the truth about all avoidants is they know they're going to bail from the start but choose to use you for validation anyway, nothing else matters
2025-02-17 12:05:32
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eden :
Do you think they come back even if they block you? He’s had me blocked for 2 months now but before that I was the ‘love of his life’
2025-02-18 16:35:53
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Kim :
What about fearful avoidant. What do they want
2025-02-17 12:58:49
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Rob :
My wife left 4 weeks ago via a message on WhatsApp. So sad but I understand her DA type. I want to help her but I can't.
2025-02-17 17:47:37
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StartAgain_heal :
How many times he will keep texting or coming back ? Till I close the door for good? Cuz that’s what’s up…. After 2 years together now he comes in and out 2 days ago saying he wants to sleep W others
2025-02-19 18:06:29
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ShawnaG :
I’m not sure if they can have a happier life with a secure as the secure attacher can still have relationships boundaries, goals and needs?
2025-02-18 00:32:07
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Rog Wormull :
describes my ex 🙏
2025-02-17 15:29:11
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✈️ :
today he called me and said " I was going to let you in I was thinking about it today now I'm not " what the hell is that ?
2025-02-18 01:08:16
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Honda boy :
3 months now still didn't heard from her
2025-05-10 11:33:15
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TravelwithAslom :
Thank you. It’s so painful but I’m begining to understand the styles. I wish I could tell her to look at it too
2025-04-29 20:05:18
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Jalsh :
Not worth the stress and trauma at all. They can go seek therapy first
2025-04-12 00:02:53
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Sapphô 🇨🇦 :
DA are not loveable.. They cannot accept care and gentleness, anything ressembling emotionnal intimacy will trigger them. I wish so hard I never met my DA it DESTROYED me.
2025-02-18 20:29:52
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Tech Mex :
all I heard was AVOID avoidants at ALL costs. They will break you and never work on themselves. All these coaches just semi condone their behavior.
2025-02-24 03:20:18
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blue_crush_summer :
A heartbreak coach? Did you go to university for that?
2025-02-17 16:27:34
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erythrium :
they always find a motive. or a 1000. they have to look suficient, or simply generate
2025-02-17 20:14:00
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jadeloueh :
but how can they shift so much after break up ? like being so okay with 0 contact for months like nothing happened ? it looks like the whole thing was fake
2025-02-18 20:09:57
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Jenn :
All it brings is hurt
2025-02-18 11:07:55
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Ali :
Found this very helpful Olivia. I’m a dismissive avoidant. Currently having counselling
2025-02-17 19:02:35
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Sam 💕💞 :
Should send this to my ex
2025-02-17 16:48:20
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MM official :
Know the 🚩🚩🚩 and just never let a DA near to you. Give them what they want: Distance. Just avoid any DA … it will make your life happier. Believe me.
2025-02-17 19:52:15
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Catarina Espada :
What if they never actually break up with you blame the fact they suddenly went so cold because they got a lot work to focus on but 6 weeks later they put their new girl on social media?
2025-02-17 21:35:42
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Albi :
Yeah she breadcrumbed me for 4 months only to tell me in the end “she doesn’t have feelings for me anymore “
2025-02-18 00:17:59
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Nattie3310 :
What happens when the DA discards, even though as an AA I know now what they need and am willing to give them that…….
2025-04-06 16:22:11
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Leigh🍒 :
Was with him 4 months out the blue said there was a problem in the relationship now it’s ended everything was good before x
2025-03-29 08:29:30
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JamieH1990 :
what if you had a conflict over nothing and say Naranacist things
2025-02-17 23:11:10
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Moira Jo :
Yes they do want love but they can pull away if they feel themselves falling in love
2025-04-07 13:44:06
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udisan1 :
Their grown up children push them away from good relationship , because their are jealous,
2025-03-15 05:48:06
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She’s a Derry girl ❤️🤍 🇮🇪 :
Should u pursue it or let them go when they withdraw but also let u know they don’t want to 🤷🏻♀️
2025-02-21 21:46:20
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Greg bradon :
Are you having hard breakup I'm your relationship and want to fixed it or getting your Ex back visit a psychic reading his page @psychic hopson 🖤🖤🖤
2025-02-19 01:19:45
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condo77 :
no they don't.
2025-02-18 00:25:45
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Shabs97 :
If i had power to vanish something from earth it would be avoidant
2025-03-10 02:26:21
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