yes, everything was an arguement like sir I just want to TALK this out
2025-01-30 05:38:16
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flowithmillyy :
Why someone with high emotional intelligence tend to attract someone with less of if? Is a toxic cycle like anxious and avoidant?
2025-01-30 07:59:48
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mariahbabe :
He would think I’m trying to argue. I stopped telling him what bothers me to avoid conflict.
2025-01-29 23:41:42
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brooke :
They blame you for their reactions
2025-02-03 17:36:31
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Uncomfy.Truths :
They turn the attention to THE WAY you’re delivering your truth. It’s too aggressive. It’s too angry. So I never really get to fully express myself because I end up feeling bad about my delivery.
2025-01-30 13:36:46
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Manshy⏾ :
A person who runs from their own emotions will never provide you the emotional intelligence. Learnt it hard way. Don’t expect them to understand you
2025-01-30 14:44:22
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Hope Writes🍉📚🇿🇦🏳️🌈 :
"Why are you always focused on negative things" 😭🤚🏾 "You're always finding problems where there aren't any". "You're always trying to start arguments" Oh my dear run. RUN
2025-01-30 21:09:45
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💛Chrissy☀️ :
He called me manipulative everytime. It’s like communicating with a 40 year old teenager.
2025-01-30 02:48:32
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Ash Loren :
And that’s why I’m single now ❤️
2025-01-29 22:50:34
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𝐉𝐚𝐬𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐞 𖦹 :
I wanna send this to him but he won’t understand a word your talking about 😫
2025-02-01 18:43:55
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Sigils_In_Ash :
I thought I was emotionally immature until I realized I was dating an avoidant and I was reacting to their abuse.
2025-01-30 05:17:23
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esme.styling :
Everybody is “emotionally intelligent” until you actually try to communicate your boundaries
2025-01-31 01:34:52
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L A U R A :
And then you feel like you are going crazy and get told it’s your fault they are like this 😑
2025-01-30 00:49:48
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Summer :
Actually my husband used to be like this, but I had to think about it and observe how his family functions and I understood he never felt heard, seen, or that he was smart enough. So I went about
2025-02-25 18:26:11
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Kym - Outdone and Over It :
This was my ex. He was so disassociated from his own emotions he could not understand mine. I did lose myself but his last betrayal was my freedom. I left and baby life is GOOD GOOD!! ✨🎉
2025-01-30 00:04:39
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sstaygoldponiii :
He doesn’t realize I’m not BLAMING him for things, I’m simply just telling him why I feel that way. He always wants me to understand him and I do, but what about me?
2025-11-04 22:19:42
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🐇 :
I’m dealing with this right now. I know our relationship is coming to an end, not just bc of this, but I can’t even communicate how I’ve been feeling without him shutting down and I end up apologizing
2025-02-27 00:26:14
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Zoë :
This was validating.
2025-02-03 07:13:33
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AmandaR :
Yep why I left him
2025-01-30 00:31:45
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lilly :
I always had to send with “I am not coming at you, I’m just expressing how I feel”
2025-02-02 01:57:31
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Krista K :
he always played the victim, And took my feelings as personal attacks. So eventually I just started getting more aggressive with the way I express my feelings. I am not backing down and becoming small
2025-01-30 20:33:15
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arte.di.alan :
A sign of an intelligent person is if they are able to argue the other side. If they can’t, then it means the ego is involved and they can’t possibly be rational…
2025-01-31 15:11:54
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Dawnie :
As as someone who is raised with emotionally immature parents, I am working on this constantly with myself. It feels like trying to teach myself how to read with no alphabet. I want to love fully.
2025-02-27 17:22:33
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Catherine :
I've been living this for 12 years. The cycle is my emotional needs get ignored, he gets a pass bc he's 'not capable,' and I die a little more every day. It is hell.
2025-01-31 23:55:15
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emi_hernan25 :
When ever I brought something up he would bring something up from a month ago!!
2025-01-30 05:25:31
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