@haileena: The fawning trauma response. #fyp #foryoupagе

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aflh47
AFLB✨ :
And this is why I have no idea who I am as a person
2025-01-21 03:39:09
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lubas.art
Luba :
And then unlearning it in adulthood because shyness and being quiet actually holds you back in life / career 🥴
2025-01-21 04:44:08
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boougiiee
Icy :
It hurts as an adult when I think of all the masking I did as a child, I was supposed to be a child
2025-01-21 12:57:22
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joo.joo.joo.joo.joo
luka :
someone said to me that "you were not acting mature for your age, you were just scared, and you never got to grow past that so you are still the scared child" I haven't got over this... it's been years
2025-01-20 19:38:07
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iodesuu
衣美杏 :
it turns into anger and rebellion and people start to look at you differently
2025-01-21 09:11:30
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phosgraphex
Xhesi :
Feeling uncomfortable in spotlight, always wanting to work back office or create silently and the fear of being perceived is insane. Still unlearning it all
2025-01-21 14:01:38
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wegotoadmode
toad :
Then as an adult you have to learn things about yourself that you should have learned in childhood. what are my hobbies? what do I like?
2025-01-21 17:50:14
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selinalalalalalala
Selina :
People think i‘m ✨mysterious✨ but it’s really just severe anxiety
2025-01-21 23:58:06
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sofiameditates
Sofia :
How do we heal this?
2025-01-21 17:14:33
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atrociousbear
Atrociousbear :
Anytime I tried to use my voice it was seen as "talking back" and I was punished for it.....I was just using my voice like I was taught but over the years I was silenced and became "very obedient" 💔
2025-01-21 14:06:13
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iamgrayce
Grayce :
former good girl here. I remember there was a point where the rage of being walked all over by others overshadowed the fawn response. now learning healthy boundaries
2025-01-21 20:31:58
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kathry372
Kathryn :
funny how my rage is exploding out these days, i hate it by the way, i hate hurting people
2025-02-15 19:18:21
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healingmoonshine
Moonie :
and now i‘m the rebellious daughter
2025-01-20 20:31:13
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observerdied
delulu bisch :
I used to be so loud and had such a personality. Didn't realize I started losing it slowly and now it has faded completely leaving an awkward shy adult who constantly wants to crawl out their skin
2025-01-21 23:53:52
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alexandra.schrag
🌞 Lexi 🌞 :
never heard it put like this and it just hit me like a truck. i was terrified of having a personality, i just wanted everyone to like me so i felt like they wouldn’t yell at me
2025-01-21 00:02:37
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apricotblosm
𝐌𝐚𝐢 𝐀𝐧𝐡🫧 :
This feels too personal 😳
2025-01-20 21:31:40
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monchichianni
monchichike :
This will never go away! I will always be silent and obedient , because what would they think of me? what if…? Hate this feeling🥺
2025-01-20 23:30:04
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leavemealoneplstyvm
Mary :
Ho did u just diagnose me
2025-01-21 22:55:17
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carissafrazer
Carissa ♡ :
And now I feel shameful and guilty for existing and making any decision or trying to figure out who I am. Trying so hard to heal this tho. 🫂🫂
2025-01-21 00:20:16
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kai_notcenatx
kai_notcenatx :
And that’s on having self identity issues and hating others for not seeing through my mask or facade
2025-01-21 07:58:20
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kaimariin
kaimariin :
I'm 43 and just learning all of this. Learning who I am now.
2025-01-21 16:29:11
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i_dont_know8558
i_dont_know :
my whole identity is based on being nice and palatable
2025-01-22 13:21:06
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ahleynah
。.。♡ :
Everyone thinking im soft and weak but im actually fiery and probably stronger than most but dont express it ever 😍😍😍😍
2025-01-21 10:11:07
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hj.dalton
HJ🤍 :
“I was terrified to have a personality so I chose obedience.” Wow that sums it up in a way I never heard but makes so much sense❤️‍🩹had to stop and put my phone down after reading that
2025-01-21 06:29:42
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wh173248817
wh173248817 :
now i suffer from the suppressed emotions and built up resentments. i have no one to turn to around me because all they know is the fraud i posed for years.
2025-01-22 21:58:41
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