Mack
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GraphicAle :
They also start to tell themselves a different version of the relationship so they justify their behavior
2025-02-24 17:30:42
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JetsettingGinger :
Worst pain of my life
2025-02-24 21:08:58
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M :
Truer words never spoken. It’s all fantasy, a doll on a shelf to pull down when they feel like it.
2025-02-24 17:26:18
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samantha :
Chasing the fantasy. Sounds about right....
2025-02-24 17:12:09
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sosig :
Anxious also are in a fantasy romanticising a bad partner it’s a shared fantasy
2025-02-24 21:03:18
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tiny but iconic 💐💃👠 :
No one has broken me more than a DA. I was healing from a previous narcissistic abusive relationship when I met my DA and to say that DA broke me even more it’s something else 😢
2025-02-24 17:56:32
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🌿EmmaVictoria44🌿 :
💯.. he wanted all my light with none of my dark. he suppressed his wants & needs & expected me to do the same
2025-02-24 20:43:38
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Talayah :
Avoidants are the absolute worst. This video was on point.
2025-02-24 23:46:33
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Carmina88 :
Exactly! It’s a capacity issue they can’t give anything they are stingy with everything their time, money and emotions because they are emotionally unavailable
2025-02-26 00:58:47
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Silvia09 :
Is it the same explanation that they refuse to commit because feelings are too intense and they can’t manage them?
2025-02-24 16:47:50
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Nicole 🌻☀️ :
Constant mind games, & emotional/mental turmoil is what happens. 😵💫 I was in such an unhealthy place mentally, while having an FA/leaning DA in my life, and I’m protecting my peace now.
2025-02-24 18:49:27
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natlajune.com :
And this is why they’ll look for someone else who doesn’t excite them so much. It won’t hurt as much to lose them as it would you.
2025-02-26 05:31:11
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Vysehrad6 :
I didn’t ask for much at all.
2025-02-25 14:31:44
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InitialJewelryLIVE :
So destructive . Literally play around with people’s hearts and feelings
2025-02-25 05:26:20
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Sapphô 🇨🇦 :
I curse the day I met my DA... I hate the day I met her so much
2025-02-24 22:57:46
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PleazeChill🖤 :
I had to tell my avoidant ex this last night. It was gut wrenching “I know you love and care about me as a person, but you don’t want ME, you want the idea you have of me and the role I fill”.
2025-02-26 15:26:57
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JulieMarie123 :
Yeah, even the tiniest of needs/asks will instantly scare them off.
2025-02-24 22:52:50
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stephanie.dickerson :
I don’t understand how they don’t see that as time wasting and Groundhog Day.
2025-02-27 01:30:20
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Carmina88 :
You know what I noticed as well when my DA is eating something he doesn’t offer any to me it’s like he had to fend for himself or something it was so weird to me
2025-02-26 01:01:23
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Jayeddy20 :
AN AVOIDANT IS A NARCISSIST!! DAMN THE INTENTIONS!
2025-02-25 21:54:04
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Monica Chhugani | Writer :
I can’t tell if this makes it worse or better..
2025-02-25 03:45:12
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@jessfreitas79 :
It's the most awful pain💔
2025-02-25 02:31:31
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rocking50 :
spot on. bye. I was there for three years during his darkest times. he couldn't be there for me. he gaslit me. ghosted me. went silent. he used me. he needs to go to therapy. bye
2025-02-24 23:32:40
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Ashley :
Well said, Mack. That’s what I realized weeks ago- my DA wants a wife, but he doesn’t want to be a husband. He wants kids, but he doesn’t want to be a dad 😔
2025-02-24 18:49:06
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Earn Points Everyday! :
100% true lady, 100% true
2025-02-24 17:22:07
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