@_olivialesurfwray: Dismissive avoidants may pull away, but that doesn’t mean they don’t want love and connection. Understanding their behavior can help you navigate relationships with them, whether you're anxious, secure, or avoidant yourself. Let’s break it down!❤️‍🩹 #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #AnxiousAttachment #SecureAttachment #AttachmentTheory #Relationships #BreakupHealing #EmotionalIntelligence #LoveAndAttachment #DatingAdvice #RelationshipPatterns #SelfAwareness #HealingJourney #PersonalGrowth #PsychologyFacts #SelfLove #LoveAndRelationships #FearOfIntimacy #InnerWork #EmotionalHealing #RelationshipAdvice #DatingTips #Boundaries #TraumaHealing #CommunicationSkills #KnowYourWorth #RelationshipGoals #SelfDiscovery #EmotionalConnection #MindfulDating #ex #heartbreak #nocontactrule #nocontact #therapy #therapytiktok #lifecoach #relationshipcoach #HealingJourney

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mrjblack777
Joshua Black :
the truth about all avoidants is they know they're going to bail from the start but choose to use you for validation anyway, nothing else matters
2025-02-17 12:05:32
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edennnalice
eden :
Do you think they come back even if they block you? He’s had me blocked for 2 months now but before that I was the ‘love of his life’
2025-02-18 16:35:53
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kim1213_
Kim :
What about fearful avoidant. What do they want
2025-02-17 12:58:49
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lookingfortheorangeone_
Rob :
My wife left 4 weeks ago via a message on WhatsApp. So sad but I understand her DA type. I want to help her but I can't.
2025-02-17 17:47:37
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startagain_heal
StartAgain_heal :
How many times he will keep texting or coming back ? Till I close the door for good? Cuz that’s what’s up…. After 2 years together now he comes in and out 2 days ago saying he wants to sleep W others
2025-02-19 18:06:29
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shawnag0
ShawnaG :
I’m not sure if they can have a happier life with a secure as the secure attacher can still have relationships boundaries, goals and needs?
2025-02-18 00:32:07
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thedodgersaurus
Rog Wormull :
describes my ex 🙏
2025-02-17 15:29:11
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eyestotheskies1
✈️ :
today he called me and said " I was going to let you in I was thinking about it today now I'm not " what the hell is that ?
2025-02-18 01:08:16
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ridahlakay0
Honda boy :
3 months now still didn't heard from her
2025-05-10 11:33:15
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travelwithaslom
TravelwithAslom :
Thank you. It’s so painful but I’m begining to understand the styles. I wish I could tell her to look at it too
2025-04-29 20:05:18
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jalsh85
Jalsh :
Not worth the stress and trauma at all. They can go seek therapy first
2025-04-12 00:02:53
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kini911
Sapphô 🇨🇦 :
DA are not loveable.. They cannot accept care and gentleness, anything ressembling emotionnal intimacy will trigger them. I wish so hard I never met my DA it DESTROYED me.
2025-02-18 20:29:52
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tech_mex_27
Tech Mex :
all I heard was AVOID avoidants at ALL costs. They will break you and never work on themselves. All these coaches just semi condone their behavior.
2025-02-24 03:20:18
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blue_crush_summer
blue_crush_summer :
A heartbreak coach? Did you go to university for that?
2025-02-17 16:27:34
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erythrium
erythrium :
they always find a motive. or a 1000. they have to look suficient, or simply generate
2025-02-17 20:14:00
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jadeloueh
jadeloueh :
but how can they shift so much after break up ? like being so okay with 0 contact for months like nothing happened ? it looks like the whole thing was fake
2025-02-18 20:09:57
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jennme74
Jenn :
All it brings is hurt
2025-02-18 11:07:55
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user4351534170001
Ali :
Found this very helpful Olivia. I’m a dismissive avoidant. Currently having counselling
2025-02-17 19:02:35
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samantha1982__
Sam 💕💞 :
Should send this to my ex
2025-02-17 16:48:20
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merzi_official
MM official :
Know the 🚩🚩🚩 and just never let a DA near to you. Give them what they want: Distance. Just avoid any DA … it will make your life happier. Believe me.
2025-02-17 19:52:15
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catarinaespada2
Catarina Espada :
What if they never actually break up with you blame the fact they suddenly went so cold because they got a lot work to focus on but 6 weeks later they put their new girl on social media?
2025-02-17 21:35:42
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dajtialbi
Albi :
Yeah she breadcrumbed me for 4 months only to tell me in the end “she doesn’t have feelings for me anymore “
2025-02-18 00:17:59
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nattie3310
Nattie3310 :
What happens when the DA discards, even though as an AA I know now what they need and am willing to give them that…….
2025-04-06 16:22:11
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leighstewart30
Leigh🍒 :
Was with him 4 months out the blue said there was a problem in the relationship now it’s ended everything was good before x
2025-03-29 08:29:30
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jayhladdy90
JamieH1990 :
what if you had a conflict over nothing and say Naranacist things
2025-02-17 23:11:10
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moira.jo
Moira Jo :
Yes they do want love but they can pull away if they feel themselves falling in love
2025-04-07 13:44:06
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udisan1
udisan1 :
Their grown up children push them away from good relationship , because their are jealous,
2025-03-15 05:48:06
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elaine..browne
She’s a Derry girl ❤️🤍 🇮🇪 :
Should u pursue it or let them go when they withdraw but also let u know they don’t want to 🤷🏻‍♀️
2025-02-21 21:46:20
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greg.bradon
Greg bradon :
Are you having hard breakup I'm your relationship and want to fixed it or getting your Ex back visit a psychic reading his page @psychic hopson 🖤🖤🖤
2025-02-19 01:19:45
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scondo77
condo77 :
no they don't.
2025-02-18 00:25:45
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shabiryousafzai
Shabs97 :
If i had power to vanish something from earth it would be avoidant
2025-03-10 02:26:21
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