@classically.musically: Never ask people how they are doing in life or how they are feeling; many are deeply hurt, ashamed, emaciated, and broken into pieces. Yet, they often act as if nothing is wrong, presenting themselves as the most blissful beings, smiling like morning flowers in full bloom. The life you are living is similar to the lives of others; your needs are often the same as theirs. So instead of asking, focus on being kind and genuine. Even when facing pain, this approach can turn suffering into a sweetness of growth.