@najwazebian: Avoidants

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conscious.reflection
Sarah ~ Shadow Work Coach :
When expressing your feelings is always viewed as an attack it’s so exhausting
2025-01-29 03:24:57
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nikac3101
Nikki Cook :
I start questioning is it me, so confused, feel like a child who is too scared to speak.
2025-01-26 20:28:46
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lll2v2lll
Valerie :
My partner says this alot -“I’m not responsible for the way you feel”
2025-01-27 10:49:31
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goldgate26
Carrie Muecke :
So true. My ex-husband would look at me like I was “attacking” him when I would try to express my feelings about HIS betrayal. It was so hard. You really can’t fix the ones who broke you. Move on.
2025-01-26 02:20:58
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awesomegrandma01
Awesomegrandma01 :
constantly, It was so draining
2025-01-26 14:30:22
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rensass
REN :
i feel lost, everything is my fault and it bundles up. he says i argue too much but i don't argue. I say hey I'm feeling this and this and he turns it around on me
2025-01-28 10:19:25
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sarahm_232323
Melissa Sarah :
Okay but what if you question if you’re making mountains of molehills/too sensitive/looking for problems? I’m never sure if I’m causing issue for nothing or have good reason to be upset.
2025-01-28 23:29:43
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ladyfox011
ladyfox011 :
this is my life right now ,I'm in a state of survival mode I can't take it anymore I'm trying to love myself the more so I can be able to make the right decision for me and my kids
2025-01-29 20:00:09
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user1311667705284
user1311667705284 :
my God this is exactly what I'm dealing with
2025-01-26 22:18:14
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roerbaktosti
nikki <3 :
Been through exactly this.. I left him last Friday. I would’ve loved to see things differently but it just wasn’t happening, I feel relieved right know and things will get better
2025-01-27 21:00:55
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mr.jmac7
mr.jmac :
You just described my life for 18 years
2025-01-26 12:43:54
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clemmmy12
Clementine :
💯💯💯 and they threaten to leave.
2025-01-26 15:17:00
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andreahill201
Andrea :
I'm used to so much negativity that when there is positive I question it and don't trust it... years of emotional abuse makes me unmotivated to try and change my life
2025-01-26 09:07:27
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taliawcoaching
Talia coaching :
Seeing the truth of things is where the insights and transformations can begin.
2025-01-26 10:09:40
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mariloucat22
Cat :
👍right
2025-01-26 07:45:54
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keem.j
Kimberly John :
What if they say they don’t want to talk because the kids will hear and they’re not going to be that kind of parent lol
2025-01-28 17:10:43
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kelsnake
Kel Snake🇨🇦 :
My relationship with an avoidant was soooooooo different that I had to research it more so I might understand. We are not together anymore.
2025-01-26 11:52:57
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key_kat16
key kat <3 :
they train you how to act with your anger
2025-01-26 23:02:04
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kalinnn33
Kalin :
He asked me if there was something wrong. I told him he was insensitive towards me the day before but it felt pointless to talk about it so I stayed quiet. He told me to stay quiet and turned the music up on me.
2025-01-27 23:22:07
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liveleigh
Leigh :
my partner would emotionally disappear on me if I brought up even the smallest thing that hurt my feelings. I became so scared. tried not to feel. tried to fit in and not create "waves". -
2025-01-29 15:12:14
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mandywilliams336
Fierce Warrior :
yes I felt like I was causing a problem for expressing my feelings
2025-01-27 07:31:41
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fbro020 :
Couldn’t have express better that’s 💯 true
2025-01-26 15:24:15
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ticktock_192226
F E :
That's how I feel with my daughter
2025-01-25 17:12:18
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loudhush68
__@68T__ :
Ahh, the (not so) good old “I’m mad at you for being mad at me for something I’ve done.” I’ve been in that cycle before - for years. So glad I’m past that. Thank you. This is important.
2025-01-28 03:22:22
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traciehelton
Tracie Helton :
the funny thing is he brings up the problem and then I react and then apparently I become the problem for reacting...
2025-01-27 10:41:12
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