Not As We Planned
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Saturday 15 February 2025 15:04:01 GMT
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Cecilie Gyldenkærne :
Is it a red flag on me or them?
2025-02-16 21:04:55
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kaylasadventure333 :
And then…they gaslight you saying you’re not capable of expressing yourself…🤔
2025-02-16 02:39:22
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Anu :
100% true … they trained you & you woke up
2025-02-15 19:08:18
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Dillion Lalor :
Because it always is negative.
2025-02-17 15:48:12
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Martin :
And that’s why I ended up walking away from my marriage because all I ever did was stay silent because I was “trained” into this staying quiet.
2025-02-16 22:04:21
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markie.art :
especially when you know they're going to disagree for the sake of disagreement without a legitimate point. cut the contact!
2025-02-17 02:52:09
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rach.bn :
When they turn it around and fall out with you and make you feel wrong for expressing your feelings….
2025-02-17 11:03:16
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user3697584165700 :
Completely agree…
2025-02-16 07:26:57
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Clodagh OLeary342 :
Totally agree, I went through this all he wanted was for me to sit and look pretty and not to express any feelings or opinions so I dumped him feeling much better now 😊
2025-02-16 15:24:10
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Carly :
Totally agree!!!
2025-02-16 09:14:53
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AleeshaSas :
I walked away silently cause I knew all of the different types of abuse that were going to follow
2025-02-16 10:08:26
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Ellie | gentle healing :
Not me wishing I’d come across this 3 years ago ❤️
2025-02-16 19:59:10
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pandorabox992 :
After he hurt my feelings, and I said it, he told me: you’re too sensitive.
2025-03-02 21:22:58
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Belfast ni :
Biggest red flag that circle hand gesture while talking 😳
2025-02-18 07:51:54
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jcoll15 :
Took me to long to realise this i constantly made excuses for his behaviour constantly putting my own needs last 🥺
2025-03-08 08:09:27
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Mary Harper :
Too true. Problem is in the middle of it you don’t even realise how toxic that is.
2025-02-16 19:39:02
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tjbland :
Had this in my marriage and then again in a relationship recently with someone I had known for years. We started seeing each other and when she moved in she changed….Narc behaviour.😩 1yr no contact
2025-02-18 08:42:28
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Sarah’s time to bee 🐝 :
😔 23yrs of treading on egg shells- divorce filed for 💔
2025-02-17 23:59:04
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The Arsenal Cats 🐈 🐈⬛ :
My ex used to turn off his phone for days if I dared give any criticism 😂 looking back was mental.
2025-02-16 13:28:04
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sermbis :
Sometimes the delivery of your feelings is just as important. if you come out attacking because you've been holding it in for too long then it's definitely an argument waiting to happen.
2025-02-16 12:32:14
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Damascus :
Could be how you share. If the reaction is consistent, it might be you who is the common denominator, not them.
2025-02-16 22:17:49
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Salma Paruk :
Currently struggling with this with a friend but I don’t think she’s aware of how much she’s offended me
2025-02-20 03:26:29
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extrabigasstaco :
Please let my parents enter the chat, oh wait, accountability is their kryptonite 😐
2025-02-18 08:12:53
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Mark D Urry Creator of Emotion :
Expectations overriding the basic human need of connection.
2025-02-16 15:17:21
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Chelle102 :
Be careful not to do this after abuse in your healthy relationships. I have to force myself to give him the chance to react positively x
2025-02-16 12:08:00
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