Why am I so good at platonic love? Why can I handle everything my friends throw at me but not romantic love? Why do I suddenly become this person that makes their partner feel unappreciated? I'm so mad at myself. I got further this time but I honestly hate that I lose good ppl bc of my brain
2026-01-29 17:52:57
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Skrt N GRT :
time to start avoiding these tiktok’s hahahaha
2025-02-06 17:55:51
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max.hrprw :
"sit with it" girl that is sending me into a panic attack
2025-02-08 17:11:07
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:| :
I think I’m avoidant attachment, but in such a way that I avoid getting into a relationship at all. I don’t feel like a ton of advice for avoidants applies to me 😭 idk what to do
2025-02-06 22:57:51
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ya ya :
i am avoidant and have the hardest time responding to texts because it’s so overwhelming and it’s so disproportional
2025-02-07 04:56:50
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doobyscoobe_ :
This video is already making me feel icky LMAAAO
2026-05-15 20:28:32
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J :
The immediate reaction of feeling smothered with a simple “how are you” text is so real
2025-02-07 07:14:29
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NOT Mika :
I am avoidant attachment and this guy that’s my best friend, he’s really great and we the same interests; humors, game, video calling every night back then and i really wanna give him a change because i kinda feel myself liking him but the feeling while being in love or in a relationship overwhelms and and makes me uncomfortable; don’t get me wrong, im really comfortable near him and i like physical touch but when it comes to being in love or relationships i start to get uncomfortable and question everything even though i idolize the thought of love. :<
2026-08-21 11:27:42
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victoria :
So how do you differentiate between those thoughts or if you really don’t like them😭
2025-02-06 20:17:29
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Thato :
I don’t want to, hope this helps
2025-02-08 18:10:26
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enya <3 :
remind me every time u see this please :)
2025-02-07 00:33:48
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calkie :
FINALLY A WAY TO ACTUALLY START HEALING INSTEAD OF BEING TORN TO BITS IN THE COMMENTS
2025-02-09 14:37:51
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Missingseptumball 🐠 :
I just wish we weren’t as villainized bc we do want to reach out, some of us never had someone care so deeply and actually mean it
2025-02-07 16:53:30
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Andrusio :
why is anxious attachment often seen as "aww, they can't help it 🥺" and avoidants are so demonized?
2025-03-10 03:35:03
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cillian_my_love :
it's so challenging I'm tired I'm overthinking and I can't sleep 😭
2025-02-07 01:38:17
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em🌟 :
avoiding this!!!🤣🤣 byeeeee (jk)
2025-02-07 03:09:35
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eggshroom_🍉🆘🇺🇸 :
I personally have the hardest time with texting 😭 I just feel like I have no control over it and one text can spiral into a complete full grown deep conversation. I don’t wanna have.
2025-03-27 03:31:47
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Chi Khoai Bùi :
It’s even hard to listen to this 😀🥹😂 the struggle is REAL😭
2025-02-09 06:17:36
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O :
also we should remember avoidants dont chose to be this way, its just easier for them. its sad because their relationships end up hollow
2025-02-08 23:48:50
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𝚆𝚒𝚕𝚕 🌱 :
Please remind me when you see this
2025-07-22 14:23:12
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anotherearthling :
And… yeah comments were what I expected :/
2025-02-07 05:35:22
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Penélope. :
my problem is not so much the emotions that I don't want to feel, it's when I don't feel anything and the attraction and love don't come back. it's sickening. it feels like I'm incapable of love 😞
2025-02-07 22:12:24
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imnotaliyaaa 🍉 :
i tried this, but when you're dating a person with anxious attachment issues (no hate), they never really understand it? i tried to push myself but it seems that it's never enough for them?
2025-02-07 03:50:33
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Dan :
embrace your discomfort not to act on it, rather to become intimate with it.
2025-02-17 07:11:31
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🪷 Lanii :
yeah naaahhh
2025-02-07 02:25:19
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