correction: avoidants will spend the majority of their time with FRIENDS.
2025-02-14 17:40:07
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rem ! :
being an avoidant is a curse.
2025-02-19 01:26:58
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Mary Teng :
I ran from an avoidant. loving them is exhausting and hurtful
2025-02-14 04:08:03
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Pat MaGroine :
They think they are “losing themselves “ but really it’s their authentic self coming out
2025-02-13 23:36:41
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Gina :
I feel sorry for the avoidant. They will miss out on good people because of their fears
2025-02-15 07:26:30
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sosig :
Nah the biggest fear is losing independence and freedom control feels like death
2025-02-13 23:07:29
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🧚🏻♀️ :
You didn’t hold my hand…
2025-02-17 02:33:25
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Cspin65 :
They hurt you not to hurt themselves.
2025-02-13 22:23:55
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amitaparikh :
May avoidant love never find me again
2025-02-14 13:50:23
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Steve Sims :
We believe we are defective and unlovable. That is where it starts. Also, we have never felt any love so have no idea what it even looks like. We think what we have is normal until we are aware
2025-02-13 22:00:09
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DEE CEE :
The lower the expectation the more comfortable avoidants feel.
2025-02-15 06:43:05
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fran :
you've nailed it. nobody's ever known me like I've known me, and the thought of someone getting close absolutely terrifies me. they could do anything with that knowledge.
2025-02-15 12:48:16
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noe :
i feel attacked
2025-02-15 07:44:59
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. :
I never understood people that are avoidant until someone hurt and betrayed me so badly I became one
2025-02-16 12:38:33
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SYFQH :
childhood trauma sucks 😔
2025-02-21 14:19:40
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kay :
OMG IVE BECAME AVOIDANT BC OF AVOIDANT HURTING ME 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 I UNDERSTAND BOTH SIDES NOW
2025-02-13 21:15:58
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Ovifan87 :
And now my mental health has been destroyed for months.
2025-02-13 22:26:30
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thekenyaleray :
I have empathy for them but I lost myself so much dealing with an avoidant. I’m now in therapy. Please get healing guys to become secure and so you’ll only want healthy relationships. 💕
2025-02-15 14:48:18
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n 0 n a :
all i see is habits, i wanna see the solutions😭🙏
2025-02-22 21:30:28
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megan.being.megan :
I love myself enough to be ok with this now. No one can treat me as good as I treat myself and that’s ok.
2025-02-14 01:46:02
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Gabrielle Buck :
I’m avoidant because I don’t like myself and worry others will see what I see so I push away anyone that starts to get too close. I don’t even try anymore. 8 years single
2025-02-16 08:44:26
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Jenn :
They stay where it's easy
2025-02-14 10:28:44
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Carolyn :
People forget avoidants and attachments both have the same fears. One just moves towards and the other away.
2025-02-17 05:55:51
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Kaye McCoy :
They don’t care in the way that honors the relationship. They care only for their own comfort.
2025-02-15 04:41:34
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parmasantoecheese :
Well it doesn't help that avoidants always get villanized while ppl with anxious attachment are seen as the victim when both attachment styles can be equally as destructive
2025-02-24 17:30:57
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