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nanny Jo :
I find writing better than talking 👍
2025-01-14 12:50:55
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mopheadmama
Sydney Holland :
"they see it as emotionally charged" is SOOOO accurate
2025-01-14 13:31:27
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kathasnegativeclues
Kathasnegativeclues :
It feels like no matter what I do I’m wrong 😞 If I ask questions I’m challenging their authority, I speak directly I’m emotional, but I try to speak in their methods and suddenly I’m “too faced” 😖
2025-01-14 18:50:21
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blaqbuddafly76
BlaqBuddafly :
I’m crying watching this…I hate not being able to communicate right
2025-01-14 13:15:51
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giganticpepsi
giganticpepsi :
My trained hypervigilance turns off around ppl I get comfortable with, then I get blindsided by a “you should have just known!” and boy that’s distressing
2025-01-14 18:03:05
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heathernicanfhleisdeir
Village Herbalist :
"Can't you take a hint?" No, as a matter of fact, I can't!
2025-01-14 20:04:14
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thesleepypriestess
Sha'Nate the Siren :
Phrases I use every week "When you said that, I understood it as this. Correct?" and "This is not an attack or accusation. It is an attempt to understand." It's annoying but effective...usually
2025-01-14 17:48:41
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user8961331484189
user8961331484189 :
my boss will say something like "we need to do..." and most times it actually means "we" but sometimes it means "you" and then he comes to get the thing he apparently told me to do and I'm like 🤷
2025-01-14 16:30:42
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rhia4350
Rhiannon :
yes, they still insist I'm upset or mad or offended, I'm like, no, I mean only what I said, word for word
2025-01-14 14:50:06
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georgecatbros
George Cat and his Bros :
Husband and I both ND, but we each display different aspects of learned NT communication which causes issues. We receive language like NT, but intermix speaking like ND. Leads to confusion and hurt
2025-01-14 13:50:27
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lacyelembcke1
Lacye Lembcke :
"I want her to know without me telling her..". WHAT??!!
2025-01-14 14:01:41
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dj_fresh_stylez
dj fresh stylez😎 :
I just stopped dealing with people who don't understand
2025-01-14 21:43:47
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byron_uk
Byron_UK :
Using your videos to explain my thoughts to my better half. Thank you.
2025-01-14 12:54:43
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joe621224
Joe62122 :
They react upset like that because it causes inflammation and they don’t know how to respond without being triggered. That’s why glutamate balance is so important to help round off impulses.
2025-01-14 14:09:35
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mk319741
mk31974 :
I somewhat agree but it’s situational. The direct indirectness is an out. If no one is looking or witnessing,these same people have no hesitation to be direct.
2025-01-14 13:34:27
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tylerthegodcreated
Tyler, The God Created :
I feel like have to play “Clue” and “20 questions”. It’s exhausting
2025-01-15 14:52:25
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iamasianese
ngchansi313 :
I’d like to fully understand this but it’s getting confusing after “why didn’t you tell her to…”. I misunderstood and get misunderstood way alot at work and being called naive, in a unserious manner
2025-01-14 13:27:36
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p_delrosso
Paul Del Rosso :
WE ALL NEED TO BE MAKING MORE COMPLIMENT SANDWICHES 😅😅😅
2025-01-15 17:18:24
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hheisenberg0
🍓 SHORT 🎂 :
I love your content. A lot of it makes so much sense. Thank you
2025-01-24 03:03:43
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stacycarp47
schnebly :
Hello! Do you do therapy
2025-03-04 23:39:13
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yofiharmony
YofiHarmony :
I hate the name 'double empathy problem'
2025-01-15 08:24:06
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jehannamama
Jehannamama :
It is my bane. I tend to speak literally, directly - yet the other person seems always to be looking for some hidden agenda that does not exist.
2025-01-16 13:21:57
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sarah_fim
Sarah_Tonin :
I’m curious if, in your career, you see communication difficulty between autistics and ADHD?
2025-01-15 04:07:15
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