@abefromanx: it’s okay to love yourself and desire things you don’t have yet #breakup #dating #datingadvice #datingtips #advice #tips #boyfriend #girlfriend #Relationship #relationships #lonely #loneliness #breakupadvice #single
“It will happen when you least expect it” I swear don’t PMO 😭
2025-02-06 06:57:38
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okayjosey328 :
Hated when people told me just work on myself more. Like did they think i wasn’t lovable at the time just how i was?
2025-02-05 22:18:54
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ellecaterina :
I love myself :( I wish someone else did too lol
2025-02-05 22:55:42
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🐣 :
like why do i have to work on myself when it just happened for you and you did nothing? hate that response
2025-02-06 14:54:19
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whymaddy :
Absolutely. Also idk I feel that in today’s age, you kinda need to be actively looking for a relationship if you want one. Ppl don’t approach others anymore or introduce friends.
2025-02-05 20:34:07
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NekoSayaka :
I think this society in general is invalidating.
2025-02-05 20:02:00
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not lia :
i’d rather be single than be in the wrong relationship 🤷♀️
2025-02-05 22:30:35
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brooke :
literally same. i’ll be 27 in april and i feel like ive never had like a ‘real’ relationship
2025-02-05 18:36:55
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Rebecca Scheinert👑 :
I’ve had girl friends treat me less than just for the reason. or treat me like I’m a “child” even tho I pay for my own bills and live by myself . So I rarely tell other’s
2025-02-05 21:07:03
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Claudia🌹 :
And sometimes the people who say things like it will happen when you least expect it etc…. Have been in a few relationships already like it’s so easy for them
2025-02-05 21:00:34
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Zoë <3 :
It’s so frustrating, like I’ve been loving myself for years and now I want to love someone else
2025-02-06 04:48:48
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Jess🪻 :
I hate that response like I do focus on myself. I’m with me 24/7…
2025-02-06 14:35:51
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Deni3 :
Yeah i stopped telling ppl this bc they can’t comprehend never being in a relationship and end up saying “I wish I would’ve waited” as if it’s a gift to be in my position 😂
2025-02-07 11:56:24
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Morg :
The “work on yourself” thing can feel patronizing because it’s like, I AM. I have so many hobbies!
2025-02-06 18:52:57
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dani__dani5 :
It’s better to just validate someone’s feelings and hold space for someone than to try and give advice in situations like this. Unfortunately most people who don’t experience bouts of loneliness don’t understand this
2025-02-05 21:41:16
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Briana T. :
my therapist told me to join the apps and then when I got out of a toxic situationship from hinge she told me to get hobbies 💀 like what??
2025-02-05 23:53:30
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joshaaron.13 :
I seriously hate when they say it will happen when you stop looking... LIES
2025-02-06 19:53:40
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Jaz :
right, the feeling of being desired, liked, wanted. self love is the first step but still wanting to be pursued is nice
2025-02-08 01:00:08
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marinaseesen :
takes a little longer???? girl I’m fully convinced it will never happen at this point lol
2025-02-06 06:13:24
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gh0st_glitch :
Or tell u “it’s not that great” and just use it as a time to complain about their partner. Maybe it sucks for u but damn, let me vent.
2025-02-06 13:47:46
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Justice T. Marshall📚🎼🎭 :
It’s like I’m starving while sitting at a dinner table where I can’t eat but I get to watch everyone else eat.
2025-02-17 06:56:42
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🐌 :
when it comes from people who are in relationships it sounds so rude? like they’re insinuating i’m not a well rounded person yet and still need to work on myself to deserve a relationship
2025-02-12 11:10:21
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Ana & Addie :
I dont get why people in relationships are so judgy about others desiring one. I’m in one and I love it so why shouldn’t you lol
2025-02-06 01:00:37
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Faith :
26 and have never dated. I am very independent, and I guess men dont find that attractive…🤷🏼♀️
2025-02-06 05:41:46
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