He doesn’t want to be updated. He wants the feeling of control from making you update him. I have one too 🤣
2025-02-14 15:35:25
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Meg :
They don’t want to coparent or be updated. They want to be informed so they aren’t speechless when asked about their children from others.
2025-03-04 01:38:30
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Kelly 🌸 :
My BD asks me every day “how is she?” “Is she okay” incapable of even using her name. Won’t make the effort to come and see her though, excuse after excuse. My daughter is 11 months old 😭
2025-02-14 14:20:42
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dwaboutallthat :
and he doesn’t even care about the updates he just wants something to tell others so he looks good
2025-03-05 22:05:59
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Kira :
the “keep me updated” when they’re unwell, as if you’ve not got enough to do
2025-02-16 01:41:30
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Kitten, LPN, RN 🐾 :
he's an active father as long as I do all the work. 🙄
2025-03-04 23:57:21
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Kylee D :
He literally just said “I have as many rights as you do” and then followed up asking me to schedule an appointment 💀
2025-03-07 00:50:35
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Jasmin :
Yes, exactly. He wants it to look as if he is a complete parent who really takes part in his child's life. With as little effort as possible.
2025-02-15 21:04:55
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Yasmeen80 :
I’ve learned I’m not obligated to tell him anything or keep him updated because he’s the one missing out
2025-03-06 14:16:57
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Deedee :
100 percent no contact. Will not be the reason he thinks he's a real father
2025-03-06 19:39:32
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Diaz :
they dont wnat to co parent they wnat to disrespect u still and think everything is okay knowing they did so much damage then turn the book on u make u look like a bad person
2025-03-07 05:10:24
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Jordan🤍 :
Mine don’t even want updates 💀🤣 just wants a chat once in blue moon to throw insults at me 😁
2025-02-14 22:02:39
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Vikki :
mine rang social services on me saying that I wasn't coping with kids and me asking him to help parent was stressing him out and making him drink I kid you not 😂😂
2025-02-14 23:46:48
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TL :
I stopped updating.
2025-03-07 04:48:07
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Katie :
My ex didn’t want to co parent or have anything to do with his daughter. Walked out 4yrs ago and hasn’t looked back since. His a coward
2025-02-14 17:49:42
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Lyza🍒 :
Wow this comment section made me look at my bd in a whole different perspective
2025-03-07 02:49:20
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Amanda Maddux :
And him only be the fun every other parent instead of actually helping with the kids everyday
2025-03-06 17:39:19
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Amy 📚🌿 :
And that’s why I went no contact with mine cos that’s exactly how it was or wanted to come and see my son when it suited him or not see him at all can’t come and go when you feel like it!
2025-02-14 20:53:32
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Dad Ezra :
Which man coparents after a woman left for two years and a half, hell no
2025-08-22 15:39:36
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💗💗💗 :
And he won’t move out because I’ll keep the kids from him, but he wouldn’t make the effort to see them 💀💀
2025-03-18 06:50:16
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amber.aldabe :
Same!!!!
2025-04-09 18:37:17
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AuDHD_Aeriandria :
Thank you for articulating this! I'm so tired... 🖤
2025-03-06 20:09:59
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Lala_london :
Exactly why I dnt talk to mine now idc
2025-03-15 22:44:12
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Paola💋 :
I stopped updating and sending pictures and he came out of nowhere accusing me that I’m keeping his child . like what ?!
2025-03-19 15:14:47
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Ana :
😩this
2025-03-16 09:38:41
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