@weddingprocass: I am not a fan of Friendors and this proves my point. #weddinghottake #weddingopinion #weddingthought #weddingplanningtips #weddingplanningtip #weddingtiktok #weddingplanner #weddingplanning #weddingplanningadvice #weddingguidance #2024bride #2025bride #2026bride #2027bride
My daughter's DJ was a work friend. He did have a formal contract, but was shocked we fed him and asked if he needed help tearing down his equipment. He was the best.
2025-01-14 19:03:16
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sbw🍁 :
One of our best friends is a photographer, she did our engagement photos. I told her that I didn't want her to do the wedding not because I didn't think she was good but because as our friend-
2025-01-14 20:01:55
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Dumb Commie or w/e :
Our wedding was on a $4k budget. We had a hobbyist friend as a photographer. Biggest regret
2025-01-23 01:18:49
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Tittyroseafelt :
Had my FFIL DJ, I told him to play mostly live songs, things to ballroom dance to, jazz ect. He played top 40s all night. I hated it.
2025-01-14 18:50:59
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CaptWombat :
My sister's friend DJ had to be stopped from playing "The Thunder Rolls" by Garth Brooks and "Independence Day" by Martina McBride. For those not familiar, they're both songs about DV.
2025-01-14 21:48:28
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Em :
the dj at my engagement party played Fishing in the Dark 6 times in 4 hours (twice directly in a row", he got cut off by the bartender & asked me and my fiancé if we had "white powder" for him
2025-01-14 19:54:45
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Brooklyn :
I bartend for a wedding of a friend of a friend. They totally underestimate how much glassware they would need we ran out of clean glasses during cocktail hour. Thankfully there was a kitchen were we
2025-01-15 10:21:07
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bri :
for sure the dj is wild but $600 is also crazy low for a dj.
2025-01-18 00:05:48
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PluviophileReader :
I was taught by my grandma who threw the best parties to never use friends for parties. If they are your friend you will want them there as a guest. I think it's a great rule.
2025-01-15 07:34:59
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Francine Castanon :
Contracts !!!!
2025-01-14 19:41:26
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Sherri Cossel Kappas :
In 1992 we hired a friend. He was AMAZING. we asked him for some very specific odd songs (theme from the show "dinosaurs" for the kids. It was so much fun!
2025-01-14 20:23:54
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bayouwitch76 :
my stepdaughter's uncle was supposed to cater her wedding. 5 days b4 the event the uncle, aunt & cousin ghosted her. luckily for her I like to cook and it was a small wedding like 40ppl
2025-01-14 23:20:41
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CAdogmom :
Never use a friend for a wedding day duty is the biggest absolutely knot! If you happen to have friends that could help with invitations sure why not but day of duties absolutely not!
2025-01-15 15:22:21
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Emily :
The audacity of them omg. We’ve got some friendors lined up but we’ve done stuff with them before and they’re very professional (thankfully)
2025-01-14 19:57:37
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jen_paige_ :
Friend of ours was my sister’s dj but he’s a pro and has a contract - he was great! My cousin hired a friend of a friend for photos and they were TERRIBLE. It’s such a gamble!
2025-02-13 18:55:12
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user5486743990014 :
This happened with my sons and dils day of coordinator. She got drunk and left. There was no contract with her
2025-01-15 01:12:47
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elizaholmes196 :
This is why the best vendors to be friends are the ones that are done before the reception starts. florist, baker, tailor, etc are all safer because they can't mess up the wedding while it's ongoing.
2025-01-16 17:29:25
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AbbeyThePup18 :
if I work with friends, they pay full price.
2025-01-14 20:29:16
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Much blerg :
With friendors like that, who needs vendemies
2025-01-14 21:32:33
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Dominique :
Remember a verbal agreement is just as enforceable as a written contract. But always get it in writing
2025-01-15 18:10:26
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MR :
Hired a friendor to work on my house and I can report not recommended in any context.
2025-01-15 01:39:49
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user3820412552571 :
I agree sometimes having friends for a job at a wedding is not a great idea. Let them just be guests.
2025-01-15 00:40:55
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Monica Briscoe :
😳😳😳
2025-01-18 00:40:46
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Linda Wahlert :
🎄
2025-01-16 16:59:35
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OilfieldBarbie86 :
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2025-01-16 16:53:57
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