I feel like I start to get annoyed or disgusted with people as I get closer to them. Is that because of avoidant attachment or could it be something else?
2025-03-24 23:09:22
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aqua 🧚🏽♀️✨ :
I’m disorganized. People with avoidant attachment literally don’t know how to give or receive love, most don’t even date. I feel people confuse narcissists who actively date then discard for avoidants
2025-02-19 02:00:07
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Deez :
This is so me
2025-02-19 01:09:50
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Mackenzie 🪬🪐 :
I don’t understand myself. I’m avoidant but I love being close to people. I overthink whether I have feelings for a person but I decide on that I do. I push people away but genuinely get anxious when they are around because I’m scared they’ll leave. Idk if I am anxious attachment becoming avoidant or other way around but I’ve always been so loving with my past relationships I just feel like it’s slowly transforming maybe because of maturity or growth or healing I just want to love and be loved
2025-07-18 20:49:22
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☆Mae☆ :
believe it or not my mother was the reason I have this attachment style for the simple fact seeing her ball her eyes out every night because my father didn't know how to love her right terrified me to the point I became like him because what if I end up like my mama. im just scared
2025-07-31 18:16:10
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s0ph14.011 :
Can you do an another part of becoming more attractive without changing looks
2025-02-19 01:03:24
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han :
Hellooo I have a question! Would you be able to please explain why I may fear intimacy ?
2025-02-19 14:56:56
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⋆. 𐙚˚࿔ Hailey 𝜗𝜚˚⋆ :
I don’t think I can be fixed
2025-12-07 03:18:04
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Gigglebutt🇨🇺 :
Dude I hadn’t dated anyone in 2 years, and I just got out of a relationship back in December that lasted 5 months and it was horrible, I’m literally afraid to try again, and he had REALLY bad anxious attachment.
2025-06-11 23:20:46
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ihearttpauu :
Oh yuh my show is on [proud]
2025-02-19 04:08:15
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Aisha★ :
i wish you were my mom
2025-02-19 15:32:02
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H ⎊‼️ :
These videos js keep popping up fire frfr
2025-02-19 04:05:19
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walter white :
hold up my show is on
2025-02-20 15:49:09
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“ needing support does not mean that you’re needy”!!!!
2025-02-24 06:22:34
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Mandi :
Dang this is so me
2025-02-20 04:16:05
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Ur mama :
I grew up in an environment where expressing your feelings was wrong and crying was “useless” I’m still young and the closer I’ve been to a relationship I’ve ruined it by closing off… how can this be fixed??
2025-05-18 20:30:00
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Senna (Ethans version)💛 :
im avoidant. my now ex is an amazing person but he really lovebombed me by lime saying he loves me forever. this made me distant and eventhough weve talked i always feel too guilty to get closer again
2025-02-22 22:44:40
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v1perrose :
What if you had an emotionally overbearing caregiver and have avoidant attachment?
2025-08-15 20:04:33
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yalz ⚽️ :
you’re so cool. i appreciate you spreading your knowledge in such a cohesive, concise and understanding way for anyone who doesn’t study psych
2025-02-19 14:34:44
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🦨💨 :
I can talk about my emotions, I just hate when people depend on me.
2026-03-30 05:45:49
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la BriOche :
I think i can have it except im really close to my friends and have strong relationships with people just not romanticaly. romantic love it the most thereathening
2026-02-12 00:49:54
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username11211211211211 :
I don’t fear it. I just get so irrationally angry when someone that I used to like tries to talk to me or connect with me? I don’t know why every single person that I try and date I end up hating.
2025-12-05 02:54:35
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Hugiii💋🪷 :
Oh
2025-02-20 07:07:29
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savannah :
This doesn’t make sense to me. I’m 14 but growing up I’ve felt none of those childhood things but I feel sick to my stomach and can’t breathe when I’m smothered and constantly hung around and I just want to be normal but it’s so hard. It’s not fair because I really want them but it’s not like I’m scared but I just slowly hurt them and it’s terrible. And people always say that it’s just an excuse doesn’t get how hard it is. I literally can’t do it and once I don’t have them anymore, I need them so bad I just don’t understand.
2025-10-10 02:03:22
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stargazergays :
When it comes to romantic relationships, I’m definitely avoidant, but I don’t get into relationships because I know this about myself. It’s important not to force yourself to do something you weren’t ready for. When it comes to friends, I definitely can form deeper connections. However, I was someone that a lot of people came to with issues when I was younger so now that I’m older it’s hard to deal with it.
2025-10-30 21:20:27
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