i heard from another tiktok that “only healthy relationships trigger avoidants” and that’s all I needed. Chin up, you did nothing wrong brother.
2025-01-11 10:01:45
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jamie✠ :
Avoidant women are hurting all of us?
2025-01-10 21:55:23
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four :
I’m actually so shocked I can’t believe so many people are dealing with the same thing, I thought I was crazy.
2025-01-11 16:05:35
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Darren :
Your first love with an avoidant is literally one of the deepest wounds you’ll receive because that’s what happened to me and I’m still recovering
2025-01-11 15:25:54
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Zeke :
As a anxious attachment guy with a avoidant girlfriend due to her past traumas. You really just have to learn to balance everything out. Learn to give him or her space because pushing them to talk
2025-01-13 13:06:09
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Christian Elia :
dated an avoidant girl for 5 months and it turned me into a completely different person. all my friends and family noticed. i luckily came to my senses, stood up for myself and ended it. never again
2025-01-11 18:00:19
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Dani :
A fearful/dismissive avoidant being someone’s first love is an odyssey I don’t wish on my worst enemy💔
2025-01-11 08:39:16
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m✭rzi :
as someone who is avoidant and currently healing, you did everything I wish someone had done for me. I’ve tried to explain myself to people, but they never truly understood and i see the care and-
2025-01-11 13:27:29
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mariah gabrielle :
you deserve someone who loves you unconditionally, not someone who blindsides you. it sounds like she checked out of the relationship before she ended it. i’m going thru the same thing rn and it’s—
2025-01-11 10:04:07
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Kay :
This is what being with an avoidant attachment person will do to you.. you did nothing wrong. Someone who loves you will be willing to change and learn how to grow out of what is toxic and bad..
2025-01-11 12:07:03
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ogurullah1 :
fuck avoidants. being this uncaring for breaking someones heart is so evil that i think these people shouldnt even date at all
2025-01-11 10:29:03
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quinn☆ :
Thank you so much for this.. my avoidant boyfriend broke up with me and for the past 5months i still didnt heal from it.. this happened out of nowhere before our engagement by a month..
2025-01-14 00:10:30
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