@aftershare: sometimes it’s this easy. talking it out #fy #dom #sub #BookTok #booktokfyp #Relationship #dominant #submissive

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marishere8001
Marissa Rose :
Love the example of using the stoplight system in a non play expression of a dynamic!
2025-01-16 03:19:51
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alenareadsbooks
alenareadsbooks :
I would sob, may this Dom find me 🖤
2025-01-16 03:38:24
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upgradevolve :
But the communication being so clear and loving omg
2025-01-16 03:37:25
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code.fox5
Code fox :
I need this in my life because I am damn tired of micromanaging every part of my life and everyone elses.
2025-01-16 03:13:47
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xo.bxx
gloriuhh :
yeah the tears would be coming because i WISH
2025-01-16 03:00:59
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suckerforjoee
🌸 Hailee 🌸 :
are you taking applications? so tired of thinking for a man
2025-01-16 03:49:36
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dreadsie7
Dreadsie :
yeah this convo just showed me I'm definitely not a sub 😂
2025-01-16 04:44:32
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emaginary30
emaginary30 :
Giving up control seems... delightfully terrifying. 😅
2025-01-16 18:19:51
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kaniacqueen
KaniacQueen :
I would still like...want to be heard because like...what if what I needed to do was time sensitive? I would also feel attacked. It's likely we could compromise, but I would like to FINISH MY SENTENCE
2025-01-16 03:50:25
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frlkng_pina
Frlkng_Pina :
You know at first I felt really defensive watching this but once I saw him explaining as to why I needed to get ready, I felt better 😂😩
2025-01-16 03:43:22
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askewedmind
Katie :
I'm not a fan of domming to control someone's self care personally, but this is a beautiful example of using the spotlight system well.
2025-07-11 05:41:54
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christyec
christyec :
I just teared up. 🥺 I need this now. I am so tired of having to take care of everything all the time.
2025-01-16 04:41:35
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silversilnaak
callsign Temptest :
🤣 listen I asked if I could safe word aftercare cause it was genuine and it felt like too much, once. ironically the aftercare was for safewording
2025-01-16 02:54:05
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chalkett6
Charlotte :
I think I need a dom in my life 😳
2025-01-18 03:25:02
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juliennethekitchen
JuliennetheKitchen :
Yes, for using the stoplight! Calm, clear, consensual, candid, caring, conversation. 😮‍💨
2025-04-10 00:37:04
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cupcakecaseyjo
Casey Jo :
First of all the color system is top tier. Second of all if I ever find this I will melt.
2025-01-16 04:23:03
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heidibaltom
Heidi :
I absolutely love this. It shows what a real adult conversation between 2 consenting adults should be. I also love the use of safe word outside of play and immediately respected it.
2025-01-16 20:09:20
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oliviabyrd06
Olivia Byrd :
Question, why wouldn’t you ask what all she had planned for the day and use that in the overall communication of what going to happen?
2025-01-16 17:21:50
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romansse65
Eva💜🇱🇻 :
That’s why I always think I’m couldn’t live the lifestyle because of my control issues which is a protection mechanism for me. 🥺 Before therapy I didn’t even know I’m a control freak 😬
2025-01-16 05:26:27
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kaindelvin
Kain :
Today I learned i am definitely not meant for this type of lifestyle cause i woulda been in a fight being interupted that many times. thank you.
2025-01-16 18:37:43
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aushi_jan
Aushi 🇵🇷 :
Im both HELL NO and NEED THIS 😂😅
2025-01-17 23:49:17
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belkab00
belkab00 :
This was a really great example of this dynamic
2025-01-16 05:54:20
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dfwgolden
TheWhiteCrayon 🇺🇸🆘😭 :
For some reason I would be so incredibly angry if someone told me “how to take care of myself” so I should probably unpack that 😂
2025-01-17 04:34:21
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irisnf
Iris Freitas :
that would fix me I'm afraid
2025-01-17 23:54:20
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brittney.wright5
Brittney Wright :
aww man this is why I don't think I could be in 24/7 dymanic. 😅
2025-01-16 23:25:19
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