@ashleyjames: Is it ok for a man to compliment a woman he doesn’t know? This is what Nick and I discussed on This Morning last week off the back of a new poll that revealed that a compliment can boost a persons entire week! ❤️🙌🏻 I think Nick raised an important point during the conversation that he would worry about complimenting a woman he didn’t know in this day and age. I do actually understand why he - and so many other older men - feel nervous to do or say the wrong thing in fear of unintentionally offending or upsetting a woman. I’m so pleased we were able to discuss this publicly because it allowed me to raise the points I did. There is a huge difference between a compliment and harassment. If a man tells me I look nice or he loves my outfit with no expectation or ill intent - that is of course acceptable. However I think men have to be mindful of the environment and overall feeling of fear that women feel living their lives. Most of us fear walking home alone, or drinks being spiked. The fear Is always there - even fearing rejecting men. Whatever your thoughts on catcalling - it’s something men don’t have to deal with because they are not objectified walking around and minding their business. That said, of course there’s a difference between a compliment and a catcall. It’s the tone and the manner and how respectful it is. I have to say that I love doing the show with Nick - he’s nothing but kind and respectful to me on and off camera him. I hope we show that you can have differing opinions and debate them out in a respectful and non aggressive manner. It makes me sad that men who have GOOD intentions feel fear - but I also think their fear is nothing compared to ours. And I think that’s why the poll showed that most women value praise from other women much more highly! Nothing makes me feel better than a compliment from another woman! I always try to compliment people I see too, even when it feels uncomfortable. Anyway, what do you guys think? Do you like compliments from strangers? #fyp #thismorning

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empowered.and.autistic
.°。ꕤ Jas ꕤ。°. :
men just need to use their brain.
2025-02-20 19:04:14
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shadefairley
shadefairley :
Exactly, a man said to me the other day, “Excuse me, can I just say, I really love your coat, it looks great on you!” and it was so pleasant because he immediately went on his way after I said Ty
2025-02-20 15:41:49
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buffyhikes
BuffyHikes :
Women know the intent behind words. We’ve dealt with it since we were little girls. We know if a man is genuine or not.
2025-02-21 01:52:40
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elle_kell
Lauren Kelso :
It’s loitering with expectation after the compliment that we don’t like. You can compliment something I have CHOSEN and if you get a thanks then great!
2025-02-20 17:24:05
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msstasl
MsStasL :
Sorry you're nervous about complimenting strangers. I'm nervous men will kill me.
2025-03-10 09:36:49
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skooma68
Aims 🥀 :
She explained it perfectly and that gammon made a pathetic joke. Standard 🤠
2025-03-05 08:53:50
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what_a_day1
Em :
Tbh if they can’t work out how “ooo your dress looks lovely 🤤” and “oh that dress really suits you 🥰“ are different then I would rather they stay away and 🤐 it’s wilful ignorance at this point
2025-02-20 15:10:19
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spodz_
Spodz :
Yeah but the compliments aren’t “that speech was great” they’re “you look so well for your age”. How hard is it for a man in his 60 to understand the difference
2025-02-20 13:19:14
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janakanansmanjanabana
janakanansmanjanabana :
Glad she addressed the difference in feeling unsafe and them not feeling welcome to compliment
2025-02-27 10:05:34
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yarndog2
indygirl :
why is nick ferrari on this show?
2025-04-12 08:33:27
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epifloyd
epifloyd :
I find the idea of any stranger offering random compliments to be very weird and uncomfortable.
2025-04-11 11:08:56
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mrbuttscarlton
mrbuttscarlton :
"Hey, I just wanted to say that outfit really suits you, have a nice day" or "Hey, you're make-up looks amazing, you're definitely ready to take on the world today, have a good one" It ain't hard bro.
2025-02-21 12:34:00
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born.at.night
Nth :
someone once told me in passing " you have beautiful eyes" and that was it, we both went our separate ways. if you want to compliment do it but you're not gonna get anything in return l
2025-03-11 12:54:17
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spiritedlondon
Spirited3 :
Probably a week doesn’t go by where I haven’t told a woman that I like some aspect of her style.
2025-02-21 10:59:09
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bexyporter
Becca Porter :
You always say the right thing love listening you 👌👌👌
2025-02-20 16:52:05
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irongiantpfp
Iron Giant :
Ofc people can compliment each other. Just avoid being creepy and seggsual. I like the colour of your shirt, not that shirt looks hot on you
2025-02-20 20:28:07
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rogue_ryder1
Samantha :
There is a compliment and then there is creepy sexual comments. There is very much a difference. And a genuine man knows the difference.
2025-02-20 19:36:22
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jebelrum
Dale :
The issue is that men tend to only compliment women they want to sleep with and they think it’s a currency exchange. They compliment as a form of payment and get mad when they don’t get what they want
2025-02-21 07:17:11
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imytheillustrator
Imy G :
The way he had to make the boring Donald trump joke at the end because he couldn’t go against what she had said 🙄 they never shut up fr
2025-02-21 16:37:28
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reneejefferycounselling
Renee Jeffery | Counsellor :
If a man gave us a compliment you know it would come with an expectation, hence why women don’t trust them.
2025-02-21 10:54:26
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mememaster484
MemeMaster :
men oy give compliments because they expect something in return, they literally have no idea you can just be nice to a woman and not expect anything
2025-02-21 17:29:05
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allgood5143
allgood :
She nailed it and then he made it weird
2025-02-20 17:13:50
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onnycoo
Nnyco :
most men think "nice arse, babe" is a compliment
2025-02-21 12:07:32
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