@beyondthebruise: The fastest way to disarm a narcissist? Stop giving them anything to manipulate. #toxicrelationships #narcissisticabuse #manipulation
My mom is a narcissist, I just say "okay" and "sorry you feel that way"
2025-03-31 12:10:47
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Sally8000 :
The only way you can win is to remove yourself from their life.
2025-02-16 20:10:18
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NickyxXx :
Any interaction with a narcissist is a no no
2025-02-15 23:13:17
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Josie :
".. but I'm not arguing with you!"
2025-02-15 16:37:00
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linda :
this does not work , it makes things worse if anything
2025-02-19 15:26:19
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Emjey :
Be mindful that a narcissist may try to frame you as one. They often use projection, making you question yourself and even believe you might be the problem.
2025-02-24 16:20:38
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nunya :
nope that doesnt work. a plain “ok.” with no emotion is what works best. even if you dont agree. say “ok” and stare at them without smiling, crying, looking scared or anything. trust me it works and its foolproof
2025-09-23 03:04:19
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_vicious_vixen ✨🧨 :
My favorite is “ Don’t care!”
2025-02-20 18:40:08
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Kimbralinaaa❤️ :
I always say “Okay, I understand” to everything hahahahahahaha. They hate it.
2025-07-05 04:58:07
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Omg :
Best way is just not be around them
2025-02-19 10:09:55
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hermenaphilas :
I think this is very uneducated, clearly everyone’s idea of a narcissist is from pop culture instead of psychology you can’t say “ you know how narcissistic” NPD is different in anyone and there’s many types
2026-08-11 21:47:29
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Miss Andrist🖕 :
no contact is the only way to go.
2025-04-29 17:58:31
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SMB :
I’d love to use this advice but my secret to “winning” was to leave. For good.
2025-02-24 23:48:21
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ִֶָ🦢TheFoxyRaven♡ :
silence, gray rock, don't permit them to be around you
2025-02-15 16:26:48
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Alison :
Unfortunately, they then take that and use that phrase to conveniently not address the only shared matter: the kids. So, be careful because they will
2025-02-15 21:56:35
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Shebbies :
how do you move on inside tho after you leave… afterwards …
2025-02-15 12:35:37
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CyberpunkRadio :
Didn’t work against mine. She would say “what, are you faking being emotionless because you think I’m abusive?”
2025-10-20 19:49:06
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🖤 M.G.C 🖤 :
“Argue with yourself” then smile and walk away! Promise it works
2025-02-19 12:44:55
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Becky | Black Sheep Coach :
Absolutely, stopped playing the game 6 years ago, haven’t heard from them since lol
2025-02-26 19:11:31
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nowoh49 :
lol what they keep going and going no matter what 95% of people have definitely tried that, you could go dead silent and theyd only get nastier and nastier
2025-02-15 15:42:40
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journalistenamateuren :
just say..I don t really care
2025-02-26 07:37:54
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Candylina :
Something even better… just say ‘Ok’ and leave 😎
2025-02-22 23:43:05
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nadiacafc :
I did this and he started shouting louder and called me names.
2025-07-16 10:03:31
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MetzliRayne :
I have been saying even less. I say OK. No matter the argument. And silence. LIFE CHANGER!
2025-02-22 01:10:23
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Leia Harris :
As someone who dealt with a few narcissists, this is so wrong. The way to win is to go completely silent. Answering IS reacting. They will twist it. Refusing to engage is NOT engaging at all. I learned this the hard way with my ex and after 5 years, I gave him the silent treatment and it drove him crazy. Never give them way to twist anything. Silence is key.
2025-10-22 11:23:20
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