thebetterthoughts
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Stoicism isn't selfish, but then again this isn't stoicism.
2025-01-29 13:23:43
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Svenni aka Sienna | Author :
people pleasing is a trauma response developed by people trying to survive. its not selfish. stop blaming them...
2025-01-31 16:17:35
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ϵ(•͈⌔•͈)϶ GOT7 cartoon :
how is it selfish to prioritize everyone else needs before ourselves 🤨
2025-01-31 19:05:12
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🌙✨🃏🎭Shim🎭🃏✨🌙 :
This feels like gaslighting. 😃
2025-01-31 14:47:30
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Just silly ol’ me :
to all my people pleasers out there, you are loved
2025-02-01 02:52:33
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user78954478946 :
no i’m a people pleaser cause i value other’s feelings more than my own not because i want to be liked by everyone
2025-01-31 16:26:33
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Mari99999 :
So am selfish
2026-01-09 01:37:25
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I’m not trying to be selfish
2025-07-18 02:43:35
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★Sh00ting St@r★ :
It's some Kind of Trauma but You can't say It because then You get Judge because there are "more Important" Traumas...I think everyone has multipule Tiny traumas
2025-05-24 18:38:50
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joey.c.32 🇵🇷🤍 :
Its a trauma response. Its not selfish. Its protecting ourselves.
2025-02-05 23:07:20
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Maartje :
how is that selfish though... im also really just kind and want the best for everyone and everything
2025-01-31 19:49:46
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☆MJ♡ :
im confused.. am i good or bad beeing people pleaser?
2025-06-02 17:11:12
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Zena Leech-Calton 🇬🇧 :
Don’t agree
2025-03-06 09:44:34
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𝕋𝕒𝕟𝕟𝕖𝕣 𓆩✞𓆪 :
So I try so hard to not be selfish but in the end it doesn’t matter? I’ll always be selfish no matter what I do?
2025-10-09 04:47:28
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nana (junkrats wife) :
wether im a people pleaser or not, i still get called selfish. might aswell make them happy if i cant be 🫡
2025-03-30 11:19:17
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Helena :
I learned as child that people will reject me if I am honest, so I became a people pleaser. But now I don't want to be that anymore
2025-05-22 08:59:54
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⦻~Sara~⦻ :
I just don’t want to get left out again..
2026-08-06 16:40:35
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•.Zelda.•❤️🩹🧷🦑🐇 :
How is putting others before you selfish💔💔
2025-08-14 11:32:47
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Daisy-boo♡ :
It’s anxiety not selfishness
2025-12-27 22:03:27
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Bowie :
For the people asking how it selfish, all we do is prioritize their approval, we’re not pushing back for our own safety, setting a false sense of security for the relationship and the boundries of it
2025-05-06 18:54:56
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123456789010111213141516171819 :
How's poeple pleasing selfish if it's literally about putting others before yourself
2026-07-03 22:56:24
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secretas70 :
not true. I help other people and put their needs first because I know how it’s like to have no one that helps or even try’s to understand. So no. I’m not selfish.
2026-01-21 19:47:40
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