Matthias J Barker
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Sunday 23 February 2025 17:26:27 GMT
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Kathianne Mirras Sna :
But she needs to know that what she did to her brother was wrong.
2025-02-25 13:59:47
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Lynne Grisdale :
Adults need this so much as well
2025-02-23 17:56:17
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💜👑Erica V :
That’s fine for your daughter but your son also has feelings. His should not be ignored while addressing hers.
2025-02-24 06:26:37
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Kat Hobson :
she's still needs to understand she did something wrong. you're just teaching her she will get whatever she wants whenever she wants it, no matter her actions...
2025-04-26 19:07:40
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Matthias J Barker :
And then there's the times I ask and she just says: "I want both balloons." And then I correct. Not bad to teach lessons (obviously) it's about that initial reflex.
2025-02-23 17:27:13
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Rebecca :
I just became guardian of my grandson (11) after my son’s death and I’m trying not to make the same mistakes this time around and he grows up feeling loved, supported and confident. This was awesome.
2025-02-24 04:13:58
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Me :
I don't disagree but this should be 2 parts. Understanding of why and then explaining how she shouldn't take things without asking, wanting something isn't a good enough reason. understanding and then
2025-04-21 17:27:04
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user3073047725626 :
Until your children are raised, these are unproved methods
2025-03-02 00:55:44
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Lil' Momma :
I agree and we also have a responsibility to teach our kids that they won't always get what they want, they won't always get what others have and teach them to deal with those feelings when unresolved
2025-02-23 18:35:30
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suepach :
Let us know when you have a teenage diva on your hands it all sounds wonderful but do we know how the other child felt during this ordeal back again to we do our best to
2025-03-28 15:29:48
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Erin :
I wish I heard this 18 years ago. thank you
2025-02-23 18:37:06
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L to the B :
I like the part about asking what’s going on. I don’t agree with immediately fixing the problem to make her happy after acting that way. Need to reinforce her communicating her wants beforehand
2025-02-23 20:44:11
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✨𝕂𝕖𝕣𝕣𝕪𝕆𝕟ℙ𝕠𝕚𝕟𝕥𝕖✨ :
This is great. I was raised harsh & therefore I parented a lil less harsh but Wow this really put it in perspective. Thank you
2025-02-23 19:22:11
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user453640106437 :
she should still apologize to her brother for taking his balloon and explain to her why what she did wasn't kind.
2025-03-21 04:56:51
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Ovonnismark :
So, she learned if she wants something she can take it from others because her needs Trump everything. It’s all about her needs not what’s right. Yes?
2025-02-28 02:23:09
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The Website Guy :
this is wrong on so many levels lmao. what about the brother? is this girl gonna learn to assume everyone understands her? she'll literally struggle in basic communication
2025-04-16 11:30:43
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Trïce🌻 :
just dont forget to finish off by telling her what she did was wrong and that she made her sibling sad which isn't good. this approach without the follow-up leads to an entitled kid instead
2025-04-22 10:13:17
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Rebecca ⭐️ :
This is so important and effective!! Hard to remember when you as the parent are activated too, but always worth it to slow down
2025-02-23 17:59:10
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John❌️💙 :
I am reading "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, Or Self-Involved Parents" It's breaking my heart because it's what I experienced and now how I parent
2025-04-16 00:37:58
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Reginald :
Wow this is good
2025-02-23 18:12:27
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Indigo :
inquire and understand.. so much to learn, hope I do
2025-02-24 01:29:04
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cbrrado :
doesn't teach her not to take something that's not hers
2025-03-02 04:43:20
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Ostyael :
So how do you explain all of us that enjoy spending time around our parents and they never did any of this. The concept may have value, but my gripe is the claim that it lead to a specific feeling or problem.
2025-03-10 19:50:42
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Freddie :
The parenting expert with 2 years experience. 😂😂😂😂😂
2025-03-10 21:06:16
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andrewsingh147 :
this is nice and all but she still needs to know what she did was wrong. we can't do what we want just because we feel a certain way.
2025-03-10 09:24:49
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