I used to have to basically bribe them to hang out w me by being like ILL BUY YOU LUNCH AND PAY FOR GAS! Then they would hang out 🙂 awful. I love my solitude now
2025-01-13 17:54:48
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Libater :
I want my forever friends to have been friends with me for 5+ years. I want an established history with them. I don’t want to have to build it from scratch over several years it’s exhausting.
2025-05-25 03:44:51
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Siby Lina :
You‘re my girlcrush. Queen. ❤️✨❤️🥰
2025-01-13 02:54:28
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Victoria :
I've lost people that I've been friends with for 12+ years. Go through something traumatic and watch them all disappear.
2025-10-22 01:55:38
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gιαииα :
once i made a friend for a few months and i tried to have a difficult conversation about how she wasn’t putting in effort and i felt like i couldn’t even get that conversation and it turned more of to attacks and i just said i don’t want to be friends and we stayed acquaintances but i had also been living alone and by myself and felt the confidence to allow that to happen. people come for reasons and they go for others. only our own lives are what we can control
2025-01-13 13:13:29
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princxssjenny :
This was great advice! Sometimes I have to tell my husband I wanna be alone just so I can be okay with being alone
2025-01-13 12:14:29
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Valle :
I tried to use the time for myself when I gave up on my fake friends but suddenly it was too much for me alone and now I can’t be alone again bcs it reminds me of that feeling to be without real frien
2025-02-19 20:19:33
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Debbie :
all I do is have alone time though 😭
2025-02-16 20:42:31
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goodtimes_wsarah :
Same girl same 🥺 I am having a very hard time right now :/
2025-01-12 21:49:14
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_roxyg :
I feel like I have no middle ground with meeting people I am either mute and isolate or overly friendy and bubbly and people get weirded out or at least get that vibe. Very rarely they are friendly bk
2025-02-15 07:43:49
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Claire :
Thank you for giving quality advice! Sometimes I think people invalidate this feeling (as someone who is currently purging / loving solo time)
2025-01-12 23:12:42
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💋 :
I feel so lonely
2026-02-24 22:09:12
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mia ⭐️ :
Girl u are so awesome!! Love ur content
2025-01-14 04:45:29
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i <3 ldr :
you’re so cool
2025-01-15 13:43:50
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Sara :
Yeah have been feeling like this for like ages. It’s annoying having to feel like you have to be the one that reaches out or puts in effort all the time, then you realize they’re just fake a** ppl
2025-08-26 02:24:31
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val 🎀 :
this means so much thank you
2025-01-13 21:45:46
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morgancamillemusic <3 :
this is such good advice thank you <33
2025-01-12 22:05:17
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Lisa Elizabeth :
Yes!
2025-01-13 02:25:11
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unknownfgh07 :
True
2025-11-02 05:13:10
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loganyoayo :
This is exactly me 😔
2026-08-16 05:09:59
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will 😽 :
tut
2025-09-12 12:53:00
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wakeywakeyyy :
when i was young that used to really bother me ,would feel so lonely and friendless ,didn't matter for nobody blah blah ,i'm almost 26 ,i can't remember last time i cared.I enjoy my solitude sm ,love being by myself.Matter of fact ,feeling rejected when young caused me to become avoidant
2026-01-05 16:11:02
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tilly_not_matilda :
Some people having texting anxiety! Learned that when I stopped texting my best friend.
2025-01-13 18:10:53
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djakdnhshds :
😁😁😁
2025-01-14 04:39:36
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Skyler Stone :
🙏🙏🙏
2025-01-13 03:59:27
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