@missclairebenjamin: 🚨 Handling hard worker “punishment”👇 Being reliable and hard working are both great traits. Sometimes though if we don’t know how to assert ourselves and set boundaries we can find ourselves in a situation where we’re taken advantage of. We must learn how to communicate our limits and boundaries to people. If we haven’t told someone our limits they cannot know what they are. (PS My course People Mastery is open for enrolment until Friday 31st January. I teach you step by step how to master assertiveness and boundaries so you don’t find yourself in situations like this anymore. Go to missclairebenjamin.com/enrol for details) It’s important to let them know your limits and needs directly and respectfully. Here are 3 steps I would recommend: 1️⃣ Let them know it’s uncomfortable for you raising it as you are naturally a hard worker and want to support. This signals to them that you wouldn’t be raising it without good reason. 2️⃣ Communicate your limits and why by sharing the potential consequences. For example: “I’ve been really happy to put in these extra hours over the last few months due to XYZ. I cannot maintain the hours I’m currently working though, if I do I’m going to make mistakes and burnout completely which isn’t good for anyone” 3️⃣ Share clearly what you need to change. For example: “I need us to have a conversation about how to start spreading the workload more evenly across the team and upskilling people?” 💬 Have you ever felt like this? Share your experiences in the comments 👀 📌 Please remember the advice offered in this video is generalised and intended for guidance purposes only. It will not fit every situation so please use your own judgment based on your own unique situation. 💾 Save this for when you might need it ✈️ Share with someone who this could help 🚀 Follow for more tips on handling tricky situations at work #worktips #leadershipdevelopment #work #corporatelife #emotionalintelligence #difficultconversations #communicationskills #assertivecommunication #boundaries
As a neurodivergent I hate that I have to do everything but I also hate when others don’t do the task the way I want them to or teaching people again and again is tiring too when they aren’t listening
2025-01-28 21:08:21
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LibelleTales :
And this, is why I quit silently. awaiting the pay review, no increase moving on
2025-01-28 23:04:48
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Zayn :
Don’t work late. Clock out at 5:30 and return at 9.
2025-01-29 11:05:23
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Jim Boulter :
Covered two jobs for two years. Asked for help. Got told we all need to cover for holiday sometimes. It’s been two years. Not two weeks!
2025-01-29 07:55:59
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Lil Marco :
Claire it so unfair that people can bring dog to office but I can’t bring two of my chickens in they very well behaved and are too old to be left alone they roam
2025-01-28 19:32:02
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Ruby Sunshine :
Manager delegating her job basically
2025-01-29 17:31:08
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Vix :
jokes on them, I was so useful to my manager people assumed I was the manager and when he left, I took the job and now I get to be the manager I wish I had
2025-01-28 22:30:21
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Christianbennett :
bad management and other staff playing games
2025-01-31 14:46:01
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Paul R 🇦🇺 :
toxic. management needs to be fired. it's unlawful workload
2025-01-31 02:41:16
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Sue M :
I recently learned about the Radical Candour matrix and it's completely changed my game!
2025-01-28 19:04:29
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Cherry :
Nah I’m always doing the minimum i don’t care
2025-01-29 13:50:06
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Who? :
I was like this, get everything done that I could get my hands on in no time, I was given too much work, I was burnt out. Then at my eoy review, I was given a “meeting expectations”, I stopped
2025-03-15 10:36:57
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安娜 Anna 🍉🍙🪆 :
I did for few months I was burnt down and ended with bad preforming. Had enough and left.
2025-01-28 22:47:15
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macattack86 :
We have some clowns at my work. I used to go above and beyond but now I don't bother.
2025-01-30 07:36:28
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Baked Beans 🫘 🌵 ☀️ :
What bothers me is that the employee needs to even say this. Managers, companies, bosses who are like this shouldn’t have to be “trained” by an employee on how to be a boss
2025-01-30 20:39:59
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STG :
Needed this - I’m constantly working over and seems to be the status quo of expectation now. Nobody else ever does 💀
2025-01-28 19:56:05
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Gumpy54 :
the only thing you get for working hard is more work.
do the minimum you can in order to not get fired.
2025-03-05 12:04:25
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Synnabun :
I was pulling my coworkers weight because they do less than bare minimum and the thanks I got was more work. Stepped wayyyyy back after that
2025-02-10 19:24:45
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Gudegude-tama :
Tried doing this and my boss just brushed it off. Endured for more than one year and finally quit the job
2025-01-31 03:47:20
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DystopianNightmare :
How do we approach a similar scenario but not overtime, just addition after addition of new tasks for no extra pay
2025-01-29 15:40:18
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Oliwia 🌙 :
what if all of my colleagues work unpaid overhours and they expect the same from me? 😭 nobody seems to protest except from me
2025-01-29 22:35:30
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alasdairjm :
Recently did this and my line manager was amazing and totally understood, agreed to reassign work and support me. Definitely speak up, but do it professionally and calmly
2025-03-10 08:06:52
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Rob_M78x :
Before I started my own business I made a diligent effort to leave the office precisely at 5pm each day.
2025-03-05 21:59:48
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Celtic Gibson :
Who would want to work in a place with constant passive aggressiveness?
2025-01-30 13:39:09
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