@claireauden: Understanding cognitive dissonance in a narcissistic relationship and the number one tool for breaking it. #narcissisticrelationshiprecovery #narctok #narcissism #narcissistbehavior #narcissisticabuse #npdabuse #narcissist #narcissistsurvivor #covertnarcissist #npd #narcissisticrelationship #narctokadvice #cognitivedissonance #npdabuse

Claire Auden
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ehminty
Minty :
Who they are at the end is who they were the whole time.
2025-02-10 02:12:15
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dadwithahat
user3054328898833 :
Really hit me, a bad person can pretend to be good, but a good person can’t pretend to be bad.
2025-02-10 20:27:50
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lisa.jensen4
Lisa Jensen :
My sister is married to one
2025-03-13 21:11:01
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freyjia
freyia :
I honestly thought he was bipolar at first because I couldn't understand the mood swings.
2025-02-10 14:47:15
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ann8dote
Ann8dote :
Record them. It helps you with the dissonance. It becomes real to you if it’s recorded. ❤️❤️
2025-02-10 15:51:50
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amabedra
Andrea :
Can you talk more about reactive abuse? I believe I’m a good person but when my soon to be ex keeps pushing and pushing I turn into a monster. She even follows me and doesn’t allow me to get away.
2025-02-11 06:40:11
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jeremyaguirre50
justjim :
so true. I love him. but he keeps hurting me. but, also I think he's extremely depressed. that is why I keep with him. because I wonder if he can't help it cause he's in mental pain. not sure
2025-02-09 23:04:15
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cmclean95
korkmclean :
so true. only 4-5 months after leaving did i have so many dreams and flash backs and realisation moments where i sit and think wow they did this and that to me why did i stay.. you really don’t see it
2025-02-10 02:05:41
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1mmk._
1mmk._ :
Also remember everything they’re doing is intentionally
2025-03-26 06:19:43
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roc_maob25
roc_maob25 :
17 yrs with one, i finally healed, but managed to get into another relationship with one. took 10 weeks for me to walk. i call that progress!
2025-02-11 19:25:19
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christina_jhonston_art
Christina Johnston :
Wow a bad person can pretend to be good but a good person does not pretend to be bad…
2025-02-10 20:45:58
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andi36500
andi9999 :
it's horrible to live through
2025-02-10 05:36:53
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chikabolita
chikabolita :
Ugh so glad it’s over. I was living in a nightmare and don’t know it
2025-02-10 01:15:39
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user20183933792
user20183933792 :
I made a list of bad qualities and I read them every day but I feel like I’m desensitized to them or a part of me feels like it wasn’t that bad.
2025-02-10 17:33:14
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wisdomwitharshak
WisdomwithArshak :
You have to stop clinging to the illusion of who they were and accept the reality of who they are.
2025-02-22 15:55:48
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ashabeess
💕ashb💕 :
I just don’t know! Ahhhh
2025-02-10 15:05:48
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misdo12
Misdo1 :
I stayed because I wause terrified he would kill my children
2025-02-10 06:07:16
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angiepangie2809
angiepangie2809 :
it's been over a year since the discard and I am 9 months deep into therapy but this is what I'm still struggling with the most.
2025-02-10 07:34:29
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cocopuff571
user6935701194230 :
Spot on. I can’t let go !!!!
2025-02-10 12:32:40
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lklaurenk324
lklaurenk3 :
I’m struggling with giving up on being able to get the relationship to more of the ‘good version’. But we lived two different histories in this relationship and I don’t think that would change 😞
2025-02-10 17:48:08
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soltera7777
tasha :
Thank you I needed to hear this. I am two weeks narc free. I think I’m in the grieving stage. Or thinking I’ve done the wrong thing leaving. Making my list now.
2025-02-10 22:20:08
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midwestmama0
midwestmama0 :
omg, this is so important. best video i’ve ever seen on the topic. i had to start writing down things because i literally would hardly believe it the next day.
2025-02-10 05:33:20
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thickassmamabear
Cadance Berger :
I don't know what to do I need help
2025-02-10 20:47:46
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teresaheadley1
Teresa Headley :
Narcissists give you just enough to hold on to nothing...... that's one of the most profound statements I have ever heard!
2025-02-13 19:50:48
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beatipacifici1
Beati Pacifici :
Very informative. Explains exactly what happened to me. So confusing to see first hand.
2025-02-10 12:07:48
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