Extreme ownership and accountability. It’s something you can control.
2025-01-24 23:44:05
4673
wrusstpd :
to be highly successful you need to be highly traumatised.... mental wellbeing has nothing to do with success...
2025-01-25 11:02:36
2084
Sarah 🎰🍸👩🏼💻 :
It’s not fault, it’s radical responsibility
2025-01-25 06:29:47
1151
Poneroni :
I’ve been going to therapy for years to stop believing this
2025-01-24 23:18:26
1057
1234567 :
Basically, high performers take accountability.
2025-01-25 11:25:13
413
nonamenophoto :
I’m a high performer and I don’t think everything is my fault. I just think everything in my life is simply my responsibility from what I think to what I choose to do.
2025-01-25 06:54:40
418
Carverofchoice :
Correction: they don't care at all about fault. It's that everything is their responsibility. Nobody cares whose fault it is.
2025-01-25 17:54:45
383
twiddle007 :
We are driven by constant anxiety
2025-01-25 21:35:00
79
BowlCutPat :
its more that high performance people constantly think "how can i improve myself and The work etc. its not that we think "we are at fault"
2025-01-27 15:11:40
12
94746274847372858362638584758a :
to call this mentally healthy or well is questionable. This is why a lot of high performers commit sluicide. Wisdom to know the things I cannot change is healthier.
2025-01-26 06:06:18
31
JustaGirlinMN :
Radical accountability.
2025-02-05 07:59:52
14
Desi Lorraine 🌺 :
When I was performing at the level, I was my unhealthiest. I did not allow myself or others to make mistakes, I had little empathy for others, and I wanted control over everything.
2025-01-25 00:54:01
88
Sujan-Mindfulness-Meditation :
I may not use the word "fault," but I am accountable to myself and then see it through that prism inside out.
2025-01-24 23:30:21
121
Michael :
Everything is my responsibility #Radicalresponsibility
2025-01-24 23:06:41
237
markgilman_ :
I have experienced the crippling version of this, where that level of responsibility feels overwhelming and the fear of failure causes freeze.
2025-01-25 16:43:34
17
NotSoGangstaMom :
AKA Anxiety
2025-01-30 17:36:00
15
davidkeller120 :
This is a great teaching
2025-01-25 00:29:06
15
FunkyMermaid :
Basically taking responsability for EVERYTHING
2025-01-25 23:14:06
89
Katie S. Berry :
I used to think this way and all I got from it was anxiety. I’m definitely more mentally healthy having taught myself to let go and not blame myself for everything.
2025-01-26 12:28:23
15
just bridge :
my therapist said that me believing everything is my fault was unhealthy. i can see from this that it can be a great tool! how do i let go of the judgment/ beating myself up part?
2025-01-25 06:19:31
58
- :
I get why this works, but man it seems toxic and exhausting to live your entire life like that
2025-01-26 01:57:06
13
D :
responsibility rather than fault. separate the useless shame aspect. take everything under your wing. we're taught this as engineers as well.
2025-01-26 15:09:11
13
🇨🇦 taleof2tails 🇨🇦 :
So homelessness is my fault? 🤔
2025-01-25 01:22:13
15
Nora Ayola :
This is 100% true but also they are one of the most resilient persons.
2025-01-25 03:48:08
28
⁺‧₊˚ ♡ ପ(๑•ᴗ•๑)ଓ ♡˚₊‧⁺ :
Or “I just assume everything is my responsibility” also hits deep!!
2025-01-27 09:59:42
5
To see more videos from user @olesyaluraschi, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.