@redditrave: I told my friend he should wait to come out as transgender until he gets his inheritance, and now he’s calling me transphobic and saying I’m a horrible person, but I was honestly just looking out for him. (u/SweetVixen1996) Update 2:25 New Post (2yrs Later) 8:18 #reddit #redditstories #redditreadings #askreddit
Sam is slow, you could’ve waited a little longer for the sake of financial stability
2025-02-14 15:16:02
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Agane :
Oooh You're too nice OP. I would have said, I told you so and left. the I'd send demand letters to those so called friends siding with him to adopt him. problem solved 😂😂😂
2025-02-14 02:43:24
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🌊 OceanBreezeyy 🌊 :
I understand wanting to come out. I’m still in the closet. But I depend on my family too much to do so right now. You have to be financially, emotionally, and mentally ready first.
2025-02-18 05:27:27
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𓍊𓋼𓍊𓋼𓍊 Raine 𓍊𓋼𓍊𓋼𓍊 :
WAIT $500 a MONTH? The rent where I’m staying is $600 a week!
2025-02-21 12:48:49
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kennedydg_ :
🎅🏻🎅🏻🎅🏻
2025-02-14 03:10:09
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Boo :
there are so many stories in reddit about ppl deciding to "come out" instead of picking the money. On this economy?! i would be so deep in the closet I'll end up in Narnia
2025-02-14 00:36:49
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teren ⦮⑅⦯🫶🏾 :
he basically willingly dodged 2.5 million dollars i’m actually sick
2025-02-14 01:57:58
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8 :
You’ll rather be trans and broke rather than being another gender and rich? In this economy?? Where health care ISNT free???
2025-02-14 00:45:15
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poo.pants69 :
as a trans person, my lips would br ZIPPED
2025-02-14 02:38:25
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Giyuu’s malewife 🗣️🗣️❗️❗️ :
Op literally warned her to get his ducks in a row just so he wouldn’t get kicked out. Did Sam listen? No, so I don’t get how OP is the one at fault when she was just trying to help Sam so she wasn’t—
2025-02-14 01:16:06
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None :
Id keep my mouth shut for 2.5 mil
2025-02-14 00:35:39
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gebble :
Sam didn't understand money and thought the world was all sunshine and daisies. He literally saw what his parents were like and thought they would change bc he's their precious baby 😑
2025-02-14 01:04:37
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buttbøøty&ñaked :
2.5 mil 😭🙏 my family would never even know till the day I die
2025-02-14 01:04:47
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Keba :
I figured he was naive about coming out but def confirmed when she said he was spoiled. He’s never going to take responsibility for
2025-02-14 01:07:06
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SansaSnarks :
OP is a great and intelligent person. Sam had gold and threw it away
2025-02-14 00:40:49
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Seyiprincesse Majek :
Sam got exactly what he deserved in my opinion🤷🏿♀️Had he listen to OP then he wouldn’t be in such situation and anyway he was a terrible friend to OP because OP wanted nothing but the best for him and yet he didn’t care about OP one bit.
2025-02-14 02:15:53
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Lore :
how can anyone turn down the absolute DELIGHT of spending a bigots money on gender affirming care??? Knowing they’d hate it?? Id LOVE TO and I’d def have waited to come out for multi-millions lol
2025-02-15 01:30:31
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Wet Socks :
Their life isn’t a movie, being nobel and honest won’t do anything good lmaooo. Just trying to make things harder for character development imo
2025-02-14 00:51:34
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🌒 Soft Squishy Werewolf 🌘 :
I understand why Sam might’ve wanted to come out earlier (hiding being trans can really rot you from the inside out) but he should’ve listened about getting his ducks in a row. He’s sounds entitled.
2025-02-14 02:05:58
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Bread :
My grandma will die not knowing I’m a lesbian and all I’m set to inherit is a 3/br house in the boonies and a couple sets of plates. My family don’t need to know what I’m doing with my life or body
2025-02-14 01:53:29
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kimpamparoosafaraway :
As an older queer man, you come out only WHEN YOU NEED TO. Before anything else, you should always prioritize your safety and your security. Everyone is out there to get you. You don't need to pretend you're straight but you don't need to expose yourself either.
2025-02-14 09:02:31
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TTPDezs :
So glad that OP got to tell him off
2025-02-14 01:03:58
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The Tale Catcher :
He basically willingly dodged 2.5 million dollars i’m actually sick
2025-02-14 12:56:51
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thelazylifecoach :
Sam figured that he would be able to mooch indefinitely off of other people once he came out to his family, and was shocked when no one else had the time, patience or money for their BS
2025-02-14 01:43:24
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Andrew :
One thing I learned is people are nevvverrr looking for advice from friends. You think so but that is never the case
2025-02-14 04:38:40
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