to Change by bell hooks? She influenced me a lot at about your age. She offers a definition of love based on action rather than intensity of emotion.
2025-01-09 21:06:34
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julz :
this spoke VOLUMES to me right now.
2025-01-10 22:59:12
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✨Hope ✨ :
I feel like I’m so obsessed and attached because of the uncertainty they brought, what could’ve been. But I also feel like I loved him because he wasn’t the right guy for me and very flawed and I stil
2025-01-12 05:05:01
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Ari lynn :
I have anxious attachment sometimes and when I really like someone and they leave I get sad.
2025-01-10 00:11:03
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Gianna <3 :
wow this just blew my mind completely
2025-01-12 05:29:09
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Angel Princess ✂️🏳️🌈 :
This is exactly what I’m going through rn. It’s been over a week no contact and I so badly want to reach out even though I know they’re wrong for me
2025-01-09 21:34:29
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maced :
Fyp blessed me
2025-02-24 05:39:56
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Jesse :
Thank you for putting this into words. I've been going back and forth on this exact issue (is it feelings or is it attachment) and this really gave me a new perspective.
2025-01-10 02:05:26
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nihal :
the sirens somehow added so much to thiss
2025-02-07 18:06:40
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Nico :
I see this in my last relationship. My feelings weren’t strong at all more so mild but the second he said he needed a break I almost felt as though I needed him around constantly. It became this thing that I couldn’t let go of when it started off as something I didn’t really think about
2025-01-10 06:17:30
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Shahana J :
Your thoughts are so profound ❤️
2025-01-26 05:41:07
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Sarah :
Not to be dramatic but I think this video just saved my life.
2025-03-18 15:40:16
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Cårlie :
You’re speaking to my soul
2025-01-11 04:30:20
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bobo :
U read my mind
2025-02-04 01:44:26
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Do what :
I thought I had strong feelings for someone I was seeing for 6 months and was so upset after we broke it off, only to realize that I was only attached to how he made me feel cared for and not him
2025-01-10 20:34:25
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hellcat_rick :
you know what you said makes so much sense it really made me think about a lot of things. I just want to tell you thank you.
2025-01-10 23:04:08
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Canaan :
Thank you for this.
2025-01-10 23:16:56
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JonnyWaggs15 :
I really needed this today
2025-01-17 23:15:05
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