@italianlife: There’s a quiet strength in allowing yourself the time to heal. Dark times can dim your spark, making it feel like you’ve lost a part of yourself. Healing isn’t about rushing to feel okay again; it’s about trusting the process, accepting the pain, and knowing that in your own time, the light will return. Every season has its purpose. Some days will feel better than others, and that’s okay. Accepting the setbacks and trusting that things will shift in time is part of the process. Don’t let the pressure of outside expectations rush you. What really matters is how you treat yourself throughout this process, and that starts with giving yourself the space to heal without judgment. Stop thinking what you should be doing, what you should be feeling. How your actions are perceived by others. The most important thing is that YOU are okay. Your happiness doesn’t need to make sense to anyone but you. Every small step, every little action, is building momentum. What matters is how you feel about yourself, Every thing you do, no matter how insignificant—getting out of bed, making a meal, reaching out to a friend—matters. Trust that the effort you’re putting in, even when it feels invisible, is leading you somewhere better. Your energy, motivation, and passion aren’t gone for good; they’re just taking a break while you regain your footing. Keep moving forward, even if it’s slow, and know that your spark will return—maybe even brighter than before —stronger, wiser, and ready to shine once more. 💙
Lauren Quacquarelli
Region: GB
Tuesday 11 February 2025 17:31:38 GMT
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Vicki | the glutenfree mackem :
So glad you’ve found yourself again! Shine bright ✨
2025-02-11 17:37:38
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Mic :
“Don’t look at the closed door. Focus on the open window “
2025-02-11 18:34:45
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Fitful Jules :
Sono contenta che tu abbia trovato, in Italia, un posto che ora chiami casa. Nonostante la tua casa d’origine sia lontana, sono felice che c’è un paese che ti ha accolta e che senti parte di te.
2025-02-11 21:49:36
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WC :
You actually look loads happier, feminine and cutest these days. You gotta go through the dark times to find yourself ✨
2025-02-11 18:02:32
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ITALIANOVEROPUGLIA :
after the separation with my wife I spent an atrocious, devastating, dark year... I lived in pain.... now little by little the wounds are healing
2025-02-11 22:39:13
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Gareth Buttigieg Sim :
I’ll say this in Italian. Per ogni porta che troverai chiusa, troverai cento aperta. Daje!!
2025-02-11 22:21:30
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Flick Clips :
Thank you for sharing your experiences
2025-02-11 17:45:00
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conmisojos_ :
❤️nella stessa situazione
2025-02-11 17:54:02
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Elizabeth ✨ :
Uff. He broke your heart. It’s okay. That was supposed to happen. I promise you it will all work out for the best. Watch. I promise.
2025-02-11 22:58:32
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Aussie_Cate_In_Italy :
The pain teaches us a lesson in life. Listen closely. One day you’ll look back and smile. Keep pushing through. We are with you 🥰
2025-02-11 18:18:53
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Lauren In Sicily :
I moved to Italy 2.5 years ago… I’ve had some really hard days, definitely questioning whether I made the right decision… thank you for this.
2025-02-12 10:40:48
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Peace Pirate :
Takes about six months so feel vaguely normal again. The time spent thinking about it will become less and the spaces in between will become longer, until you'll go a while day without dwelling.
2025-02-12 08:01:02
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Luis Pauli :
Give God a chance, ask him for his light and he will make your star shine bright.
2025-02-11 19:44:48
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Skoolisbacknsession :
Keep that energy kid..! Onward and upward…😘
2025-02-11 17:46:27
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Mona 🇨🇦 :
I’ve seen a few of your videos and thought you were amazing then. You showing your heart and humanity just makes you that much more awesome. Keep being you ♥️🥲
2025-02-12 02:45:41
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caterina :
your amazing hold uour head up high and enjoy the rest if your life xxxx
2025-02-11 19:44:52
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ChArMiSsA :
Ti abbraccio forte✨♥️
2025-02-13 13:59:31
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Bestiediananas :
Che bella che sei 😭
2025-02-11 18:00:45
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Vane :
Siamo con te ❤️
2025-02-11 20:01:09
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WC4321 :
Good. No person that’s good for you diminishes your spark. The good ones add to it.
2025-02-11 20:26:49
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itsliswithas :
Ricorditi…. 💫 Stars don’t shine bright without the darkness ✨
2025-02-12 12:17:16
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Mic :
Ci sono giornate buone e giornate meno buone. Non è morto nessuno, chiusa una porta si apre un portone 💪
2025-02-11 18:33:57
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Jenny Santorelli - P :
@ari x your spark is definitely back now amore 🥰
2025-02-12 09:15:55
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Simon Capuccino :
Prenditi il tuo tempo per ricoverare, fai le cose che vuoi fare, per TE! You make us English/Italians proud!! Rimani forte bella ! 💙
2025-02-13 14:05:31
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marco gennaro :
Forza Lauren 🤍❤️
2025-02-11 21:25:07
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