@natashavctoria: How to break the fearful avoidant cycle as an anxious person ❤️🩹 #fyp #foryou #attachmenttheory #anxiousattachmentstyle #earnedsecureattachment #healing #traumahealing #traumatok #relationships #fearfulavoidantattachment #fearfulavoidant
STOP...turn around and walk away, FOREVER! That's the only way folks.
2025-01-14 10:30:10
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Sapphô 🇨🇦 :
When I triggered my DA, she literally changed so much. I didnt recocgnize her at all... That was so painful, she destroyed me 😞
2025-01-14 01:27:34
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gloire :
I’m fearful avoidant. tbh yea idk if you want someone like me in your life lol
2025-01-16 15:54:15
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Carolyn909 :
No, all I ask for is honest communication. If you need space just let me know. If you have a boundary, cool. It's making me guess these things, or avoiding issues, silence w/out context that triggers.
2025-03-09 19:30:36
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Conner Goldberg :
The defectiveness wound is more of a DA thing. The FA has the wound around not being able to depend on others is what I was told
2025-01-15 23:50:37
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Mimi :
I finally set boundaries (3 yrs later). I’m giving him all the space and silence he wants, but he now knows where he needs to meet me. No more walking on egg shells.
2025-01-14 22:58:03
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Devin Wilder :
Miss Tash.. Can you PLEASE do a FA video on when their words dont match their actions and how they suppress and deny their romantic feelings. Like my brain is about to explode if my heart doesnt first
2025-01-14 20:36:44
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olivernordin :
saying that you cannot let him/her in to the same capacity as before will trigger their fear of abandonment, and they will leave. trust, love and explain how their behavior hurt you
2025-02-04 11:11:44
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BROOKS :
I'm about to block his ahh😒 I'm not gonna keep playing this game
2025-11-29 20:50:47
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The fearful avoidant backs off even further when confronted with how they may have upset you . So if that’s enabling to keep it light , then what do we do?
2025-01-14 01:43:28
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koianlu :
Very clear and concise. Thank you.
2025-01-14 02:20:15
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12345b703 :
What do I do if they broke up a week ago?
2025-03-04 09:09:29
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Olli :
🙄 My avoidant darling is a BPD individual... It's quite hard to know what's triggered.
2025-03-11 07:20:34
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Nyx 🌙 :
The key here is awareness. If they are not aware of what they’re doing, you need to move on. Talking from experience
2025-01-22 20:27:05
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user4289523984330 :
If we tell thm we dnt trust them, theyll get scared and run away; if we tell thm we are afraid, they will tak advantage; if we are avoidant/anxious, there is another reaction, sowhat exactly do we do?
2025-01-14 04:57:13
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@Dreezy22 :
It’s Hell. Don’t stay . Don’t go back
2025-03-20 23:01:11
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✨mylady ✨ :
I can’t rely on him for basically anything, he’s always busy, I’ve had talks/txt he can’t even tell me I’ll be busy until a few days later always saying sorry I was XYZ it’s getting old
2025-01-14 17:15:46
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Χρυσά :
I’m a FA who leans anxious in my relo and literally when that wounded child comes out it’s crazy 😭😭😭😭 but in a FA-DA relo I’d tell you I’d almost tbink iwas secure 🤣
2025-03-30 08:31:50
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alexigarden :
Wow thank you for this 💯🙌🏼♥️
2025-01-15 08:03:57
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Jean2863 :
You are such an incredible window into this complicated mind!! Thank you!!!!🙏🏻 ❤️
2025-01-15 14:30:04
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Caramel Cangaroo :
This is good💯
2025-01-14 21:17:24
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citizen.participatant :
Fantastic advice. I’m Ulas. Let’s practice this on our next call pls
2025-01-14 12:12:57
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Sea_Lord :
Good advice 👌
2025-01-14 12:08:05
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KM :
This helps soooo much!
2025-01-14 07:07:45
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