@natashavctoria: How to break the fearful avoidant cycle as an anxious person ❤️‍🩹 #fyp #foryou #attachmenttheory #anxiousattachmentstyle #earnedsecureattachment #healing #traumahealing #traumatok #relationships #fearfulavoidantattachment #fearfulavoidant

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atomicadventurer
AtomicAdventurer :
STOP...turn around and walk away, FOREVER! That's the only way folks.
2025-01-14 10:30:10
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carolyn_pdx
Carolyn909 :
No, all I ask for is honest communication. If you need space just let me know. If you have a boundary, cool. It's making me guess these things, or avoiding issues, silence w/out context that triggers.
2025-03-09 19:30:36
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gloire.nb
gloire :
I’m fearful avoidant. tbh yea idk if you want someone like me in your life lol
2025-01-16 15:54:15
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user1237382047483929203
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The fearful avoidant backs off even further when confronted with how they may have upset you . So if that’s enabling to keep it light , then what do we do?
2025-01-14 01:43:28
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conner.goldberg
Conner Goldberg :
The defectiveness wound is more of a DA thing. The FA has the wound around not being able to depend on others is what I was told
2025-01-15 23:50:37
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kini911
Sapphô 🇨🇦 :
When I triggered my DA, she literally changed so much. I didnt recocgnize her at all... That was so painful, she destroyed me 😞
2025-01-14 01:27:34
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olli_87h
Olli :
🙄 My avoidant darling is a BPD individual... It's quite hard to know what's triggered.
2025-03-11 07:20:34
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fefaxid
Nyx 🌙 :
The key here is awareness. If they are not aware of what they’re doing, you need to move on. Talking from experience
2025-01-22 20:27:05
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12345b703
12345b703 :
What do I do if they broke up a week ago?
2025-03-04 09:09:29
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bhutani39
Mimi :
I finally set boundaries (3 yrs later). I’m giving him all the space and silence he wants, but he now knows where he needs to meet me. No more walking on egg shells.
2025-01-14 22:58:03
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alwayzblessed35
BROOKS :
I'm about to block his ahh😒 I'm not gonna keep playing this game
2025-11-29 20:50:47
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olivernordin1
olivernordin :
saying that you cannot let him/her in to the same capacity as before will trigger their fear of abandonment, and they will leave. trust, love and explain how their behavior hurt you
2025-02-04 11:11:44
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devin.wilder
Devin Wilder :
Miss Tash.. Can you PLEASE do a FA video on when their words dont match their actions and how they suppress and deny their romantic feelings. Like my brain is about to explode if my heart doesnt first
2025-01-14 20:36:44
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koianlu
koianlu :
Very clear and concise. Thank you.
2025-01-14 02:20:15
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dreezy25
@Dreezy22 :
It’s Hell. Don’t stay . Don’t go back
2025-03-20 23:01:11
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itsjonbovi
Χρυσά :
I’m a FA who leans anxious in my relo and literally when that wounded child comes out it’s crazy 😭😭😭😭 but in a FA-DA relo I’d tell you I’d almost tbink iwas secure 🤣
2025-03-30 08:31:50
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zoostation_diego
user4289523984330 :
If we tell thm we dnt trust them, theyll get scared and run away; if we tell thm we are afraid, they will tak advantage; if we are avoidant/anxious, there is another reaction, sowhat exactly do we do?
2025-01-14 04:57:13
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citizen.participatant
citizen.participatant :
Fantastic advice. I’m Ulas. Let’s practice this on our next call pls
2025-01-14 12:12:57
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yomissj
yomissj :
Damn. I needed this video a week ago.
2025-01-14 17:06:41
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the_sea_lord
Sea_Lord :
Good advice 👌
2025-01-14 12:08:05
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kevink1642
Tharsis Investigations LLC :
Love this one almost the most!!!!
2025-01-14 01:53:13
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muh1313
KM :
This helps soooo much!
2025-01-14 07:07:45
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kellyjo4491
kellyjo4491 :
Yup, 22 years of this back and forth with him until I got therapy and realized it wasn’t all my fault.
2025-01-15 17:15:51
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392.challenger
Mike :
Holy shit, you just nailed it!
2025-01-15 02:29:32
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