Having to explain the mental load is ALSO the mental load
2025-02-20 13:35:29
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GRACE GILES :
Having to constantly remind your partner to do things or ask is so frustrating. I wish they’d just do it.
2025-02-19 23:52:04
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Sarah Santos 🇨🇦 :
You forgot the part where he asks you to “make me a list”
2025-02-20 06:52:07
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mamamadememories2024 :
Had this conversation, they said “well we can switch to formula” SIR!!!
2025-02-19 19:56:30
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B.Palmieri :
If only they actually listened after the rant 🙄
2025-02-19 21:03:49
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Lester Higgs :
You forgot the part where she goes to grab a clean bottle and he forgot to do them after assuring her he would take on the mental load… 😭
2025-02-20 04:41:09
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S :
They know. They don’t care.
2025-02-20 05:21:39
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Em :
And the bottles were never cleaned, she gave up and just did it herself from now on. 😒
2025-02-19 23:14:34
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lyss 🧸 :
this was a huge fight we always had, he was always like what can I do to help?? i’m like bro LOOK AROUND
2025-02-20 06:01:11
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mia blanchard :
“she BLINDSIDED me with a divorce”
2025-02-22 00:58:58
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the_3_amigos :
My husband says he's willing to cook dinner but wants me to tell him what to make. Dude, deciding what's for dinner is 75% of the mental load!
2025-02-21 19:36:35
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Hestia :
Followed by them forgetting, we remind them, then they act like they’re being attacked for not being “perfect” bc they keep forgetting
2025-02-20 18:05:55
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KristyRae :
My husband and I have different mental loads to deal with. Assuming he or I should read each others minds is ridiculous. It’s ok to ask our partners to do a task
2025-03-10 03:13:06
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emilydiazslp :
And then they’ll remind you that you should lower your expectations in this crazy season of life 😂😂😂
2025-02-20 13:29:03
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Kaitlyn :
Literally the most relatable TikTok I’ve ever seen
2025-02-19 20:09:49
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🎀 Whitney 🌈 :
You forgot the next clip of you losing your cool because the bottles aren't clean after he claimed to understand 🤣
2025-02-21 01:40:00
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The Veronica :
+ the 9000764784 questions that come with the task assignment.
2025-02-19 23:47:46
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Stephanie :
....And he never washed a bottle again....
2025-02-19 23:59:25
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Trav :
I'm noting this for my pregnant wifey I wanna be a good dad
2025-02-21 03:09:15
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Sierra :
When I switched to exclusively pumping, my husband started washing my pumps and bottles. Literally takes so much of the mental load off. So thankful
2025-02-19 20:49:12
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de :
I yelled one time about it and now he cleans up the kitchen and the bottles and packs his own lunch lmao 🤷🏽♀️
2025-02-19 22:52:48
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Rachel 🪬 :
And then later he says “The divorce came out of nowhere! She should have just asked me to do what she needed!” 😔😳🤬
2025-02-20 06:22:22
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