I wish I learned this earlier. I dated someone that would actively punish me when he got upset with me and it totally destroyed my self esteem.
2025-01-13 17:53:52
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Nickyyy :
This ladies !!! So important…left my husband 2 months ago for giving me a 6 week silent treatment ! I don’t ever wanna be with a man that is ok with not talking to me for 2 days let alone 6 weeks.
2025-01-12 19:11:11
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itsame! 🇨🇦 :
If someone isn't kind when they're angry, they're not kind at all. I would never ever be with someone that I didn't feel perfectly safe with when they're angry.
2025-01-13 18:59:28
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Matchadose :
I hate being yelled at, it breaks my heart and soul
2025-01-12 21:52:59
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Saige ✨ Healing :
Emotionally safe and mature people never make you feel unsafe in a disagreement 😌😌😌
2025-01-13 01:19:17
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MamaJ :
Unlearning this behavior is so hard but it’s possible and definitely worth it
2025-01-13 22:35:45
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Karmella :
Date somebody who won’t take away their affection bc of a disagreement or sharing your feelings and someone who will validate your feelings! I learned that one the hard way recently 😔
2025-01-12 22:34:52
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Jesse RO :
My mom always said “you can be mad but not mean” growing up! I always remind myself of that
2025-01-13 05:14:30
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cass🧸🕊️ :
i really needed this reminder ty
2025-01-12 18:22:04
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M A N I ❤︎ :
It hurts to have your vulnerability and raw emotions met with silent treatment or some sort of micro aggression. Goin through it rn and it sucks more than anything rn. They won’t get it
2025-01-12 21:23:04
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Cindy :
This goes with friendships too
2025-01-12 23:52:07
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Melanie :
Non negotiable
2025-01-12 22:23:40
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Amber Bennett :
This !! My husband is teaching me so much. Even when he is upset with me he still shows me with his actions how much he loves me. He’s so kind even when we are on different pages
2025-01-13 00:12:16
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Y :
100 percent. Almost a decade in and my husband has never raised his voice or made me feel disrespected during an argument!! I’ve grown so much because of this man’s example!!!🥺
2025-01-12 23:13:09
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user7735562786146 :
my mom giving me silent treatment my entire life and being incredibly rude during the time we were fighting kind of ruined me lol
2025-01-13 07:14:59
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Jessica Smiley :
Ty- I needed to hear this today!!!
2025-01-12 18:05:49
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Isabella Lanter :
Yup!! I dated someone when he was mad he was soooo mean!! And excused it constantly! Dumped him because he had no respect when I did nothing but carry respect for him. Girls run if they do this
2025-01-13 01:51:19
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Sillysav :
SCREAMING PERIOD
2025-01-12 23:55:50
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Kayla Caroline ✨ :
This is something I make a priority. Being sure you’re being thoughtful and kind even during an argument is so important because you can’t take those things back 😔
2025-01-12 21:21:46
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Staysafe :
Yell, disregard you or leave you in an unsafe place because they get upset… A person should care about your safety - always!
2025-01-13 05:53:07
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🐸 :
How many people can say they have relationships like this unfortunately?
2025-01-12 20:44:48
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ejoy817 :
That exists?
2025-01-13 23:08:50
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abitofAESTHETIK :
What if you were kind and patient and they avoided having conversations to resolve any issue so you went silent without yelling not to be malicious but because you felt unheard most of the time?
2025-01-12 22:17:42
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Blondie 🍓🤍 :
Goes for all relationships
2025-01-13 04:40:28
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