@mackenzieherman: Feeling things hurts, and vulnerability is so hard, but I’m staying. I have hope. #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #lettersforclosure #peace #recoveringavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #dismissiveavoidantattachment #secureattachment #Relationship #healing #hope #ihavehope
It's so rare, seeing an avoidant just doing the work..... not the one I wished for but anyway..... Thank you!!
I'm so proud of you!!!
2025-01-28 06:23:40
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AnonIsAmuse :
The problem is that at the beginning of the relationship it was the avoidant who wanted the relationship more until it overwhelms them
2025-02-15 10:09:25
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Bran :
many didn't realize but both avoidant and Anxious both needed to heal, doesn't mean the avoidant are the evil one
2025-01-29 05:51:01
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Maggie :
Thank you for being so vulnerable with us. Your content does help.
2025-01-28 00:54:39
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Big Shook :
She was so great in the beginning. Then she became very hot and cold after telling me I was the best man she has ever been with. Needless to say she broke me and left me to pick the pieces up alone while she acts like I never existed.
2025-01-28 00:35:38
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People don’t see the regret most avoidants feel when they hurt the people they care about and it’s something they do subconsciously not on purpose we feel overwhelmed please not all abundant are bad
2025-02-15 12:38:24
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Seth Austin :
The hardest truth I’ve seen while studying this is Avoidants only run when it was really good. I’m proud of you for standing in this and sharing the side no one else gets to ever hear.
2025-01-28 00:38:08
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Just_Lindsey :
Not only are you helping heal some things in us anxious folks, but you’re also setting an example for other avoidant ppl and giving them hope that they can also change.
2025-01-28 01:19:26
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papa.bless :
I've learned i'm Avoidant 2 years ago and stopped dating. I didn't want to hurt someone again, I don't think people like us should be dating until we work on ourselves and learn how to heal
2025-02-17 08:58:22
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morocla :
I’m SO proud of you for allowing yourself to go through this process and feel all these emotions. We support you. Your journey is healing all of us.
2025-01-28 00:28:07
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Zach :
I was discarded by a dismissive avoidant 6 months ago. It literally took me to rock bottom depression. Watching videos from a DA perspective has helped me in my healing journey. Thank you
2025-01-28 02:45:07
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luki :
I’m never forgiving my DA, not for discarding me, but for making lifelong plans the day before, and leaving without even a word the next day.
2025-01-28 11:16:41
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jnutz24 :
Even though we showed you the pain we appreciate you being honest and open about avoidance. If you're allowing yourself to feel you're already healing. keep going. proud of you
2025-01-28 00:26:35
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Antonio Breez :
God bless you for trying to comfort people you don’t know. What you are trying to do is actually really beautiful and shows you’re very empathetic
2025-01-28 00:50:52
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⚡️我的CN就是妹子 :
Thank you for posting this and thank you fyp for shpwing this up 💔
2025-02-18 16:16:37
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Tashia :
Let's give a big shout out to Mack! Yes you were vulnerable but what I hear most of all is self awareness and that's the beauty! Change starts at self awareness, so big congrats in your progress!
2025-03-05 08:16:26
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samantha :
I'm proud of you. Not only for not running, but for putting it out there!!! You're healing and that's hard, but you're doing it. Even though my avoidant hurt me so badly, I understand him and why
2025-01-28 00:29:38
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I love stickers 💟 :
I have immense compassion as an empath but accountability and responsibility is essential for growth
2025-01-28 17:48:04
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Weeble557 :
Why does something so good? Have to turn into hurting two people so much? I think that is why I cannot let go. Because it makes no sense.
2025-01-28 00:37:04
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Taylor | Louisiana Realtor :
He absolutely ruined me and couldn’t care less 🙃
2025-01-28 04:18:22
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Panni Mészáros :
this actually gives me hope that avoidants are not bad people and I was not with a psychopath who hurt me intentionally, but still never again EVER
2025-01-28 09:21:31
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alt.melissa :
This just healed a piece of me. I have accepted my avoidant will never reach this level of self-awareness and progress, but seeing others get there is hopeful for others.
2025-01-28 02:05:42
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🇨🇦Mami 🇨🇦💪💪💪 :
Avoidant need learn how to deal emotion matuarly because immature emotion handling hurting so many people and most hurting is yourself You can deserve greater once heal and learn ❤️
2025-01-29 17:05:00
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ADHDOrca / (DJ) SENs0ry :
You’re a very brave lady
2025-01-28 06:39:52
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