Not As We Planned
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Saturday 15 February 2025 15:04:01 GMT
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kaylasadventure333 :
And then…they gaslight you saying you’re not capable of expressing yourself…🤔
2025-02-16 02:39:22
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Cecilie Gyldenkærne :
Is it a red flag on me or them?
2025-02-16 21:04:55
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AndWhy?🤐 :
I walked away silently cause I knew all of the different types of abuse that were going to follow
2025-02-16 10:08:26
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Damascus :
Could be how you share. If the reaction is consistent, it might be you who is the common denominator, not them.
2025-02-16 22:17:49
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Salma Paruk :
Currently struggling with this with a friend but I don’t think she’s aware of how much she’s offended me
2025-02-20 03:26:29
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Martin :
And that’s why I ended up walking away from my marriage because all I ever did was stay silent because I was “trained” into this staying quiet.
2025-02-16 22:04:21
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user3697584165700 :
Completely agree…
2025-02-16 07:26:57
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Anu :
100% true … they trained you & you woke up
2025-02-15 19:08:18
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rach.bn :
When they turn it around and fall out with you and make you feel wrong for expressing your feelings….
2025-02-17 11:03:16
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markie.art :
especially when you know they're going to disagree for the sake of disagreement without a legitimate point. cut the contact!
2025-02-17 02:52:09
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pandorabox992 :
After he hurt my feelings, and I said it, he told me: you’re too sensitive.
2025-03-02 21:22:58
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Mary Harper :
Too true. Problem is in the middle of it you don’t even realise how toxic that is.
2025-02-16 19:39:02
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Ellie | gentle healing :
Not me wishing I’d come across this 3 years ago ❤️
2025-02-16 19:59:10
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Dillion Lalor :
Because it always is negative.
2025-02-17 15:48:12
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tjbland :
Had this in my marriage and then again in a relationship recently with someone I had known for years. We started seeing each other and when she moved in she changed….Narc behaviour.😩 1yr no contact
2025-02-18 08:42:28
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Clodagh OLeary342 :
Totally agree, I went through this all he wanted was for me to sit and look pretty and not to express any feelings or opinions so I dumped him feeling much better now 😊
2025-02-16 15:24:10
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Carly :
Totally agree!!!
2025-02-16 09:14:53
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jcoll15 :
Took me to long to realise this i constantly made excuses for his behaviour constantly putting my own needs last 🥺
2025-03-08 08:09:27
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The Arsenal Cats 🐈 🐈⬛ :
My ex used to turn off his phone for days if I dared give any criticism 😂 looking back was mental.
2025-02-16 13:28:04
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sermbis :
Sometimes the delivery of your feelings is just as important. if you come out attacking because you've been holding it in for too long then it's definitely an argument waiting to happen.
2025-02-16 12:32:14
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Sarah’s time to bee 🐝 :
😔 23yrs of treading on egg shells- divorce filed for 💔
2025-02-17 23:59:04
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Liana (Lily) :
Question. What if it’s just your own negative narrative? If u choose to silence yourself out of fear, isn’t that self abandonment & not on the other person? Because if u feel that way, then why stay?
2025-02-17 07:41:00
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Belfast ni :
Biggest red flag that circle hand gesture while talking 😳
2025-02-18 07:51:54
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extrabigasstaco :
Please let my parents enter the chat, oh wait, accountability is their kryptonite 😐
2025-02-18 08:12:53
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Emotional Solutions :
Expectations overriding the basic human need of connection.
2025-02-16 15:17:21
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