@melrobbins: @Jay Shetty, I loved this part of our conversation about making friends as an adult… Hear the full conversation from On Purpose (@On Purpose Podcast) wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts 🎧 “How to Use the ‘Let Them Theory’ (A Life-Changing Mindset Hack That 15 Million People Can’t Stop Talking About)”

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kinnyperpetual
kinnyperpetual :
Proximity, timing, energy,…. That’s real
2025-01-10 21:59:54
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thebromyardblogger
Me me :
As you grow older you realise that there's no such thing as friendship.
2025-01-11 10:03:43
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khatri_95
khatri_95 :
Older you get the more careful you are. There are no friends only interest.
2025-08-31 17:34:21
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abdiyusuf123
TT :
The real explanation would be the older u get, the less u trust.
2025-01-11 10:55:33
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abc__822
abc.822 :
I think the shift is that you need to make a conscious effort to maintain the friendship. Although the effort needs to be from both parties. x
2025-01-10 21:05:32
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aten0x
aten0x :
pro tip: stay in contact with at least one of your ex colleagues from every company.
2025-01-12 01:10:18
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e.oll.e
Lil :
As you grow older, you become wiser. Your tolerance for unilateral effort, superficial friendships and disrespect becomes lower.
2025-01-11 18:17:04
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coley845
Coley :
I’m over 40 and I literally just made like 10 new friends in the last 4 months lol Making friends is always easy when you’re friendly lol
2025-01-11 00:07:58
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alco249
Alcohol Black Mirror :
Unfortunately socializing and having friends a lot of the time revolves around drinking alcohol and smoking which is not only destructive to physical health it is also destructive to brain and mental health. Both cause imbalances in neural chemistry. Also people who become sober usually lose friends because of their sobriety.
2025-07-21 02:49:05
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jkayabutter
ANDWAEEEEE :
Not having expectation on friends or new acquaintances, is the best thing I did for my mental health
2025-01-11 18:01:49
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lisamarieh867
LisaMarieH86 :
I have been diagnosed with CPTSD and now I understand why I have struggled so much.
2025-01-10 23:40:21
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vviandez
Vivian 🏳️‍⚧️🪷 :
It's hard to trust coworkers, some people are good at being backstabbers
2025-01-12 02:45:32
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madbeck.89
MadBeck89 :
4 quarters is better than 100 pennies. If a new friendship doesn’t happen naturally then I’m good. 👍🏻
2025-01-10 23:38:33
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pamypompom
Pamypompom :
It’s so easy to make new friends- keep showing up at the same place and interact with others.
2025-01-10 23:19:18
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pialinas
Pia Alina :
And they already have their friend group that developed years ago land you’re new to the city and don’t know anyone. “Infiltrating” a close knit friend group is almost impossible
2025-01-11 04:09:04
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henryhy21
Henrhy21 :
Even my wife is not my friend😭
2025-02-19 00:53:15
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zaytoven1353
Isaiah Stewart :
Finding someone that is willing (outside of their solidified life/routine) to put in the same amount of effort as you into building a relationship is tough as an adult
2025-01-12 02:16:03
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theepeerless1
TheePeerless1 :
the real ones stay friends no matter the distance or timing it really only comes down to energy. I have friends on the other side of the world I see more than a friend who lived in my neighborhood.
2025-01-13 15:42:44
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el_dakkak
M. E. D. :
she could've said that all in two sentences
2025-01-11 23:18:36
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shelbystryker
Shelby Stryker :
this is why going to church regularly has really helped me.
2025-01-11 02:34:33
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cramw_87
Marc Williams :
WoW thank you for putting this into perspective so simply & beautifully ❤️🤗
2025-01-11 00:03:17
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iwonderbyg
Gio-j4w :
💯💯💯💯💯stop having expectation from people!! have only expectation from life and from yourself!!! And learn to be allone!!! to be allone is to find your strength!! so go💯 and believe in yourself!!
2025-01-10 22:24:51
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sassychickx3
sassyspicey :
I used to have friends , then I moved to another state, and I’m 31, idk how to make friends, the only way I’m thinking is hobbies
2025-01-11 06:04:21
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sandances
Sandy Jones :
Virtually none of what she said of applies to me. I had few friends when I was young - I was always bullied. Now my best friends I've ever had live out of state but we connect everyday
2025-01-11 06:11:43
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